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    Default My one night comeback!

    So after having some really bad nights lately, I FINALLY had a good one! It was an all around successful night. FINALLY earned over $200! Plus one of my old regular customers bought me a dress from the outfit lady and gave me my late birthday and valentines presents (a necklace and ring).

    With all the woe is me posts I've had lately, I figured it would be nice to post something happy! I just hope that sticking with the job through those crappy times will pay off and I hope I got my groove back!

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    Yay. Keep it going. Momentum, baby, momentum.
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    Default Re: My one night comeback!

    Great to hear, Luv. Gives me encouragement too


    MANY MEN WANTED TO LAY ME DOWN, BUT FEW WANTED TO LIFT ME UP

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    Default Re: My one night comeback!

    Glad you had a good night and hopefully it's the first of many others!

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    Well, I have my groove back. Bad news is that I may not go back. Beware this might get long winded...

    I ended up leaving around 11:30pm and was having a great night up to that point. Club wasn't really busy, but I was still a top earner. I was in second place (only 1 dance behind the other girl, and shes super hot) on the VIP count until I left. I was just able to get dance after dance.

    Then the bs started. Girls drinks started to get drugged and because it was regulars that spend at least $1000 every night, management didn't get rid of them. One of the top earners had the unfortunate luck of getting her drink spiked and had to leave. I don't go to that group because they have never spent a dime on me and just waste my time. Well, There were 2 new guys to that group. At the beginning of the night I had started chatting them up and they tipped me and said to come back after they had some drinks. Well, they joined the group of assholes so I didn't go back to them. So one of the guys kept coming up to me asking me to come to the table, and I kept saying no. He kept coming over offering more and more money, but I really didn't want to go over there. He finally said, "I'll give you $200 to go over there and liven things up a bit." To which I replied, "If someone over there wants my company they can come get me and we'll get our own table. The guys over there don't like me and I don't like them. I'm tired of your bullshit now stay away from me." And he just got me in such a mood I couldn't even smile at the guys I had lined up for VIP. (I was on stage and lined up some dances, but went to have a cigarette to calm down before dancing because of the asshat) I just had to get out.

    Now I know some of you are thinking, "That's good money to just sit and talk for a little bit" But these guys are asses. They don't spend a dime on you unless you will give them your phone number and meet with them OTC. They are know for trying to get the girls to do sexual favors. I don't have the patience to thwart their advances or even deal with them. Besides, I prefer to keep my business and OTC life separate. (I have some customers that I meet OTC, but I trust those guys completely and consider them my friends.)

    So I paid my tip out, paid my fee for leaving early and got home. The silver lining is that I have my mojo back. If I had stayed I could have made at least $400 super easy. (I'd earned a little less than $150 and had 4 dances lined up, at 11 pm. I still had 4 hours to go.) I'm going to audition at another club tomorrow, but I'm glad I'm back!!! This weekend was what I needed! I rewarded myself with a trip to the sex toy shop and treated my BF to a surprise night when I got home. I needed it!

    BTW, thank you for the encouragement ladies!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora14 View Post
    Now I know some of you are thinking, "That's good money to just sit and talk for a little bit" But these guys are asses. They don't spend a dime on you unless you will give them your phone number and meet with them OTC. They are know for trying to get the girls to do sexual favors. I don't have the patience to thwart their advances or even deal with them. Besides, I prefer to keep my business and OTC life separate. (I have some customers that I meet OTC, but I trust those guys completely and consider them my friends.)
    I get this, and I have always loved the freedom we have as dancers to walk away from clients that make us uncomfortable. But, it sounds like the guy you were talking to just happened to be sitting with them but wasn't actually part of that group, so since he was offering you money to just hang out, what would it matter if the others weren't going to be spending a dime on you? You could ignore them too (thus avoiding their advances) and just pay attention to the guy who is actually, you know, paying you. Like, you get your $200 upfront, hang out for a pre-set amount of time chatting with the paying guy, and then peace out if he doesn't give you more afterwards. Just throwing out a different perspective to look at the situation next time that could be more profitable.

    In any case, good luck at your audition and hopefully that club is a good fit!

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    I do see your side of it. Ya, I should have just took his money and sucked it up for 1/2 an hour, but I couldn't shake the paranoia of them somehow spiking my drink. I know I didn't say it in the first post (and I should have), but the regular guys at this table were the ones spiking drinks. That's why I wanted whoever wanted my company to come to me. I usually keep my drink in my eyesight, but god forbid I turn my back for one second. That's all it took for the other girl. Those guys always put me in a foul mood.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Aurora14 View Post
    I do see your side of it. Ya, I should have just took his money and sucked it up for 1/2 an hour, but I couldn't shake the paranoia of them somehow spiking my drink. I know I didn't say it in the first post (and I should have), but the regular guys at this table were the ones spiking drinks. That's why I wanted whoever wanted my company to come to me. I usually keep my drink in my eyesight, but god forbid I turn my back for one second. That's all it took for the other girl. Those guys always put me in a foul mood.
    Ah fair point! I always hold my drink in my lap when I'm with a group and know that my eyes won't always be on my drink, so that's a good way to keep someone from spiking it - you'd certainly notice that way. I always often keep a hand over the top of the glass so that there's no way anything is getting in there. If anyone asks, I just play it off like I'm a spilly drunk and am trying to keep from making a mess.

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    Default Re: My one night comeback!

    If you are paranoid about getting your drink spiked, maybe you could have ordered a bottle of water or Rev, something that has a screw cap. It might be a little more difficult for someone to unscrew it and spike it without you noticing than it would be if your drink were just open sitting on the table in a glass.

    I agree with Shanna as well, you prob should have tried to suck it up for $200 and talk to the guy who was interested in you and ignore the other guys. I know it's easier said than done at times, but if you were already there and you go to work to make $$ it's worth you while to make as much as you can, especially if you're offered that much upfront just to come over and talk to someone who hasn't even offended you.
    Then again, I wasnt there, maybe I don't see it the same way you do

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    I'd have to say that if it were someone else that had posted this I'd be right along with you guys saying to suck it up But what happened is done. I've been posting about how downhill my club has gotten since my return, so I guess last night was kind of the straw that broke the camel's back. I turned into a big wah wah baby that wants a pity party (j/k) The positive I'm taking out of the weekend is that I know I have the potential to earn. I was really thinking of leaving the business and now I'm reinvigorated! I'll let you ladies know how my audition goes tomorrow.

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    Glad you're getting out of a failing club - good luck tomorrow!

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    So Indy was a bust all around. Yesterday I called to make sure they were taking auditions. The guy on the phone said they don't accept applicants after 9 pm. I would have to fill out an application and it would be up to the manager on duty to decide if they want me to audition. So I got there around 7:30 and asked about filling out an application. Manager says, "First thing I'll need is your ID". I hand it to him, "We don't hire girls from out of state. We like to have local girls." Really dude? I live literally 1 mile into Illinois...

    O well. We decided to kill time while waiting for my friend to get into work by ordering some dinner and tipping stage sets. Well, my food came out all wrong and in my friend texts me at 9:30 saying she wasn't going to be working. FML 10pm rolls around and not a single dancer has come to our table or even said a word to us. We kept trying to make eye contact with them but no one would come to us. The girl I wanted dances from has been in the back doing dances for another customer for an hour already. I told my BF to let me know when he was done with his beer so we could go. Tipped our waitress a $20 on the way out and thanked her for being the only female that talked to us.

    I have never left a club with money in my pocket. I left with over $200. It was very disappointing.

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    That sucks. Surprisingly common though.

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