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    So I live with my boyfriends parents. Ive been here for months and like three months ago I started wprking in a factory. I know sucks right? Well lately all I can think about is how much I want to cam bit I cant bc im working and have like no internet and I dont think hes all that happy about it. I kind of feel like by the time I get to cam ill be too old to do it. Ugh its driving me crazy. I dont even have a good enough computer bc its like six years old and has no webcam. Idk what to do.

    I want to cam so bad that I daydream about it at work and dream of all the money and freedom ill hsave. I want to be a label you know not just another girl but a brand. Idk what to do

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    My job pays like crap. Its like 250 a week. I cant even afford to move out now. I dont think ill be able to do it here anyway I just really hate being so strapped ffor cash. I know there are things I can do on camsites that arent that bad. I think its called vanilla. idk though.

    Sorry bout the spelling phone typing here.

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    Film soft fetish and/or vanilla videos on your webcam if you're worried about getting caught. You can do content sales and maybe the occasional cam show when you know you'll be alone for a few hours. I've successfully filmed content being able to grab a spare 5 minutes staying at a house with 6+ people in it. Or perhaps do very short shows. You might get caught, so you need to decide if the money outweighs the possible drawbacks of that.




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    Im pretty sure I can make at least 100 a week just doing fetish stuff for now or at least when I have the ability. My laptop is so bad that I have to have a box fan on it after an hour or it will over heat. Im saving up money for a new one after I get a licence and car. Might be awhile lol.

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    I didnt mean to say cam work was bad btw. I honestly have nothing but respect for the work you gals do. I hate that so many ppl,arent okay with it. Maybe thats why it makes it fun lol

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    I'd follow MaryJayne's advice. Don't do something that most likely is going to find you single or house-less until your ready for that jump. As in you need a few hundred in the bank. My advice is to skip caming, it takes a lot of time. On any site that has traffic, your still going to spend hours online building a following, yes you'll have no problem making $100 or even the same amount as your making in your crappy job but how are you going to explain that you need x-hours alone in your shared bedroom or why you sudden have money or quit your crappy job.

    I recommend starting out on sites that allow you to post/sell fetish or vanilla clips, It will give you some pocket money to start upgrading your equipment and give you a buffer so that when you have to move, you'll be ready. You also wont have to worry so much about your laptop dying while your giving shows or worry as much about getting caught.

    I'm also guessing because your living at your bf's parents place that your either mother of his child or your very young... Lots of women cam well in there 40's and older.... SO your not going to miss your "caming window" if you wait. Caming / Adult work can also close lots of doors so make sure your not planning on following any of those paths before you decide to go down this road.


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    I agree it's not an issue of you missing the window but I wouldn't cam from where you are now-and especially not in secret. Is there a reason you have to live with his parents?Could you not get yourselves a flat together? Broach the subject with him? Is your relationship good-could you get through your wanting to cam and him be okay with you doing it?
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    Not every girl have a cash flowing in right of the bath. Some have to work very very hard and work at it for a long time to have that "the money and freedom". My advice to you would be- start with MGF and c4s- sell pictures some videos you record when you can. Use that money to get a new computer first and then think about the next step. Just don't forget- the grass is always greener on the other side. Do not get me wrong- not trying to discourage you. Just want you to be realistic. Good luck to you.[QUOTE=

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    Well the reason im at his parents house is bc we were previously at an apartment and our roomate screwed us over. So I lost my security deposit and since I wasnt working we couldnt find a neew place. Im currently working on getting my drivers licence. So thats setting me back some and a car. Then minimally like 80 on a webcam. Dont you need a fan base before doing well on c4s?

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