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    Default Privacy reminder: Never tell nobody nothin'!

    Just a little reminder to never give customers your real bame, real phone number, address, personal e-mail account, or any kind of personal information you wouldn't want THE ENTIRE WORLD to know. Why? When does a cam girl ever actually get harassed? You're just paranoid, Jaana - No, I'm not.

    http://board.freeones.com/showthread...-Suzie-Diamond

    The OP of that thread has made literally 10 threads about that woman, who's retired mind you, in the two and a half weeks I've been active there. He's obsessed and clearly dangerous. Imagine if these threads were about you, wouldn' you be horrified? then imagine if you'd given your real number or real name out before and someone on that board(over 500,000 members) shared it. Granted, the admins would remove it once they saw, but what if that were too late?

    These are real problems we face working in this industry. You've got to think about all of the possible outcomes of sharing what information you share. guys like this DO EXIST.


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    Default Re: Privacy reminder: Never tell nobody nothin'!

    Kinda nice to see that most of these guys have some common sense about the separation of performer and fan, and pointed out to him that he's a creeper. Scary.


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    Default Re: Privacy reminder: Never tell nobody nothin'!

    It looks like most of the replies to that thread are telling him to NOT bother her (Yay for people with common sense!), which is good. I see that one person told him "Just don't give up. They appreciate persistence." *rolls eyes*

    And just to reiterate what Jaana's original post said, please don't allow yourself to get so comfortable in camland that you end up revealing so much personal info to people. Even your BEST spenders could turn out to be nuttier than Gilbert Gottfried (Gilbert is a GOOD kind of nutty though...lol), and sometimes you never really know how horrible a person can be until you actually get into your first fight with them. And then all Hell breaks loose...

    I know of a sweetheart cam girl from Canada who's had to move like 2 or 3 times, I believe, due to an asshole stalker(s) sending stuff to her home, etc. That is no way for a cam girl to have to live. Also, if you have any people from IRL who visit your room and have a habit of blurting out personal shit in your public chat, it's time to ban those fuckers from your room, your profile wall, and your Twitter account. I decided the other day to block the state of Maryland on MFC, because I've had two guys who know me come to my room and blurt out shit without thinking, and keeping them in my room would just make me uncomfortable.

    One cool thing about MFC...if a guy (from the area that you've blocked) is on your friends list, then he CAN access your chat room, but he can't access your profile. This is a relief, because I do have one guy from Maryland who visits me and tips. He's cool, so it would've sucked if he couldn't visit me anymore. So as long as I keep him on my friends list, he'll be able to visit my room...he just won't be able to see my profile.
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    Default Re: Privacy reminder: Never tell nobody nothin'!

    Creeper.....

    Sometimes I think about how easy it would be for a person to find me. Even though I take precautions such as never using my real name (even with cam girl friends that I talk with on the phone and my personal, non-camming social media) if a person has some cyber stalking skills you just never know.

    I often see girls giving away their phone number for money and I really hope they are being safe with that. Use a prepaid phone and pay for it in cash. I use ATT go phone, the phone itself was $20 and my plans is $55/month for unlimited calls, text, and web. Try to purchase the phone and refill cards out of town if you can. Also, it makes you type in your zip code so it can assign you the correct area code. Use a fake zip code! It doesn't matter. I wish I would have done that.

    Some of these sites like MFC have this culture where guys are so caught up in getting to know their favorite performers as a person. They want every piece of info they can get and I wonder why? And girls want to make lots of money so they'll give out things like phone numbers and even offer to meet on dates. Smh. It's got a lot of potential to get real crazy real fast.

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    Default Re: Privacy reminder: Never tell nobody nothin'!

    Man, that would be a nightmare!

    I had a guy come into my room the other day and even though he was "trying to protect my privacy" by not sharing too much information, he called me by the letter of my first real name, which is not the name that I use while camming. Thanks to years of acting school and workshops, I improvised the reaction of someone who doesn't know what they're talking about, and made him look like a weirdo in front of my whole room.

