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    Default Re: Escort Emergency! My fiance's parents found out everything

    I've never been an escort, but I can imagine this is a very serious issue. His parents are now going to do anything they can take separate you guys. That means they will probably try to call the police and have you arrested for prostitution.

    You need to get a new # with a completely different service, and do not give it to anyone except customers. Make a whole new persona. Use completely different pics because old ones can be reverse image searched. Hide your face. Get a different car that you keep in a garage. Move asap. Lie and say you quit, or they may start to stalk you. Cut them out of your and his life if he is okay with it. Toxic people are toxic, no matter their relation to you.

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    Default Re: Escort Emergency! My fiance's parents found out everything

    Thank you guys for helping out. I talked to him today about a restraining order. I told him I have gone from completely happy to super stressed and paranoid. He said he thinks getting a restraining order would open more crap. He says he thinks its not as easy as just telling the police we are getting harassed he said that his parents would then get real pissed and explain to the cops their suspicions and then the redneck police would immediately side with them. Of course that's just what my bf is saying but he doesn't know.
    My fear:
    Bf:'hi officer I need a restraining order against my parents'
    Police:' okay I'll let them know'
    His parents:'his girlfriend is a hooker we have evidence and they are trying to keep us away because what they are doing is illegal we have reviews and its clearly more than selling her time only.'
    Police:' okay let's try to get her and we won't do this restraining order'

    Not sure if that's how it would happen..
    but basically my bf said he isn't worrying as much as me because he said his parents are just talking and would not risk getting him in trouble because they know he is working towards a career and will be finished up in a year.
    I dont know about that, they are his parents not mine so I dont know what they are willing to do
    And basically as of today his plan is if his mom continues to not drop it he will tell her she is pushing him away and he is considering a restraining order at that point.

    but for these next 2 weeks I have several outcalls with old clients and I have given them a new number and got them feeling real sorry for me and they are giving me extra cash..so that's always nice.

    Anyone heard of the agency 'Apres Vous'? Their website looks promising

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    Default Re: Escort Emergency! My fiance's parents found out everything

    If you take down all your info and hit the restart button, then his family won't have any real proof to give to police. If they can't give the police information, then pursue a restraining order. They've already gone on your property, bossed you around on your property, and pressured you and your boyfriend on your property. File for a restraining order as soon as you take down your sites and start over. Then, plan to move as others have suggested.
    My family is VERY abusive, religious, and controlling, so even thought I've never escorted, they would be even worse than this if they found out about my dancing... Note that they haven't paid my bills in nearly ten years nor contact me often. When they found about about bikini/lingerie modeling that I'd done, my family freaked, AND the local church they attended preached against me in several sermons. Fortunately for me, as soon as I graduated high school, I left my small town for the big city and never looked to the past. You can't live anywhere near family who is this manipulative and invasive. They need to understand that they are and have been nothing more than accessories in your lives, and their opinions matter so little that you two will just leave and erase them from your lives.
    Good luck. You need to be careful when dealing with religious nuts.

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    I don't think you should let your boyfriend be a driver. If his parents report you and LE gets you, he will be charged with pimping, which is a felony. Then all his college will be for nothing as no one is going to hire someone with a recent felony.

    Maybe fake a breakup? Make his parents think he dumped you and move somewhere else?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jazzgirl View Post
    I don't think you should let your boyfriend be your driver. If his parents report you and LE gets you, he will be charged with pimping, which is a felony. Then all his college will be for nothing as no one is going to hire someone with a recent felony.

    Maybe fake a breakup? Make his parents think he dumped you and move somewhere else?
    dude, what about HER welfare if she gets caught?

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    I'm so sorry this happened to you
    I agree with what has been said above-take down all your ads. Make new contact details, contact your regulars and tell them you've had a stalker-get a new phone number. Sublet or ask for early release from your lease-tell the landlord what the parents are doing if you think you can get away with it-there may be a penalty for leaving a lease but this is your whole future that's at stake. Or sublet. Once there is NO proof left, then you can consider the restraining order-but your boyfriend needs to understand how serious this is/could get. I'm sorry I have no further advice-if the worst thing to happen now is you don't earn as much for a bit, it's a lot better than the possible outcome if you don't conceal things.
    Also, take this post down once you're satisfied with answers-just in case they find it and learn of your plans.
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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    dude, what about HER welfare if she gets caught?
    I don't know what state she is in, but in most it is a misdemeanor and if she has no previous arrests she can get it expunged.

