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    Default I've had such a difficult couple of weeks mentally...

    Long story short...boyfriend of 2 months cheated (hes my best friends brother so that holds more meaning than the length of the relationship), he was cheating for weeks and I found out a little bit before V-day...we broke up. Things were iffy but I was trying to still be friends seeing as we will still have to see each other (just saw him a couple days ago) since I'm a pretty close family friend. The other day I text him telling him I miss him as a person..he replies with a simple "Stop texting me" 0_0 ok.

    It isnt the breakup that is bothering me so much as the fact that I just dont feel...right.
    I am extremely lonely (My closet friend is the ex's sister who lives 50 miles away), I feel like I have so much to do and dont know where to start (school, cam, weightloss, and I'm a mother lol)

    I am embarking on a sort of self improvement journey/ finding my femininity which is consuming my need to do better in every area of my life but today I'm just feeling down and wanted to rant.

    If anyone has advice/ tips/ links related to loneliness self improvement, femininity in terms of how you carry yourself, etc then it would be appreciated. Or if you just feel the same way as me then lets have a short pity party and then bring each other back up lol
    Tell me what do you see? Thug niggas? Drug dealers? Its a trip...every nigga in this whip got a mothafuckin college degree

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    Default Re: I've had such a difficult couple of weeks mentally...

    Aww, sorry that's rough. I've been reading a book, "Power of Self Confidence" by Brian Tracey. I hope it gets better for you soon.


    MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP

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    Default Re: I've had such a difficult couple of weeks mentally...

    me too....
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    You are sassy AND smart Miss Pickles.

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    Default Re: I've had such a difficult couple of weeks mentally...

    My guess is your loneliness is a self worth issue. You are not filled up by your own company. That has to change. Start by thinking about what you want friends to bring to your life. Is it validation and affirmation? Is it someone to distract your from your fears or insecurities by their presence? Is it a feeling of power because you don't feel very effective or respected alone in the world? There's so many things you could be missing but you can get all those feelings on your own once you figure out what you lack. Then you won't have to feel pity for yourself. You can feel PASSION for yourself.

    By the way, he did you a humongous favor by telling you to stop trying to be friends to someone who clearly has not acted as your friend. That's a destructive habit, overlooking transgressions like that. He has no respect for your feelings or your emotional well being and is best avoided. I totally get that it's painful and you should give yourself time to get over the loss of what you were hoping for. But, you should look to create your own emotional safety net/loving habits. Then you'll feel comfortable in treating liars and users as they deserve to be treated....as a non motherfucking factor.
    “What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE

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    Default Re: I've had such a difficult couple of weeks mentally...

    I sure hope you're doing better, sweetie!


    MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP

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