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    Default Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    Hello girls !!

    Ive worked as an escort on and off for 2 years; more off than on and usually with agencies. I want to finally do my own thang! But the number of times I've tried incalls at a hotel Ive gotten extremely paranoid and end up not really taking any appointments. I want to be able to not only do outcalls but incalls confidently . Can any experienced escort that has been working incalls at hotels give me advice that I can use when choosing a hotel and what to be cautious about ??
    What are the dos and don't with working at a hotel??
    Anything would help ladies !!
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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    When I was working it was for survival and I was living in hotels in the shityist parts of town. I suggust you get the nicest hotels you can afford have a cut off time to aviod suspeicion. My cut off time is 6pm-10pm depending on my "shift". I may have been to bold but I personaly never cared about where the room was as and thuoght as long as u were careful and knew what to do not to do ur ok. I suggest u stay away from Backpage tho for the most part they're all cheap losers that wont see you unless your legit and to them and that means talking openly about sex acts so they know 'what theyre getting' and vice likes to hit up backpage for stings. Screen as hardcore as u can. I would think you would want to clean as much on ur own as u can take out ur own trash etc. Nice places dont like our kind there for too long but I always worked in the ghetto in the hot spots because it was all i could afford and after i was there awhile they figured out what i was doing and they didnt care so i never had an issue. Thats all the advice i can give you for right now. if theres anything else ill edit my post and ad more and feel free to pm me
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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    Use priceline to get nice hotels...the bigger the better. Be super duper friendly when you check in and be sure to tip all the help. Wear soccer mom or business clothes and bullshit about "work" or "visiting family". If it's a busy hotel sneak in as many clients as you can. If it's not so busy just chill back and see a couple of clients (after screening of course). The more you can do during the day, the better, since the night staff at hotels can get bored. If housekeeping is close by and gives you questionable looks, tip them too. Money talks. They will dump your rolled up condom wrappers and organize your heels.

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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    I don't like to tip excessively. That draws attention too. How about just acting normal?

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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    You said that was not working for you. You don't have to tip "excessively", just appropriately. You could always try staying at the Super 8 where the hotel staff doesn't care what you do, but that has its disadvantages too.

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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    Tipping everyone for no real reason is excessively. Don't get upset that I don't agree with you. I don't agree with Priceline bidding either unless you know what you are going to get through using bid sites. Keycards are an issue in some hotels.

    Screen, screen, screen! Shitty hotels creep me out. Get a 3* or better depending on your area and rates.

    Did you do incalls with your agency? If so, did you use hotels?

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    I'm not upset. I used to work as a bartender at a big hotel. You're supposed to tip the bell men, waitstaff and shuttle drivers. I travel the majority of the time and tipping those guys will pay off. I've had the shuttle driver nail my headboard back on the wall for me after a wild night, then drive thru the atm drive thru so I could deposit a load of cash, then take me by taco bell before dropping me off at a client's office. He gave me his phone # and I called him when I was finished for a ride back.

    Yes, priceline will suck if you don't know the area you are in, or if you win the bid on a key card hotel. I've gotten a traveling route down and I know where to bid and for how many stars....I occasionally save up enough $ to check out a new city and figure it out so I can add it to my list, too. In my escorting experience (I've been traveling for over a year now) so far I learned that besides having to keep an eye out for LE you have to keep an eye out for dangerous clients and do-gooders that may rat you out. Assuming you are traveling alone. Screen well, watch out for hotel staff that may feel like ratting you out (which is why I am nice and I tip like you're supposed to), and staying at a nice hotel with key card access only may not necessarily be a bad thing...if anything it should make you feel super safe. I'd rather take a good risk then a bad one in the escorting business.

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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    ^How embarrassing. Nobody is your friend in a hotel. Of course I tip people who help me but I don't run around going "Here is some money! Keep your trap shut!!!" Then draw attention to myself by depositing money at a freaking atm. That is nuts. Don't do that, OP! You aren't ballin'. Act like you can always afford to stay in a 4* hotel. Not some kid who just broke free from the projects.

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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    First of all find a somewhat decent hotel (which is what I am doing now) however I don’t plan to use this place forever. I would recommend using different hotels every so often so no one picks up anything about what you’re doing.

    When staying in hotels as others have mentioned it would also be a good idea to tip well because money does change everything.

    The main thing though is to blend in as much as possible during your stay so one would suspect a thing. As others users have mentioned wear regular clothes, say you’re here visiting family, and if you could try to limit the traffic of people coming in and out that would be good to.

    Right now I am raising my rates for new clients and encouraging two hour appointments so I don’t have to take so many a day.

    Also don’t forget to screen!

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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    This thread is really helpful! I do have a few questions, sorry to hijack the thread.

    1. Why are hotels with key cards bad?

    2. Do any of you know a place like priceline where you can actually get suites?

    Thanks so much! Seriously, this part of the forum is really helping me get started.