    Thinking she is safe from harm because he has a walkie-talkie is redic.

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    ^I agree with the walkie talkie thing. OP you probably look kookie as hell! Worse than me.

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    Default Re: Escort Emergency! My fiance's parents found out everything

    op- i don't know that i blame his parents. i would not be happy either and i have worked in the adult industry on and off since i was 19.

    with that said, if you want to do what you are doing you both need to bounce hard from the situation and never look back. if you don't want to take him with you, then just up and leave and NEVER look back.

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    I think the walkie talkie is better than having pepper spray or something cause what I would do is hit the alert button and, assuming this is incall, I tell him to get his ass up in here. Outcall, I'd tell him to call the police and tell them I'm being assaulted. Some may think that's retarded but I could just see myself running outside yelling by myself.
    I have always screened strictly so I doubt I will ever have to use the walkie talkie.
    Hell, we have broke 2 leases. Because they were pieces of crap. We just got settled in this house..I wish there was some way I can still live here till lease is up. I guess the way I could do that would be invent a new persona as well as work less. All I do is hoard my money mostly so its not like I need gobs of it coming it at all times.
    An agency does sound good right about time because my mind is fried from shock.
    In the begining I started with 2 agencies in a period of about 7 weeks and both were pretty much pimp-ish and high volume+way cheap rates..reputable agencies seem to want Victoria's secret models. I sort of have model looks, but I have a few tattoos (deal killer for good agencies) and dont have major abs. I think its funny cause they think tattoos get in the way but I think I am doing just as well and just as likeable as those kind of girls they are looking for..unless even the reputable agencies use stock photos

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    If I didn't love him so much and totally convinced he is one of my soul mates, of course I would leave. Would obviously make the situation disappear. However, our relationship is nearly perfect, nearly all the years we've been together we almost never fight, few disagreements and respect each others interests and differences. We are happy just drinking tea and watching the morning news together, nearly everyday..man we are like old people, I must have been a peasant in a past life lol. I rarely even blow money, I'm future oriented with my income and the Only big spending I do would be about 2 vacations a year.

    That's why this situation is so astonishing since we are the most boring people in the world..I wish I can snap my fingers and make his parents just drop it..

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    Quote Originally Posted by sugarmouse0707 View Post
    Also, take this post down once you're satisfied with answers-just in case they find it and learn of your plans.
    Oh my, I sure hope they won't somehow know my IP address and somehow have access to my computer files..?? I'm not a tech nerd and they are like 60 so if they want to do some high tech hack-stalk combo I bet they would have to hire someone. I also just got this internet plan 3 days ago. Yeah that's how cheap I am I waited 6 months to get internet lol. Oh and, his dad could be considered wealthy as well as my parents and which they dont know yet but his dad said he is contacting my mom (as if I am 16 and she has control over me) but that was 3 weeks ago and his dad has not told my mom.

    Anyway, is there a way I can hack into his dads email? Because I know alot of his parents plotting against me is through email. Not sure if its gmail or yahoo.

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    Default Re: Escort Emergency! My fiance's parents found out everything

    If ur BF cuts his parents off it will only make them (especially the mother) crazier and more desperate, therefor more likely to do anything they can think of to ruin ur life.

    If he cuts his family off (especially his mother) of his own free will he will eventually resent u. Not ur fault but that's how it is.

    If you tell him what to do (like "u have to get a restraining order") he will resent u and if u continue to make more money than him and sort or more or less be his boss for a while... well... its just human nature. He's gonna resent u.

    Once his resentment builds he will be more likely to cheat on u, mistreat u, and take advantage of the fact that u make good money. I get that he's a good guy, he's got some things going for his own future and u guys have a lot in common, etc. But I really don't see how this relationship can be healthy in the long run.

