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    All of us dancers have had drama over customers and getting dances that other girls think we "stole" from them...sometimes we might have (intentional or accidental), but sometimes its not anything we did--the customer just wanted to spend time/money on us for any number of reasons. But to another drunk stripper that foolishly wasted her entire night and made no money it is completely our fault...I get it, I've been pissed too about making dumb mistakes in a night and making no money--it really sucks. But I usually just say to myself that I was foolish and learn from the mistake. But some girls wage all out war on you...ranting and raving in the DR, making threats towards you, etc. Most girls look at them like they are an idiot and apologize to you for having to listen to it, some girls try to calm the other girl down, and then their is usually one other drunk idiot girl who doesn't know anything about the situation but decides she wants to act her frustrations out on you too. In our club management doesn't usually do anything unless they think it will escalate into a physical altercation. I guess I'm just venting about having to listen to somebody threaten me and having to be the "bigger" person by completely ignoring the abuse-- knowing she is a drunk idiot, piece of trash. But knowing that and being the "bigger" person doesn't make it less upsetting

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    Default Re: Girls who get mad at you for their lack of earnings

    It's interesting how this kind of bullshit happens all the time in some clubs, while not so much in others. It makes you wonder, what sets the tone? Is it the fanciness of the establishment? Or is it the way management responds to altercations? Is it just culture that emerges in each club from the personalities of the girls who are there?

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    This business is highly competitive...Its tough to swallow the pill of "no one likes me tonight"...Its rough but the best thing to do is try not to hate the girls who are doing well...Its all about having the right attitude and taking the tough nights in stride. And sometimes its hard as hell to do that..Some nights u will be in demand, other nights u wont..Thats just the harsh reality of this business. Thats why when people say this is 'easy' money, they r dead wrong..You have to be a strong minded, self assured woman to stomach this business.

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    I think the way management handles altercations has a big part to do w/ it. I know in some clubs they don't let girls bitch (at all) in the locker room, because they don't want any drama or fights. If girls were fined/suspended/fired for this type of behavior they might think twice before they act like this. I also think the economy, lack of money, has to do with it--competition is becoming fierce (especially for regulars that do rooms). Our club is a classier club for the area, but we still have a lot of trashy girls.

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    haha, I like 'its tough to swallow the pill of "no one likes me tonight" '... especially when its the other girls! (But definitely sucks when its coming from customers too!)

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    We have one girl in particular who loves to rant at the end of the night how she didn't make $; how she normally makes hundreds more etc but didn't tonight for (fill in the blank random reason)

    I just pack up my stuff & leave. It's sad girls that get that way toward other girls.

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    Default Re: Girls who get mad at you for their lack of earnings

    my first week at the second club i worked at, i had my car keyed for unknowingly getting a lot of money out of a customer who was very popular at the club..i noticed the girls there have very little do to because its so slow, and that makes the competition fiercer and also gives more time to gossip and talk shit and get into everyones business. and every new girl that earns anything or hustles ( something the vets don't feel they should have to do there) gets put through hell there..after the hazing ends, and she developes friends, the bullying stops, but it takes months and months..
    the club im at right now may have that happen ( im sure it does), but i've never had anyone get in my face or hear of anyone talking behind my back, because its busier, they are all hard-core hustlers who don't have time for the drama, and the girls there are very sweet for the most part..i think there will always be some drama, but the core group of girls, the amount of money in the club, other things like that really add to it.

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    I hate things like this.
    It is hard when you don't do well and you look at another girl who has and you wouldn't be human if you didn't wish you had done well too BUT, providing that girls not done anything untoward to get her money, It's not HER fault she did better than you.

    I can feel envy but jealousy is a much more dangerous thing!

    I know recently I had a really good night and when I came down from a long VIP a couple of girls gave me a hug and said 'Aww well done hun I'm glad, you needed a good night!' and stuff like that , you know when you can tell that somebody's genuinely pleased for you? the club's been a bit dead recently (Jan/Feb being the worst months) and whilst I never do really 'bad' unless of outside circumstances, I've not had a 'GOOD' night for a bit. It's so nice to be around people like that. That's the kind of thing that makes me want to stick to certain clubs.
    I think a lot of it's to do with management and what they're like with the girls, what behaviour they tolerate and what they do not. It's important to consider what a person is like, as well as what they look like, in stripping because it can be a bitchy environment anyway, even with the nicest people-so when you hire girls that are prone to bitchiness and jealousy and aggression, you're kind of asking for trouble!
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    [QUOTE=sugarmouse0707;2453661]
    I can feel envy but jealousy is a much more dangerous thing!"

    SOOO true! you put into words what i feel! when a girl does better than me, i don't get mad at her, i feel "envy" like " oh i wish i was as pretty/good at my job/charming,etc as she is" but i don't feel hate or jealousy..if anything i feel down on myself when i do badly and other girls do well..i envy them, but i still respect the shit out of top earners ( unless they are earning their money sabotaging other girls or being really dirty)

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    No I never get mad, and I never wish she hadn't done well and I had instead.
    I'm glad she's done well, and want to do as well as her! That's important for me otherwise I could end up feeling down on myself or not enjoyiing my work. I always earn enough for me, but I know I can do better so I keep trying, I just try to learn from the girls who consistently earn a lot more than most.
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    I had one girl bitching about how I supposedly was doing extras and that's why I made my money. I told her "I'd be the bigger person in this but you beat me to it" with a smirk and a glance at her gut. She STFU real quick.
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    that's why it's best to keep to yourself and hide your earnings as much as you can. no discussing numbers, no counting money in front of other girls, not even comments like "oh god this guy in vip was so annoying." if someone asks how much you got out of a specific customer just shrug, roll your eyes and say "not much."

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    haha, I like 'its tough to swallow the pill of "no one likes me tonight" '... especially when its the other girls! (But definitely sucks when its coming from customers too!)
    Yea, what I said may sound funny..But not really...I do agree that the people who often can hate u the most r the girls u work with...Some girls at work want me to be buddies with them, but the truth is I really dont trust any of them..This is a dog eat dog business where the girls u work w r nice to ur face and like they really like u, then call u a fat ass behind ur back...No one at work is to be trusted...Its really just a bunch of fake bullshit at its core.

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    If someone is gauche enough to ask me how much I made I usually reply with a smirk "More than you".
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    I agree on never telling people how much you earn. It's more difficult in clubs where they take a percent and pay you out at the end of the night or when it's all written down somewhere. I've been known to stay until the end that being one reason, so people don't see/hear me getting paid out. Even if people aren't bitchy, it's just not a good idea!
    If someone asks me how much I've earned or ask how long a VIP was or how many dances I've done, I play it down-I actually think it's a bit rude to ask someone how much they've earned even without other reasons!
    A girl who's a new dancer fb'd me a few weeks ago asking how much I earned the night before. I just said 'Ah enough hun thanks!' lol
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    I am so going to use the playing it down card about how much I make/how good a custy is. Idk if girls will believe me though...so many of them think I'm a top earner (but really have no clue how much I make). I can make good money, but I'm really choosy about custies (and a bit lazy!).

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    Default Re: Girls who get mad at you for their lack of earnings

    If a girl is ever being bitchy & ask me if I had a good night, I smile & say "I always have a good night", it usually ends the conversation when they realize I don't get involved in their negative mentality

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