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    Default Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    Lately I've noticed that after camming for so long I've developed a sixth sense when it comes to guys who enter my free chat. Just based on their name and the first couple of things that they say I am almost always able to accurately determine who is serious about getting a show and who's there to waste time. I thought it'd be fun to put together a list of all the things that make our spidey senses tingle and raise the warning bells that a guy is just looking for a freebie and not a show. Here are some things that clue me in as to a guy's intentions:

    - If a guy has anything to do with "money" in his user name, he's not there for a show. Guys who advertise that they have a lot of money usually end up having $0 to spend. Don't be fooled.

    - If a guy asks if you have toys he might do a show. If a guy asks to see your toys, he's not really interested in a show. No idea why this is but it's invariably true for me.

    - If a guy asks repeated and specific questions about one of your body parts, your sexual preferences, or anything of that nature, he's not trying to get a show. He's trying to get free dirty talk.

    - If a guy compares you to other models, he's not trying to do a show. I don't care if he's giving you "advice" that girls who do x, y, and z and making bank and you can too! No. He just wants to see you do xyz for his own personal gratification.

    - If a guy tells you he wants to do a show with you but he just needs you to get him hard first, this guy is not trying to do a show. He's already wanking in free chat and just needs a little more teasing on your part to push him over the edge. Don't do it.

    - If a guy asks you to stand up bb or do a twirl, guess what? He's not trying to do a show. If he's not clever enough to look at your profile pics or tip a little for his request, he's not clever enough to click on the button to take you private.

    - If the first thing a guy asks you is where you're from, he's not trying to do a show. He's trying to figure out if you're close enough to be his fuck buddy. Good customers may eventually ask where you're from just to make conversation but if that's the guy's first question, you know his intentions.

    - If a guy says something like, "Tip, guys!" Know what that means? He can't do it himself. No need to give him too much attention. \

    - If a guy asks if you like white guys/black guys/Spanish guys/college guys/army guys, etc. know what that means? That means he's trying to boost his own ego by thinking that a pretty girl like you would be personally interested in a guy like him. Because if you're interested in him for who he is, he'll never ever have to pay you for a show, am I right?

    - If a guy asks you why he should do a show with you and not another model, like you have to prove yourself or something, you know what that means/? You guess it! He's not trying to do a show.

    So those are just some things that I've noticed. I'm really curious to see what things you ladies have come across that are fool proof signs that a guy has no intention of paying.

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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    Great thread! I am a newbie with only like 11 hours camming so I don't have much to contribute, but I can at least say that I have already encountered a LOT of these, very very common for guys to ask where I am from, to show my ass or to give a 'preview' before show or trying to get me to talk dirty. Oh and also I've had a couple of guys giving me 'advice' on how to bank. Ha!
    I know that these guys are just a waste of time but what do you girls do? Do you just ignore them? I don't wanna be rude with anybody but I don't want to entertain freeloaders either... What do you think?

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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    Great thread! I am a newbie with only like 11 hours camming so I don't have much to contribute, but I can at least say that I have already encountered a LOT of these, very very common for guys to ask where I am from, to show my ass or to give a 'preview' before show or trying to get me to talk dirty. Oh and also I've had a couple of guys giving me 'advice' on how to bank. Ha!
    I know that these guys are just a waste of time but what do you girls do? Do you just ignore them? I don't wanna be rude with anybody but I don't want to entertain freeloaders either... What do you think?

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    When they come in and immediately address me as "Mistress" or tell me theyll do anything I tell them to,theyre my slave for life,that theyre a sissy and currently sitting in panties and a bra etc-when its their first time in my rm and havent even tipped yet.The few genuine slaves i have have always come in and acted "normal",theyre always courteous and generally dont talk about domination in free at all,except to ask if they may take me exclusive for a domme session.

    If they come in and ask about dick sizes - most of my paying SPH guys tip their hats to it in their usernames and tend to just ask if i do SPH before whisking me away to exclusive.I always LOL at the ones that come in and ask if i love big cocks,tell me i must love only huge ones,exclaim they have tiny peens etc, 99% of them have been complete time wasters and I shut em down quicklike.

    I dont necessarily think that a guy is a timewaster/freeloader if he asks where Im from first though - Ive seen sooo many ladies say all of them are just trying to find out where you live for free REAL sex lol but Ive had quite a few paying custies ask me this just to break the ice and get to know me a lil better.I just watch what comes AFTER they ask me where Im from,the freeloaders usually give themselves away in the very next sentence or two lol

    If they ask me if I offer a certain type of show or have a certain type of bodypart,yet continue to ask or talk about it after Ive told them they can find all the info they need in my profile or in my pics.If they wont even take the time to scroll down for 2 sec,they normally wont take the time to hit that GOLD or prvt button either!

    GREAT thread Court,looking forward to reading others input!
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    If you are ashamed of your body don't expect someone to pay to see it. If you can't act like your body is a treasure how DARE you charge people to see it.