    The fact is this woman can get u in trouble- its just a matter of how much- if she chooses to. And I wouldn't use this quote if there was any other way to say it but love will get u killed.

    The only thing I can think of is to "fake" break up with ur BF temporarily. Tell him its temporary and for the best for everyone. He will be sad and that will only make him love u more and be more willing to do for u down the line. His mother will be happy, will think she's won and will leave u alone. Hire a body guard in the meantime. U will get some time alone to plot ur next move.

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    Default Re: Escort Emergency! My fiance's parents found out everything

    agree that if they report you they are risking a felony on their son - the police do not issue restraining orders - judges do and the parents may or may not be present when the judge looks at it - threats of personal injury usually help to get one -

    the walkie talkie thing is just a false sense of security sweetie - not trying to be mean or dramatic but i have done this for 25 years and have seen many ladies attacked in some way over the years - you may or may not get an opportunity to even grab the thing before shit goes wrong - you cant ask him to stop while you get it - one friend of mine was leaving and they hugged as she walked out the door - she turned her back to grab the door knob and he grabbed her shoulder spun her around and hit her with a beer bottle in the face - this was at a hotel - of course he was caught -arrested - but she has a scar now below her eye - guy was married military and checked out so .... shit can go wrong in an instant - I carry a stun gun that looks like a cell phone and keep it out close by - it doesn't look threatening and has not yet drawn any negative attention from the guys - just my 2cents

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    Sorry for being the detractor here..

    I think you should break up with your boyfriend (for real).

    True love, soul mates, ya ya ya... whatever. Are you REALLY willing to bet the rest of your life & freedom on that rose-colored romanticism?

    It's very rare for anyone to stay together forever, especially when they get married at a young age (22). I know you're caught up in the "power and strength of true love" right now, but you have to be realistic about your life. Do you really want this to be an un-ending part of your life? Do you REALLY want to marry into that family? These kind of people can make you miserable for the rest of your life, and could even try to take your kids away from you (if you have some in the future). The harrassment over years WILL wear you down. These people are determined to ruin your life, and they probably can.

    This family is obsessesed with destroying you and your life. This isn't going to get better, it will only get worse.

    Can they get you arrested? Yes. Many escorts have been busted as the result of a nosy neighbor or hateful aquaintance alerting local police. Even if you get the charges dropped, are found innocent, get it expunged later - getting arrested WILL affect the rest of your life (and his) - future jobs, future children, etc. Your arrest will be public record, and permanently all over the internet - whether you are found innocent or not.

    To me, it would not be worth staying with this guy, no matter how in love you are right now. Think about your future.


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    Quote Originally Posted by MidWest_Companion View Post
    Oh my, I sure hope they won't somehow know my IP address and somehow have access to my computer files..?? I'm not a tech nerd and they are like 60 so if they want to do some high tech hack-stalk combo I bet they would have to hire someone. I also just got this internet plan 3 days ago. Yeah that's how cheap I am I waited 6 months to get internet lol. Oh and, his dad could be considered wealthy as well as my parents and which they dont know yet but his dad said he is contacting my mom (as if I am 16 and she has control over me) but that was 3 weeks ago and his dad has not told my mom.

    Anyway, is there a way I can hack into his dads email? Because I know alot of his parents plotting against me is through email. Not sure if its gmail or yahoo.
    I think what sugarmouse is getting at is there is a lot of detail in this post - plus you mentioned your region, age, location, cars, family members, how you and your fiance met, what he is studying, etc. If theyre going from forum / site to site looking you up, it is probably unlikely but it isnt inconceivable. Maybe youre being discreet and a lot of the detail is incorrect, but in case not it isnt too wild of a suggestion.

    Kind of like how they just simply googled his cell number to find this - ittd just be googling phrases. If someone is enraged and obsessive enough, 50 pages of tenuous google results isnt too insane to look through, ykwim. A lot of "hacking" is just patience and slowly figuring out human negligence.

    If you attempt to 'hack' their emails (aka guess their passwords), on Gmail and keep failing, theyll get an alert of the IP address trying to gain access. Which will exacerbate the drama. Also if you dont know their emails, you cant even attempt, right? And they probably all call each other regularly so... what Im saying is just remove this idea from your list of options altogether as a lot of the advice here is spot on and way more realistic.