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    Keycard elevators make client access to you complicated. You'd have to either keep going down to the lobby/outside to meet your client, which can bring undesirable attention to you, or, you have to get creative to work around that. Ladies for our mutual protection be careful what you post on this public board, better to pm or email each other especially in re: security techniques.

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    Why are hotels with key cards bad?
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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    Quote Originally Posted by Aether View Post
    Keycard elevators make client access to you complicated. You'd have to either keep going down to the lobby/outside to meet your client, which can bring undesirable attention to you, or, you have to get creative to work around that. Ladies for our mutual protection please share specifics only with verified providers and don't publicly post your techniques on this board. You just never know who's on the other end of the net.
    OH the elevators! I wasn't thinking about that - I was thinking about the keycard to the room. Now I see. We don't really have that by me, so one last thing off my mind.

    Also, I understand your concern, however I don't know exactly how a provider is verified unless you are talking about reviews. And the help I have gotten here is fantastic. Seriously

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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    Yayyyy !! Thank you all ladies for your input ! =)
    This is all very helpful!
    @Snowy0Star when I first started a few years ago I worked in not the so best of hotels and they let everything slide; at one point even the front desk guy wanted to see me !! hhahahha now that was a funny one. And I actually have meet some really nice guys on backpage when I use to post there but yes some can be too explicit lol Whenever someone mentioned sex id just hang up, I know kinda rude but Id rather lose some money than screw myself over.
    @ RoxanneXO and ALL THE LADIES that mentioned priceline do you use your real bank card or one of those gift cards?
    In regards to tips what would be good to tip say the cleaning ladies 40,50 80???
    Who else should I tip while at my stay ?? lol im not sure like umm not front desk right?? That would be too obvious lol
    @ strippername Yes I use hotels when I worked at an agency but he was known there already so the new what was up and didt bother his girls but It was like a comfort inn not the best hotel. Im trying to stay at a little bit more up there hotel. But thank you all I feel like I deff will feel a lot more comfortable working at a hotel be it just 2 days lol
    @ RoxanneXO Ohhhh okay !!! Bell man they are the ones that …. ?? Sorry Im alittle ignorant to some positions at hotels
    @DiamondsandLace Okay now this might sound sad but what are some things you do to make 2 hours enjoyable ??
    Lol I have done a couple of hours with men that have been long time clients but It feels kinda awkward with men I first met lol any suggestions would help ! thank you =)
    @ Vivvie IDC girl the more questions th better !! lol
    Again thank you all for your input Im soooo happy to have signed up !! Its soo helpful here ! =)
    Also !! I just created a website on one of those free things but once i start working again next month Ill have my own more professional one.If any of you ladies can take a quick look at it and let me know if its okay Just let me know if i can PM you the link

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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    -I would never suggest staying at any Hotel with an outside entrance. Much to easy to watch unusual traffic and you as well.

    -You may have your guests use side entrances by meeting them for admittance.

    -Don't request too many extra towels etc. Bring your own in a Duffle Bag.

    -For longer visits, get a room with a Jacuzzi tub. Bring bubble bath.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TENDERMAN View Post
    -I would never suggest staying at any Hotel with an outside entrance. Much to easy to watch unusual traffic and you as well.

    -You may have your guests use side entrances by meeting them for admittance.

    -Don't request too many extra towels etc. Bring your own in a Duffle Bag.

    -For longer visits, get a room with a Jacuzzi tub. Bring bubble bath.
    Dude, we don't need advice from clients.

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    Default Re: Help !!! Escort advice needed-- Hotel Incall tips

    Some more unsolicited advice from a client....

    Try to spread-out your appointments if you are seeing three or four clients a day. Housekeeping will spend hours on the same floor and if they see a steady stream of men heading down the hall to the room with the "Do Not Disturb" sign hanging on the door they will pretty much know what's going on. Do they care what's going on? Most of the time they don't but it is not unheard of for hotels to offer cash rewards to staff who report suspected illegal activities.

    Tip when appropriate, tip well but within reason. Leaving $20 for the maid every day is not a good idea. It pretty much removes any doubt about what you are doing in your room.

    Price line is great if you know the area and the properties in that area. It can be a real drag if you don't. There are several sites on the net that will help you use Price line to get really great deals in areas that are actually worth staying but sometimes it's just not going to happen. In Boston, for instance, there are certain times of the year that Price line is useless. This is true in any major city. Sometimes you just have to pay full price or settle for the 'burbs...

    Unless you are super low volume it's not a good idea to stay in any hotel for more than a couple of days.

    No motels. Ever.

    If you are in a smaller suburban property try to give your customers a heads-up as to where the elevator is so that when they walk in the door thay are not wondering around the lobby looking lost. The key for both escorts and customers is to always look like you belong. Hotel staff gets board easily and they notice things like two or three guys in an afternoon wondering around the lobby looking lost. They also notice the same girl walking through the lobby in sweats every few hours with her hair up heading for the gift shop. Plan ahead, shop before you get to the hotel. The less you are seen in the lobby the better.
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    Yoda, I always like your advice. You know what you are talking about. xo

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    Yes, lots of great advice here! Reviews help, but by "verified," I meant that some of us here know each other through other forums or off the board. Anyway, just a gentle reminder that it'd be prudent to minimize publicizing our access/security methods and to use pm/email for specifics so we don't make it easy for LE, stalkers, etc. to find us.