    I eventually found out who it was, I went to school with him and worked on my senior thesis with him. The idiot uses the same username all over the internet and he's the only person of a certain nationality that I know that knows both me and my boyfriend (yeah, he came into my room asking whether I was still seeing "Z"). Not only was he giving out a lot of clues for potential stalkers to put 2 and 2 together, (AKA ALL OF MY INITIALS!) and he was also going to blow my cover of being single. Thanks. So before that anymore was revealed, I banned him and told the room "well.... that was weird" and that I had no idea as to what he was talking about.Thankfully, I told the room that I had heard about this guy, that he has been in other girls' rooms blurting out random stuff just to troll. Talk about coming up with a fake story for damage control!

    I sent the guy a message to ask him if it was him. Of course he denied it and I guess, tried to make me blurt out MFC, which I didn't because I didn't want it in writing. He KNEW what I was talking about, but I disguised the writings under "anonymous blog where people don't know who I REALLY am." Needless to say, I blocked my state after that.

    In any case, even things like that could expose you to potential stalkers, so be careful girls!

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    Default Re: Privacy reminder: Never tell nobody nothin'!

    Things like this honestly cannot be stressed enough. It is NEVER worth ANY amount of money to be giving your personal information to anybody. Use a prepaid phone with a different number than your personal if you sell your number. Use a PO box other than your real address if you want to have things mailed instead of just gift cards. Pretend you're in an entirely different state/province if you want! Sometimes I'll get a ton of people all asking me 'bb where from' and I'll give a different location to every single one until one of them gets his thumb out of his ass and reads the damn profile, where it clearly states 'canada'. "Zimbabwe. Texas. Yellowknife. Timbuktu." May just be me being a smartass, but it helps people clue in that no, I will not specify exactly where I live 'just for me bb'.

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    Default Re: Privacy reminder: Never tell nobody nothin'!

    I don't really do phone calls anymore as a raffle/contest prize on MFC, just because it's time-consuming and that shit can be awkward as hell. I don't like being on the phone with a guy, and he's like "So what else do you do besides camming, or is that your only job?" For some reason, questions like that irritate me, and too many people seem to think winning a phone call means they're allowed to pry into your personal life. Plus, I didn't like it the one time I did a phone call with a 'highest tipper winner', and when I was ending the phone call, he started telling me his times of availability for future phone calls. *rolls eyes* I told him this was a ONE-TIME thing only since he had been the highest tipper. And by 'highest tipper', I mean like only 100 tokens. *rolls eyes* LOL.
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    Default Re: Privacy reminder: Never tell nobody nothin'!

    I don't get why guys think they're entitled to such personal questions, why they think it's their god-given right to know our personal information, etc.

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    Default Re: Privacy reminder: Never tell nobody nothin'!

    I would recommend everyone read Glamour Rouge's excellent thread on privacy:

    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sho...nting-stalkers
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    Default Re: Privacy reminder: Never tell nobody nothin'!

    As annoying as it is to be asked personal questions, I think most of these guys are really just trying to make small talk.
    I mean.....I often ask guys where they're from, what the weather is like there, ect ect. Just cause other than "how are you, are you horny tonight? Want me to help you with that?"
    Sometimes it's just to keep convo going.

    That being SAID, it's good to lie about such things, lol.
    Like I say I live near Toronto....partly because that's the only big city that anyone has heard of in Canada (practically) but I also live like 2 hrs away......
    Recently I've been talking about how much snow we got, but again, ALL of southern ontario did, so....
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    I'm all for people making "small talk," as long as they're using common sense and not asking stuff that's inappropriate on a SEX site. For example, if I'm in the middle of rubbing baby oil all over my naked body, and you decide to blurt out "So how's your son doing, Fox? Is he behaving himself?," I'm sorry, but that shit AIN'T cool...and I'm gonna give you a 'WTF?' look and then try to change the subject as quickly as possible.
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