    Sorry youre going through this.

    This, worries me:

    but basically my bf said he isn't worrying as much as me because he said his parents are just talking and would not risk getting him in trouble because they know he is working towards a career and will be finished up in a year.
    I dont know about that, they are his parents not mine so I dont know what they are willing to do
    Of course he isnt? He is in a way more comfortable position than you are? Youre the most vulnerable party here.

    Your "I dont know about that" instinct is smart, dont chase it away - bc he is just talking about himself here. What if you two break up? What if it is a messy breakup? What if their are child custody issues? What if you have a minor argument one night and he vents to one of them - and they use that minor argument as justification to go beserk. People like his family (from how you described their behavior up until now) dont just drop this kind of discovery. For your own self-protection, you need to worry more than him.

    Bear in mind they could screenshot everything now and retain it as evidence. Yes, get your ads taken down, maybe they havent taken images of them yet , but dont count on these URLs being gone as meaning that the evidence vanished.

    Often couples working together in such an isolating field or where the guy is relying on the woman for his income there is this "we're in this together" "us against the world" mentality when 9 times out of 10 (10 out of 10) the woman is against the world and the guy is just there. This is one of those instances?





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    Man this is a sticky mess, but as Obenta pointed out above, your life will be forever changed now if you marry this guy. When people have children, relationships with their own parents change, and he will probably want your kids to know their grandparents...regardless of how he feels now, so they will be in your life on some level.

    Babe, I think what I am most uncomfortable with from this whole story is that you are the breadwinner. I'm all for independent women, and I say bravo for spending wisely at your age with what I imagine is a LOT more money than your typical 22 year old. But I always have a problem with men who rely too much on their female partners, especially if she is in the sex industry. Real men...grown up men don't do that.

    Honey, most people I know, myself included, worked full-time jobs while in college. Hell, at 22 you have more energy then you are gonna have from this point on, so he needs to be working a full time job, and busting his ass to set up your life together just like you are. $200.00 is not a lot even for a college student. I imagine it is quite easy to not look for more hours, or realize he should be working more hours when he has nothing to worry about and has you to depend on. At the rates you are charging, you should be able to hire a REAL escort to go with you for protection. That's additional hours he can be working his own job, and proving to you he is man enough to put up with all this trouble.

    Please, please tell me you have your own bank account. I'm not a man hater honey. I freakin' love men, but the fact is relationships change, especially when you are young. You are apparently a very bright young women to be able to have a successful business, so use that same intelligence to logically look at the situation, and to make sure you are covering your ass...your own savings account only accessible by you (no one but you needs to ever know how much is in it), and houses, cars etc. that were purchased with your $$$ in your name only. Love is the best, and I hope he is the one and that everything works out forever, but always, always put yourself and your well being first. I have known too many women who learned this the hard way.



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    As others have pointed out, your "wonderful" boyfriend is a douchebag if you are contributing more than 50% of your expenses. Everything above 50% should go straight to your private bank account. Him being in school is no excuse. I made 30k a year while in school full-time during my 20's. He should be carrying his own weight.

    Also, let me tell you this - and pay very close attention...

    He is not worried about his family because he knows that they will love him no matter what. Later down the road, when the two of you have split up, they will still love him and forgive (and help conceal) any of his past indiscretions (including having been involved with a hooker). It is YOU whose life will have been ruined by them, and none of them will give a shit.

    If you think that he is going to forever give up his entire family for you, you are probably delusional. (Sorry)


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    Yeah, Obenta is giving you the real version honey. You need to look out for number 1 now. The situation has changed unfortunately. We may seem harsh, but we have all seen it happen before.
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    Let's be real - this is a parent's worst nightmare. I don't care how "classy" of an operation you're running, all his parents see is a prostitute who's brainwashing their baby boy.

    Quote Originally Posted by Obenta View Post

    He is not worried about his family because he knows that they will love him no matter what. Later down the road, when the two of you have split up, they will still love him and forgive (and help conceal) any of his past indiscretions (including having been involved with a hooker). It is YOU whose life will have been ruined by them, and none of them will give a shit.