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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    Slave guys addressing you as Mistress and asking what you want them to do for you. They will not pay you, because they are playing their fetish already.
    Guys who ask if you have some very specific outfit and say you have to show or even model it so they could see if it is what they want - they just want you to get up and do things for them.
    Guys lavishing compliments on you - compliments are often followed by "will you be so nice as you look and show me a nipple please - just one?"
    Guys claiming themselves "customers" after spending a few cents on you or just hanging around in your free chat for months - they act like it entitles them to free treats.
    Guys giving an overly graphic description of what they want to do - looks like they get off on seeing that amateur erotica next to your picture.
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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    Just wanna point out that none of these rules is 100% accurate. One of my better regs has money in his username. I've had guys see my toys and then take me pvt. I've converted guys who want me to twirl. There is potential for every guy, you just gotta have the right hustle to match their personality.

    That said, guys who say "do X for pvt" will 100% never go pvt




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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    Oh, these rules are definitely not 100% accurate But, I do think that the more you cam the more you can tell when a guy is serious or not by what he types, the way he types, how he replies to you, etc. It's really a talent I'm quite proud of, as it's saved me so much time and energy now that I'm really able to better recognize who's serious and who just wants to get the most they can for free.

    Another one I just thought of right after I started this thread: if the first thing a guy says to you is "view my cam," he's not trying to do a show. 95% of the time when that's the first thing a guy says to me and I reply with, "Sure, I love viewing cams in private chat or for a tip!" they leave without a second word. Usually if guys are serious they will ask if you c2c and if so, how much do you charge? Or at least say hello to you first, lol. Only one time has a guy ever deviated from this rule in my experience.


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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    Any guy who has his dick size in his user name, or comes in bragging about his dick size and asks you if you have had anything as large before.

    For me, those guys are only freeloader and time-wasters....every damn time.


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    Quote Originally Posted by sugarplumfairy View Post
    Great thread! I am a newbie with only like 11 hours camming so I don't have much to contribute, but I can at least say that I have already encountered a LOT of these, very very common for guys to ask where I am from, to show my ass or to give a 'preview' before show or trying to get me to talk dirty. Oh and also I've had a couple of guys giving me 'advice' on how to bank. Ha!
    I know that these guys are just a waste of time but what do you girls do? Do you just ignore them? I don't wanna be rude with anybody but I don't want to entertain freeloaders either... What do you think?
    Thank you, sugarplum! As far as what I do, well, I always have it in my room topic that I will show tits or ass for tips. So if a guy asks me to turn around I'll be like sure bb, I'll be happy to show you my booty once you tip like it says in the room topic. I say it in a sweet tone of voice but it also makes it clear that if I'm going to show him something sexually provocative I expect to be compensated, that is just standard. I only get rude with guys when they are rude or disrespectful towards me. When guys come out with ridiculous things like, "I'll give you $100 if you show me your tits right now," I will just smile and say, "I don't need $100, hun, I only ask for $5 for a flash." Of course they never tip the $5 But at least I've acknowledged him so I don't look rude to the rest of the room, and laid the boundary that while I'm not trying to rip anyone off I'm not going to allow myself to get ripped off either.

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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    If a guy asks you what your private rate is... he's not going to do a show.

    If you have to ask, you can't afford it!!!

    I do have to disagree with this one tho:
    "- If the first thing a guy asks you is where you're from, he's not trying to do a show. He's trying to figure out if you're close enough to be his fuck buddy. Good customers may eventually ask where you're from just to make conversation but if that's the guy's first question, you know his intentions."

    I find that A LOT of guys ask me where I'm from right off the bat and then end up taking me private.
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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    If a guy asks if you take coupons or tries to enter a coupon code,hes not gonna pay

    If he asks for a veterans discount,says hes a soldier and asks if youd like to serve your country or states its his birthday,hes not gonna pay

    If a guy tries to get you to shit,fart or piss in free,hes not going to pay

    If they send you a pic of their junk or give you their phone number or skype name in free,theyre probly not going private either (unless theyve spent money on you already-then that usually means hes either run/running out of money or is starting to like you waaaaay too much and you may need to order bear strength mase just in case)

    If they tell you they work on your site too and just want to be friends and share stories and advice,they arent going private either

    If he asks in free if youll get naked as soon as he takes you private or if he takes you private and then screams "get naked!pound pussy!pound ass! double penetration now! hurry bb hurry! hurry! HURRYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! then hes not gonna pay a dime either,unless he accidentally hits 31 sec

    lol this is fun! i could keep going...and going...and going...
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    If you are ashamed of your body don't expect someone to pay to see it. If you can't act like your body is a treasure how DARE you charge people to see it.

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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    The statement about guys with 'money' in their name is so true! Screen names having to do with money ('baller', 'money', 'tipper', etc.) are guys who don't tip me, and for some reason guys with the name 'Jay'. LOL.

