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    Helloladies,

    Iam a long time lurker but first time poster. I really need some advice on whatto do. But before I go on let me give you a little info first.

    Iam a college student living with my family (I just want to state the reason whyI’m still living at home is because my plan was to live at home until I finishedcollege so I could save up as much money as I can.) My family has no idea what Ido, I keep a very low profile. In addition I use someone else’s room to doincall for both escorting & bodyrubs but this is where the problem comes in…

    SoI met this man who agreed to let me use a room in his place to conduct my businessin exchange for $20 per client. However I fucking hate him. He’s the mostinsecure, jealous, annoying person I have ever met.

    Togive a little insight he calls/texts me ALL THE TIME demanding to know where I am/whoI am with, follows me all over his house, stands right outside the door when I’mwith a client, tells me how much more beautiful other women are yet makes sexual innuendostowards me, tries to kiss me & grab my ass, belittles me, tells me how to run my business.

    Thelist could go on but the worst part is now he is demanding sexual favors as well and made it clear thatif I don’t put out then I won’t be allowed to use his place. And my god I wouldhave to become an alcoholic or addict before I do him!

    Idon’t know what to do at this point. While he provides a discreet, upscale incall location(and sometimes outcall rides) I cannot stand him at the same time I sure as hellcannot host incalls at my parents place. I could do outcalls only but i'll loose so much money because a good 97%of my business is incalls!

    Thanksfor taking the time to read this, ladies I really need your help!

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    Default Re: Incall Hell: Need Some Serious Advice!!!

    The dude is a wannabe pimp. Ur lucky he sucks at it and is not more devious and manipulating or he could pull some shit like try to blackmail u if u don't give into him. Get away from him NOW before he gets better at what he's trying to do.

    I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that if u r able to still live with ur parents u must have a pretty decent relationship with them and if ur making good money escorting u must be a pretty girl. Why not find the middle of the road, a job such as waitressing in a club or bar, shot girl, or dancer (depending on how likely friends and fam are to find out/ care) that will enable u to still make some good money while not totally lying to and betraying the people providing u with a home. After all, if ur not paying for living expenses u can't possibly need THAT much money, and u do realize that if u get arrested for prostitution u can totally ruin the future career ur going to school for.

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    Default Re: Incall Hell: Need Some Serious Advice!!!

    If you want to escort, escort. It's your body and if that's what you want to do do it but just take the necessary precautions. Know the risks and know how to protect yourself from them. I'd drop the wanna-be-pimp loser and post an ad somewhere to see if you can find another place to do your incalls. You can also try camming as well.

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    Thank you Joanna. You might be right about the wannabe pimp thing. I know he has done this to two other ladies and both of them are out of the picture now…he’s 62 years old and strikes me more as a “dirty old man type” who’s really depressed and loney but either fuck him! I’m totally disgusted by him!

    As far as the clubs go I guess I could go back but where I live the clubs suck. There is absolutely no money which is why I even got into escorting…However I don’t know if it’s even worth it anymore because ever since I have been using this guy’s place I don’t make good money anymore. Part of it is my fault though. I’ll see one or two clients a day and then call it quits because I cannot stand being around that man. I know if I were to put in more time I would make a lot more money.

    Thanks again Joanna and your absolutely right. I need to get away from this man, if not for my safety then my sanity!

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    KourtneyKay thank you. That’s a great idea! Do you know where I could post to find another incall location?

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    You can search backpage or craigslist or even some escort sites to see if any of the girls are trying to sublet or may know where some are in your area.

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    Thanks for the suggestions KourtneyKay! I’m def on the lookout!

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    You might should just find a low priced but decent apartment to rent yourself. May make it an incall instead of living there. I suppose it would have to be a secret from your parents unless you said you are moving out then lived there, take limited amount of appointments each week, up your rate and encourage multi hour appts so you are still making butt tons of money, all while working way less yet cashing up. That's what I did and it was easy livin till fancies parents found out I'm 'a whore' cause I made a mistake.

    but that's just one option.one thing I wouldn't encourage would be getting an appt and having a non escort roommate because things could go wrong with that quick.

    One bad thing I'm sure you probably know, is being an escort is a big secret and isolating when it comes to those who are close to you. So most of your options aren't going to be entirely comfortable.

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    Get away from that pimp. Get your own place (all you need is a studio apt) sublet or use hotels.

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    MidWest Companion and Obenta thank you. You know I actually thought about that, might just have to go ahead and do it.

    I wouldn’t want to actually move out yet like I said before my plan is to live with my parents until I finish school so that I can save all the money I’m earning now and put it towards my own place, a new car, and other necessities. That way I’ll be set.

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    Getting a small apt to work out of would be a small investment to make if the majority of your calls are incall.... If I had enough incall income to warrant it, I would do that, but alas, Id say for me its the opposite, like 95% of my dates are outcall so I would lose money by keeping a permanant location.

    But you seriously need to get out of this situation with this guy *quick fast and in a hurry* cause this has the potential to get ugly very quickly.
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    Hello ladies. I just want to thank you all for giving me some honest advice and encouragement. I also want to update all of you on my situation so far.

    I am no longer using that man’s house. I have found a somewhat decent hotel to work out of right now, everything is good and staff seems to like me to! However I am still looking for a small apartment that I can rent out for the purposes of conducting incalls.

    I am just so glad I got away from that SOB and want to thank all of you ladies for telling me what I needed to hear.

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    That is *great* news.... And thank you SO much for the update!!! All too often, someone will ask advice on a pressing situation, and then we all dont even get to find out how things turned out whatever choice they made...so its really cool of you to come back and show your appreciation with an update.
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    Awww that was sweet! But really thank you BlkSharpie and all of you ladies here. You guys have been so helpful in telling me what I NEEDED to hear.

    I’m so glad I took you guy’s advice and said fuck it. Even though I don’t particularly care for working out of hotels I’m glad I’m here and not there. Besides I am so much more at ease now…I have some peace of mind and it feels so good.

    Which leads me to say one last thing, you ladies taught me something very important and that is no amount of money is worth your sanity…Again thank you all for your advice and encouragement!

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    Why do people want the staff to like them?! All I can think of is you calling each other "dude", high fiving and playing poker. Stop!!! That blows my mind. It is their job to be courteous. It is your job to lay low, blend in, protect yourself and your clients. Aghh!!!!

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    There is no high fiving, calling each other “dude”, orplaying poker. Lol. What I meant by that is that I am pretty sure the staff hasa good idea about what’s going on but is really relaxed.

    However as I said before I don’t plan on staying there long.

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    ^^

    You have NO idea what the staff is like. They could be compiling information on you to conduct a sting/raid. I'm sorry but you need to grow up and move out of your parents place and conduct your business like an adult. It takes money to make money and now you're just wasting it on a room that could likely increase your chances of getting caught. Find a cheap apartment/studio and make it a live/work space. If you manage your money correctly, you'll obviously save more than enough to stay in school and afford whatever lifestyle is most reasonable for you. I'm glad you got away from the guy who was basically attempting to pimp you but you still seem pretty naive on how to feasibly take control of your own business.
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