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    I understand your concern, however I don't know exactly how a provider is verified unless you are talking about reviews. And the help I have gotten here is fantastic. Seriously.
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    Go for places that are moderate to a little better. Pick large hotels with a lot of traffic, where nobody walking by the desk attracts much attention. I don't, however, go for VERY upscale places where anybody who does not seem to be in the right income bracket stands out. I can fake that but would rather not bother, and some clients may not do as well.

    The larger, nicer hotels in chains like Comfort/Quality Inn or Holiday Inn are good, but not their cheaper properties. Only the very best and largest of the Days Inns can even be considered. Radisson/Marriott/Hilton/Sheraton type hotels are the best if you can afford it. But I really swear by the more upscale Comfort Inns.

    In a cheap place the staff is going to look at everyone with suspicion, and the police often keep an eye on such places.

    Avoid outside entrances, as there can be too many eyes on that door. However, a room overlooking the parking lot is golden if you can get it, as you can actually see the clients coming in. A hotel where the elevators aren't in sight of the desk is preferable but that's hard to find except at the largest hotels.

    The more sessions you are doing in a day the more important all of this is. If you are only seeing 1 client in a day, or two spread out, you can get away with a less auspicious hotel choice.

    Don't stay at the same hotels over and over again. If you return to the same cities a lot, shake it up.

    Do not let the staff see you hanging around the hotel, going to your car repeatedly, to and from the gift shop, etc. If you are going to be in your room all day stay there. It's less of an issue at night. Think about the usual pattern for hotel guests: they are busy with business or sightseeing in the daytime, not hanging around in their rooms. More people are there at night so it's less weird for them to see you going to and fro. On the other hand the desk staff isn't as busy as they are during the peak check-in and check-out hours so they are more apt to notice a train of guys coming in for an hour or two.

    The longer you are staying, the more important caution is. If you will be there more than one night, clean up your own trash, shut your equipment up in your suitcase. Tip them but not excessively. Cleaning staff usually doesn't get tipped at all, so a 20 is enough to make them like you.

    Be aware of what is going on around you. Watch the cleaning staff and try not to schedule client arrivals when they are in your hallway; certainly not more than one. If I am scheduling in advance, I never schedule more than one client before noon until I know the cleaning pattern. At night be aware of your neighbors. Can you hear them when they are in their rooms? If so, they can hear you and you need to be concerned about spacing your night sessions and taking steps to dampen noise in the room.

    If you are doing a lot of business over a lot of days, seriously consider checking out and into a second hotel.

    I often do sessions in conjunction with business trips for my "regular" profession (yes I have other irons in the fire). If I am attending a conference I make a point of chatting about it to the staff and leaving conference materials visible in my room. If they see me as being there for a particular purpose I become much more invisible than a woman whose purpose is unclear. If I were to travel for sessions only I would seriously consider looking into any events in town that might be a good cover for me, even booking my travel to coincide with events. There are many trade shows and things like Comic Cons and Sci Fi conventions that are cheap to register for so you can strew the materials around your room even if it is NOT real. If I were staying a full week somewhere I'd try that maneuver.

    The extended stay places are usually not good because they have long term residents and also a lot of regulars who cycle in and out on business. Newcomers sometimes stand out at these places. Too bad because they are really comfortable for a long stay, with the kitchens and all. I will go for these places only if I am there for another reason (see above) and I'm not doing a whole lot of sessions. Some are really just like any other hotel but it's impossible to know before you arrive if they have a lot of regulars.

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    >@ RoxanneXO and ALL THE LADIES that mentioned priceline do you use your real bank card or one of those gift cards?

    It doesn't matter *how* you book the room, it matters *who* you let into the room. You're going to give the client your room number when you confirm or he calls from the parking lot or whatever, just make sure he has no reason to approach the desk.

    And whatever you do, Do Not get on the local message board and post something like "Seeing gentlemen from 10:00 am to midnight in Rm 214 at the Airport Hilton until Thursday." If you do that, just hang a flag out your window so LE can find you faster. ;-}
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    ^ Are you thinking about escorting, Whirlerz?

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    ^How embarrassing. Nobody is your friend in a hotel. Of course I tip people who help me but I don't run around going "Here is some money! Keep your trap shut!!!" Then draw attention to myself by depositing money at a freaking atm. That is nuts. Don't do that, OP! You aren't ballin'. Act like you can always afford to stay in a 4* hotel. Not some kid who just broke free from the projects.
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    Always go with the biggest hotel chain you can find that is guaranteed to have early check in. I went through my own little hell this past week when I booked at a hotel and to my surprise no rooms were available for early check in. I missed out on money and clients were mad. I ended up having to spend more money and book elsewhere. The only two other times this has happened was at small boutique hotels.

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