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    Hi ladies, I'm new to this forum but I've been dancing for around 2.5 years.
    I'm curious how to build relationships with customers to the point that you have dependable regulars.
    The club I work at is more like a bar with naked ladies dancing in it. It's a small, clean, easy-going and low hustle environment. I've never had a regular come to see more for longer than a couple months, and often they'll stop buying dances after a while but still come visit me, which is worthless since I don't make money from that. I've talked to girls who have regulars they can just call or text to come in and spend money on them. That's what I want!!

    I'm curious how you find regulars and maintain that relationship so they don't get bored with you or start taking advantage of you. I need to get paid and because my club is not a hustle-type club, most of my money depends on whether or not I'm lucky and a big-spender (usually someone traveling through town) comes in that night. I want something more dependable than that.

    I'd love to find a regular who pays well for my time, values me and understands the nature of the dancer/regular relationship. I've met girls who've had their regs take them shopping at fancy stores which also appeals to me. I'm a pretty classy girl, I have a college degree, don't drink or do drugs at work so I think an older wealthy man would be my best bet. How to I turn a guy from a one-night customer to a longer-term mutually beneficial relationship? I don't do extras btw, but I don't think that should effect my ability to find someone.

    Do you recommend looking outside the club for someone or is this something I should seek from guys who are coming into my work?
    Any advice would be fabulous, thanks!

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    Default Re: Getting regulars?

    there's a really good post about this here in hustle hut. they are all temporary though, so get it while you can! i wouldn't suggest meeting men outside the club in general..it could be VERY dangerous. they may say its a shopping trip but please be cautious above all else. it also leads to a lot of bullshit of them expecting shit outside of the club, and then shit for free, and its just a big mess. i say just keep it professional with boundaries.

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    Default Re: Getting regulars?

    Which post are you talking about specifically? Could you link to it for me? I tried searching for threads relating to my topic (regular customers) but couldn't find anything. Thanks.

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    Default Re: Getting regulars?

    Thank you so much!

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    Default Re: Getting regulars?

    All regulars have a shelf life, so even the most devoted and high spending regular will stop seeing you eventually.

    The single most effective thing you can do to gain regulars is work regularly (ie. always on the same day) and let your clients know that after they've spent money on you. If they had a good time with you and know they can always find you at the club on Monday afternoons or Wednesday nights, they'll return.

    There's really no way to push someone into becoming a regular, though the posts simone linked to will certainly be helpful! Remember their name, ask follow up questions during follow up visits, and demonstrate how happy you are to see them again ("I can't wait to play with you again!", "It's so nice to see you again! Spending time with you is the best way to start my Sundays." etc.). Some girls like to keep in touch via email/phone, which is a good way of letting them know when you're in the club if you can't keep a regular schedule or don't mind the added effort that some customers really dig.

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    Default Re: Getting regulars?

    Great suggestions, thank you so much Shanna!

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