Lately I've noticed that after camming for so long I've developed a sixth sense when it comes to guys who enter my free chat. Just based on their name and the first couple of things that they say I am almost always able to accurately determine who is serious about getting a show and who's there to waste time. I thought it'd be fun to put together a list of all the things that make our spidey senses tingle and raise the warning bells that a guy is just looking for a freebie and not a show. Here are some things that clue me in as to a guy's intentions:
- If a guy has anything to do with "money" in his user name, he's not there for a show. Guys who advertise that they have a lot of money usually end up having $0 to spend. Don't be fooled.
- If a guy asks if you have toys he might do a show. If a guy asks to see your toys, he's not really interested in a show. No idea why this is but it's invariably true for me.
- If a guy asks repeated and specific questions about one of your body parts, your sexual preferences, or anything of that nature, he's not trying to get a show. He's trying to get free dirty talk.
- If a guy compares you to other models, he's not trying to do a show. I don't care if he's giving you "advice" that girls who do x, y, and z and making bank and you can too! No. He just wants to see you do xyz for his own personal gratification.
- If a guy tells you he wants to do a show with you but he just needs you to get him hard first, this guy is not trying to do a show. He's already wanking in free chat and just needs a little more teasing on your part to push him over the edge. Don't do it.
- If a guy asks you to stand up bb or do a twirl, guess what? He's not trying to do a show. If he's not clever enough to look at your profile pics or tip a little for his request, he's not clever enough to click on the button to take you private.
- If the first thing a guy asks you is where you're from, he's not trying to do a show. He's trying to figure out if you're close enough to be his fuck buddy. Good customers may eventually ask where you're from just to make conversation but if that's the guy's first question, you know his intentions.
- If a guy says something like, "Tip, guys!" Know what that means? He can't do it himself. No need to give him too much attention. \
- If a guy asks if you like white guys/black guys/Spanish guys/college guys/army guys, etc. know what that means? That means he's trying to boost his own ego by thinking that a pretty girl like you would be personally interested in a guy like him. Because if you're interested in him for who he is, he'll never ever have to pay you for a show, am I right?
- If a guy asks you why he should do a show with you and not another model, like you have to prove yourself or something, you know what that means/? You guess it! He's not trying to do a show.
So those are just some things that I've noticed. I'm really curious to see what things you ladies have come across that are fool proof signs that a guy has no intention of paying.



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But, I do think that the more you cam the more you can tell when a guy is serious or not by what he types, the way he types, how he replies to you, etc. It's really a talent I'm quite proud of, as it's saved me so much time and energy now that I'm really able to better recognize who's serious and who just wants to get the most they can for free.
But at least I've acknowledged him so I don't look rude to the rest of the room, and laid the boundary that while I'm not trying to rip anyone off I'm not going to allow myself to get ripped off either.


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