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    Sad When I'm drunk I'm constantly paranoid I'm going to be fired

    Is this a common thing that girls feel? Or am I just overly paranoid?

    I use to be a really bad alcoholic that would drink up to a bottle at work. I'm not sure why I got into the habit because I have a solid track record of making great $$$ sober so during the middle of last year, I quit cold turkey. Now about 95% of my days I work stone cold sober.

    I have days where I slip up if I'm doing several hours of VIP. I guess I get bored by myself when I'm with the same guy for hours and hours so I tend to drink (especially if the guy is awful, boring, grabby). Anyways, after I'm drunk, I'm constantly paranoid that the club is going to fire me for some obscure reason (or because the customer tried something fucked up and blame me for it). I don't do extras, cause drama, or do anything at all that violates club rules but I'm scared that when I clock in the next day that they'll be all "oh you were terminated."

    I guess I feel this way because I've had two friends that were fired last year. One was legitimate (she fired on the spot for doing handjobs) and the other was given no explanation as to why she was fired. She just went in and they told her that she could no longer work there. I've never heard of that happening so I wonder if she's just not telling me the reason or if I should be genuinely concerned about my job.

    I make fantastic money here so I'd be really sad if anything happened

    I get really bad guilt from drinking at work and it stresses me out the entire day afterwards until I go back to work. I know the solution is to simply "not drink" but I hope you can empathize that my will power is only so strong especially considering I had a prior addiction.

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    Default Re: When I'm drunk I'm constantly paranoid I'm going to be fired

    I feel like she wasn't telling you the reason why she was fired.

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    Default Re: When I'm drunk I'm constantly paranoid I'm going to be fired

    Quote Originally Posted by Cheyennedaisy View Post
    I feel like she wasn't telling you the reason why she was fired.
    Part of me strongly believes this but I know that she's a trustworthy person so I'm conflicted of which story to take.

    I always imagined that if you were to be fired, they'd tell you up front, not passively do it and then refuse to tell you why you were fired.

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    Default Re: When I'm drunk I'm constantly paranoid I'm going to be fired

    If I do drink too much at work, I always apologize to the manager the next day & they laugh it off because the only thing I really do when I am drunk is over tip the staff, make a lot of $$ then call my hubby to come get me.

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    Default Re: When I'm drunk I'm constantly paranoid I'm going to be fired

    Quote Originally Posted by lighthouse View Post
    I always imagined that if you were to be fired, they'd tell you up front, not passively do it and then refuse to tell you why you were fired.
    Club management is notoriously passive with rejection, so I wouldn't be surprised if your friend was telling the truth and management didn't give her a reason.

    However, I wouldn't let that make you paranoid that you too could get fired. I would think that it's something you could somewhat see coming or at least wouldn't be overly surprised about - unless the owner or some power-tripping manager just randomly decided that they didn't like you or your look, but your occasional drinking is hardly going to impact that, so breathe easy.

    And while, yes, the logical thing to do would be to not drink, it certainly isn't that easy in extended VIPs when the customer is drinking and wants a drinking buddy. Do you think you could get the support staff to only serve you fake drinks? I know this doesn't help your boredom of wanting to drink with certain types of customers, but not feeling guilty the next day could be worth it, and you wouldn't have to worry about your own will power.

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