    If you think that he is going to forever give up his entire family for you, you are probably delusional. (Sorry)
    There's soooo much great advice in this thread, but I couldn't resist quoting this post. Obenta is right. You two may be Romeo and Juliet now, but who's to say he won't bounce after he graduates and gets his first real job. I am a hopeless romantic, but I'm a realist too. Please guard your heart. Your man may not be in it for the long haul.

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    Thanks all for the honest advice.

    I had a big thing typed out them my phone messed up ugh

    I'm in the middle now of making my new persona and might consider the agency I said above
    but I'm sure being new Indy again won't be too bad, I just will lower my rate and guys will TOFTT

    He only has a year left of college. He is expected to contribute greatly to this household when he has a career. He makes a wrong step, I'm gone. I love being single but that's how great my love for him is but I have no problem cutting ties if he turns asshole after college but I doubt that.

    I am going to delete this thread this evening when I'm back home. I'm going to update a month or two by now to let those who are interested know how it all panned out..

    I really didn't expect people to be so supportive here, I seriously have mainly been on my own alot in life! So thanks

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    Quote Originally Posted by MidWest_Companion View Post
    Thanks all for the honest advice.

    I had a big thing typed out them my phone messed up ugh

    I'm in the middle now of making my new persona and might consider the agency I said above
    but I'm sure being new Indy again won't be too bad, I just will lower my rate and guys will TOFTT

    He only has a year left of college. He is expected to contribute greatly to this household when he has a career. He makes a wrong step, I'm gone. I love being single but that's how great my love for him is but I have no problem cutting ties if he turns asshole after college but I doubt that.

    I am going to delete this thread this evening when I'm back home. I'm going to update a month or two by now to let those who are interested know how it all panned out..

    I really didn't expect people to be so supportive here, I seriously have mainly been on my own alot in life! So thanks
    They are already stalking you. After all that they've done, surely they will follow you to see where/how you're working next. It would be very easy to do. They will never, ever stop investigating you.

    Even if you *think* you can deal with it, your boyfriend will likely tire of all the drama, family estrangement and legal risk to himself - and drop you. (again, sorry) He is already letting you support him (by having sex with other men) which shows that he is more important to you than you are to him. (Truth sucks sometimes!). Only losers, pimps and douchebags mooch off of a woman doing sexwork.

    This is like warning someone that a train is coming, but they want to stay sitting on the tracks anyway. But I do understand that sometimes people have to learn & experience on their own. Part of life I guess.

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    Please don't assume that. Me and him aren't into family and there is a hunch of other stuff as to why we are so close and he very much dislikes his family, but now I feel like I'm a stupid kid trying to explain something so..he would get a restraining order on them or do whatever it takes to stay with me I can guarantee you that..but I dont really give a shit if he stops loving me through any of this because like I said I like being alone and I'm a solitary person by nature. But I definitely will make a new thread in a few months or something. Hopefully it won't be a 'i told you so' situation but I'm going to handle this as best as I can

    On a side note, my bf has no desire to cheat on me and rarely goes out and about without me and he's not mooching off me because he wants to work alot nut I dont want him to cause it brings me comfort me and him being a team in this. I like to enter my appointments with the taste of his kiss freshly upon my lips

    Traditionally this is a single girls job though. One of the many side effects. But with the money and flexibility of schedule being the greatest payoff.

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    Neither of us want kids either I'll go ahead and throw that out there. I have no desire to bring a child intocthis world the way the world is going. We are also very 'ro ourselves' people. I will also go ahead and say this boy has never even been drunk before. He is almost Mormon without the religion part. I guess I'm trying to say is we are not a normal case of 20-something spell bound love but..it doesn't matter because his parents are the deal breaker now and how it probably will build up to climax this next few weeks will be him telling his mom to shut up about it or he can't keep contact with her, and if she keeps on which she probably will then discuss a restraining order while I hold my breath hoping the court won't find any evidence of what I do after I erase everything

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    Update us honey, and get that solo bank account set up...just in case.


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