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    How do you go about collecting payment..So here is a scenario:
    On stage, he is attentive, eye contact made, wink his way while I'm giving booty view to another custy, he feels special, ask him if he wants some private time later, meet him after my set chat, can I dance for you? Yes I would like that..deal sealed .... So what's next do I put out my hand...say well that will be 30$ please...please deposit payment here then bend over and open my garter? What do I do? I'm totally anti after dance payments.

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    "Fuck you, pay me" always works
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    Are u working now? . Sounds like a dumb question.. But it depends on where you work. *edit* I mean my question, not yours lol.
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    And I wouldn't hold your hand out, be sexy about it lol .. I noticed girls pulling open their thongs or pulling aside their bra or suggesting/inviting with their body for the customer to give it to them.. So I copied them
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    No im not dancing yet...I didn't think it was a dumb question...thats for being so concerned with my lack of intelligence... I was watching a video n at the end the girl says that will be 20$ babe and I just thought that was unattractive and was just wondering how other dancers went about it.

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    I'm sorry, I meant me not you .. As in asking if you were working was a dumb question, my bad
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    Quote Originally Posted by xoxoroxie View Post
    And I wouldn't hold your hand out, be sexy about it lol .. I noticed girls pulling open their thongs or pulling aside their bra or suggesting/inviting with their body for the customer to give it to them.. So I copied them
    This usually works, just make sure after the song is done that you mention that you're really enjoying the time with him, or that was just an appetizer, time for the main course... and then hold out your garter, or thong on the side to upsell and close him on another dance: )

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    Quote Originally Posted by Misskatia View Post
    This usually works, just make sure after the song is done that you mention that you're really enjoying the time with him, or that was just an appetizer, time for the main course... and then hold out your garter, or thong on the side to upsell and close him on another dance: )
    I had an idea.. To rub my booty on the customer and ask for another dance hehe.. Will try it
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    It's really not as unattractive or complicated as you seem to think it is, though I suppose you'll understand that once you actually start dancing. Most customers don't need to be told it's time to pay once the dance ends, they'll just start pulling out cash or ask how many that was. If they don't, gently remind them - "That was x# dances, so that's $x plus whatever you want to tip me for being so cute!" I take the money in my hand because I like to discreetly check it's the right amount, but you can also have them slide it into your garter if you're so inclined.

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    Kind of off topic but the other night for probably the very first time I had a customer pay me after lap dances ask me, "Uh, where do a put it?" Like he felt weird just handing me the money! It was funny.

    I would venture to say *most* women in this business collect payment after dances, not before. My current club has a rule that we should collect after every 3 songs, but I do not heed this usually because I do think it kills the momentum. I just gently let them know each time a new song starts, and get my money at the end. Sometimes people will pay upfront, but this is usually in the scenario where a guy is buying his friend a dance.

    It might feel weird at first when you ask for payment, but you'll get used to it very quickly. Just try not to be unsure of yourself, be sweet and confident about it.
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    Ooo sorry I'm quite an ass for that I'm having a bad day...went to another club just to hear we'll call you in mid-March we aren't looking right now

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    No need to be sorry for anything. I'm sorry to hear about the club situation -- Keep looking, I'm sure you'll find a good one soon!
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    I tell them politely that I always get the first dance up front. After that I typically collect every 2-3 dances. I do count the $$ in front of them, if there are a lot of ones, but I do it in a way that they can watch me count it. If it's a $20 dance for example, I tell them it's an old habit from when I used to work in retail - I like to make sure they didn't give me $18, or $22 (unless that $22 was intentional).

    I put it underneath my purse where no one else can reach it rather that waste time fussing w/ it, or if he's handing me $$ for more dances during song transition I shove it down in my sock (thi-hi boots & over-knee socks). I only worry abt orgainising my $$ after we're all done.

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    I always collect upfront. A lot of times guys will e like so and so knows me I've been here soo long I'm good for it don't worry.... Well that's when I say sorry but in all of my 2+ years I've always collected first and watched many veteran girls get screwed out of money, then joke and say besides you could be some pervy creep and sticks your hands where they don't belong or pull out your package.. They usually laugh and hand me the money.

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    Upfront payment at our club. I usually say very sexy way something like "let's handle business before pleasure" and tug my garter to make sure they get the hint. Usually do this part quickly to get them more focused on the dances. Some guys just hand it upfront automatically without me having to ask

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    "Lets keep going" , "well that was x number of dances babe" or "okay its $60 i hope you enjoyed yourself!"

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    I usually say something to the effect of (in a cute, flirty type of way "Well? I should know how good of a dance to give you", or, "I need to know how many neat things to show you!", etc. and, similarly to miss.a.p1600, hold out the garter/ t-back so they can put 1&1 together... However, I really like Shanna Dior idea about the tipping for cuteness! I'm going to try that next time

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    Quote Originally Posted by arielbriel View Post
    "Lets keep going" , "well that was x number of dances babe" or "okay its $60 i hope you enjoyed yourself!"
    I've used this line before but it was in a smaller club. Also saying "just one more" has helped me add an extra 2-3 songs while my boobs were in there face or while I was in-between his legs.

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