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    So I can not get a date with a guy that is worth a shit. I'm starting to think maybe its me and I need to change. I'm about 5 foot and I weigh 115 lbs, I've started going to the gym to tone and tighten, I'm saving up for a boob job because I have always been unhappy with my boobs. But what I need to know is how I can improve my hair, makeup and things like that to make me I guess "prettier". This isn't the best picture ever but its the most recent one I have.
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    Default Re: I need help with my looks

    don't change because you want a bf, change for yourself to make YOU feel better ( if you, and only if, YOU want) and the rest will follow. i know it sounds hokey, but its true. men want girls who are confident in themselves, know they are hot, and don't NEED a date. i think you are very pretty. maybe a pic with no flash? no need to overpluck those eyebrows!! =)

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    Default Re: I need help with my looks

    I am your height and was once above your weight. I now weigh 102llbs and I'm a 32DDD . If you're doing this for personal reasons find a new guy. If you want to do it for financial reasons like stripping losing 15llbs and new tits never hurt anyone.
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    I think your look makes you look dated, but young. Like, it kind of reminds me of what I wore when I was in jr. high - high school. I do not think you are naturally unattractive, but I don't think your makeup is doing its job. I'd say trash the super glossy lip products, grow out/shade in your brows, and maybe grow out your hair some too. The way it is pinned and (possibly) straightened also appears dated, to me. Google Meghan Markle for what I think you should go for.

    FWIW, if you're having chronic relationship issues, I don't think your looks warrant it. I do think that finding a look that makes you more confident is always fun though.

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    I think you are beautiful! Any man that is worth dating should love you as you are. But as far as wanting to attract men, I think most like long hair, so I would just recommend growing it out or maybe getting some extensions? Invest in some good quality lipstick and eye makeup. Eyeliner on top with the line a bit extended or a smokey eye (I'm not talking Drew Carey type makeup all the way up to the lid because I think that just looks tacky! But a bit of eyeshadow and eyeliner really opens the eyes) and a light pink or nude lipstick (maybe with gloss on top.)

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    Thank you all. And I googled Meghan Markle and that is what I would dream to look like! I maybe should have went about this different other than saying a want a man. I've kinda had the same look for at least 5 years now and its killing me. Everyone thinks I'm like 14 when they meet me and I'm getting ready to turn 24 and I think it hurts me when I'm trying to find a job as well. I just graduated from college and I feel like no one takes me serious. I've not cut my hair since Nov. and I'm working on growing it out. I just really wanted others input on what I could do.

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    Matte lipstick in a darker shade (maybe a red), no more shimmery eye products (its fine while dancing but not OTC). I'm a fan of bangs. Maybe change up your clothing style if you feel like you're in a rut? Or try new activities so you meet different kinds of people who can introduce you to new things?

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    you are really pretty so whatever needs help isn't obvious in this picture
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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    This must be a major case of personal taste... because I think lilbellea is a MILLION times more beautiful than Meghan Markle.
    It's not so much thinking either is prettier as it is that Meghan Markle is usually styled in a way that I think would suit lilbellea. If she wants to find a different look, I think the matte shades that MM often wears would be a sophisticated and sexy alternative to her current style.

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    Default Re: I need help with my looks

    i would lose the earrings and wear your hair all the way down. you will look much more mature and attract similarly mature guys.

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    Default Re: I need help with my looks

    I think you're really pretty, but I'll give you my thoughts anyway ... maybe try a longer hairstyle? I think the majority of girls are more attractive if they keep their hair long, although this definitely is just a matter of opinion. Also, maybe draw in your eyebrows. Once again, it's just my personal preference but I think thicker eyebrows are much more flattering than thin eyebrows.

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    Default Re: I need help with my looks

    pin up look would be good on you, try false lashes, cat eye black liquid liner, and red lips. hot roll your hair.

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    Default Re: I need help with my looks

    You're the definition of pretty. Not sexy, not hot, just pretty. You should easily get most guys, but don't expect them to say, "wow!" like Megan Fox in her heyday would. Kind of like Hilary Duff, and possibly like Taylor Swift if you gave yourself a make-over. Though you could reach that status if you grew your hair out, and I think you could pull Christina Aguilera "dirrty" look which would put you at "wow"



    But don't change for a guy, change for yourself. (even though I change myself for tips... but I'm confident when I look like crap)

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    Default Re: I need help with my looks

    You are very naturally pretty and have a very nice olive complexion!

    The only thing I would change is a few makeup and hair things: easy fix.
    As far as makeup, I think you would look good with a liquid black eyeliner on your top lid. As far as hair, I think you would look very pretty with some highlights and lowlights.

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