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    Default After the dance...

    This usually only happens to me when our club is packed so I wanted to see if I handled this situation the smart way. Then I can be prepared next time it happens.

    I was able to get dances with a customer as soon as I got to his table. After a couple of dances he was done and I asked him for a tip. He gave me a few dollars and we went our separate ways. He sat down for about another 1/2 hour and I went on the hunt. I figured he paid for what he wanted and if he had wanted me to sit with him he would have tipped me better or gotten more dances.

    What is your opinion? Did I make the better decision or should I have gone to sit with him?

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    Default Re: After the dance...

    Unless the customer indicates that he wants more company or just wants take a break from dances for a few minutes, the end of the dance means the end of our time together. If I've worked the rest of the room and he's still there, I'll probably go back and see if he wants to go for round 2. But I've never felt the need to sit with a customer after having danced for him if he hasn't asked me to.

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    Default Re: After the dance...

    This depends on if you're making money off of anyone else, and how busy your club is.

    If the club isn't busy, I've tried working the room, or most of the customers are already sitting with girls -- I may go back and sit with someone who's already bought dances. I've heard people call this "returning to the well." It won't always work, but a lot of times it will! Plus you've already built rapport, so you don't need to sit down/buy drinks/etc. You can just go over and sit in his lap, ask if he's still enjoying himself, say you missed him and you're ready to play again, etc.

    ^I find especially with customers in bottle service/VIP that are in big groups (bachelor parties, birthdays, work friends, etc), they don't want to get tons of dances in a row, and they want to add some variety to their night, but they almost always will keep spending if you keep coming back.
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    Default Re: After the dance...

    Ya, I figured that if he wanted me around he would have said something or indicated it with a big tip. I just wanted to make sure I was doing what most others do so that I didn't seem like a rude cunt thats just after his money (even though it is just his money I wanted, but you guys know what I mean )

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    Default Re: After the dance...

    ...if you have other options, explore them first. If you come up empty after working the room-check up on him and see if he's interested in going again.
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    Default Re: After the dance...

    If it's not busy, as I'm getting dressed after dancing for sm1 I will ask if he'd like me to come sit w/ him after I've gotten reorganised. If it is busy, & I've had no indication from him either way, I'll tell him I'm going to go work the room but I'd love to come back & see him in a bit if he's still there. Covers all my bases.

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    After I've hit up every guy there, I'll do a second run and hit them all up again, regardless of whether or not they've already spent money on me. You never know. I've had guys who I did a dance for at the beginning of the night who tipped a little bit but nothing big, and when I came back around after a couple of hours they suddenly want to buy tons more dances and started tipping real well. It could be because they've been drinking...it could be because they found that none of the other dancers were to their taste and decided I was their favorite. Who knows.

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