    And often times you can tell by the first comments out of a guy's mouth whether or not he'll pay. I try to be friendly to everyone though, UNTIL they fuck up. And every once in a while, a guy who I originally thought "Ugh, another time-waster!" will surprise me and end up spending some money.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post

    - If a guy asks if you like white guys/black guys/Spanish guys/college guys/army guys, etc. know what that means? That means he's trying to boost his own ego by thinking that a pretty girl like you would be personally interested in a guy like him. Because if you're interested in him for who he is, he'll never ever have to pay you for a show, am I right?
    I have had a different experience specially with guys who ask me if I like younger guys. I am 36 and they are around 19-25. More times than not they take me to private and they are smokin hot with plenty of $$$ to spend.

    I might tend to agree with the other scenarios though.
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    "....because all that hotness should be shared and not go to waste".

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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    the kind of guys that come in and say something like this.....
    Jeff: hello, I'm Jeff, 33, single, Los Angeles

    yuck, they never pay
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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    It varies from girl to girl but here are the syndromes of fuckers who won't pay in my room:

    ~Cum into your room and will not acknowledge after you greeted them.

    ~ Asking me to lower my rates to $1.99 per minute. Want to know why am I so expensive!

    ~ Telling me they would rather have fun with me in person.

    ~ Telling me to take more clothes off before private/exclusive.

    ~ Provide personal e-mail in free chat.

    ~ Telling me to hold on, brb!

    These are only just a few but you get the drill. Their foolery exceeds the limits of my medication!


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    Quote Originally Posted by VoluptiousBriadda View Post

    If they tell you they work on your site too and just want to be friends and share stories and advice,they arent going private either.
    I had a guy in my room say he was also a sm model, and I ignored him, but out of curiosity looked up his 'cam name' and it was indeed a model, but I didn't believe HE was the model, so he took me exclusive and we did cam2cam. It was actually him! I was like whaaat? lol He did a few more privates with me and tipped, but I haven't seen him in awhile.

    Edit:Marina already listed mine lol. But, um let's see...the guys who tell me they're 'at work' or 'just bored' usually just wanna sit in my room and talk, but don't pay. Some of them do, though.


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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    anything demanding pretty much. any requests with out a tip, and more than a couple questions about what you're comfortable doing in pvt.

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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    Guys who use superstars/celebrity names are usually teenagers.

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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    I have had spendy guys under every one of the categories listed so far lol. As for the demanding ones, many want to be turned into subs. They like a sassy woman with power. I have never cammed with a cam boy or have been asked if I take coupons though.

    I don't think you can judge a person by their first impression. You have to keep in mind that many of these guys have trouble with women IRL because they're awkward. They don't know what they are supposed to do or say.

    Unless hes annoying or spamming or abusive trying to get a rise, I don't block. And even those, when ignored, sometimes still take me exclusive because all they really wanted was attention in the first place and I didn't give it to him/didn't give enough in free chat.

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    "I need to get credits bb, be right back."

    I'll never understand that one. Just leave! Although they do surprise me and return ever so often, so I always try to act excited. Lol.


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    Quote Originally Posted by ABigNerd View Post
    Guys with drug references in their names never go private with me. If I work it right, I can get most anyone else to do a show, but never the 420luvr4U guys. They just want to tell me about their blunts.
    ^Lol, I actually have a different reaction. Seems the druggie guys LOVE me. Maybe I get the coke addicts? Lmao.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MommieLongLegs View Post
    I had a guy in my room say he was also a sm model, and I ignored him, but out of curiosity looked up his 'cam name' and it was indeed a model, but I didn't believe HE was the model, so he took me exclusive and we did cam2cam. It was actually him! I was like whaaat? lol He did a few more privates with me and tipped, but I haven't seen him in awhile.
    I had a guy that was also a sm model. I looked up his name and it was true. He took me private cam2cam a couple of times. Then came back and just wanted to talk in my free chat. I get annoyed if they are constantly in my free chat for a long time and not taking me private.
    I also have guys that say are you going to be here in 30 minutes or a hour I'll take you private. Some never come back and some do. I also had guys that are in my free chat and never say anything even when I address them then boom they take me private. So you never really know.
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    Default Re: Cam girl intuition: Spotting the guys who won't pay

    How could I have forgotten the guy who was unemployed and asked me if I could do a show for food stamps. Lmao I couldn't make this ish up if I tried. Yeah, homeboy wasn't gonna pay. Unless you consider food stamps currency O.o

    And of course there's the obvious, "Do x first and then I'll tip you." I didn't even include this in my initial list because it's so blatant but if there are any really really new girls reading just remember, would *you* pay for something after you get it for free???

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlondebombGA View Post
    "I need to get credits bb, be right back."

    I'll never understand that one. Just leave! Although they do surprise me and return ever so often, so I always try to act excited. Lol.
    Funny you should say that, I was only asking my bf about that one the other night, he said its because they feel like they are being rude if they just leave so its something to say. He sometimes checks out other ladies rooms, when he leaves he always thanks them for their time, oh and he knows not to take up time and attention when they are busy with the hustle.
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