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    I'm considering auditioning very soon, I have a friend who works at the club and she seems to think I'll have no problem getting hired. I've had two kids and I know I need a tummy tuck. She said I can dance in a dress to keep my tummy covered until I can pay for the surgery. Do clubs hire girls who look good but have a flaw like this?

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    Depends on the club, really. She says it's ok, so.. there's also those temporary firming creams, Bliss makes one for the tum. Good luck


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    Second the above post...I've seen missing teeth, fingers, limbs, bullet wounds, you name it. If it's super upscale I'd say tone up. Hit the gym like crazy and meanwhile try the dive.
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    Default Re: Help! I'm insecure :/

    Thank you both for your replies! She says its fine but shes never had kids so she might be a tad bit oblivious to how hindering or insecure something like this can make you feel...I just REALLY do not want to waste my time..im not sure if its upscale...they describe themselves as the only las vegas style club in the area..

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    Default Re: Help! I'm insecure :/

    Your friend knows the standards at her club better than we do, especially not knowing which club it is. She's right that you can cover up with a dress - there's also underbust corsets that are a bit more polished than just hiking your dress up and pulling it down so that it covers your middle. Really though, club lighting can be very forgiving.

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    Default Re: Help! I'm insecure :/

    I've heard that some clubs look your body over before the audition. In that case would I vocalize that I intend on wearing a coverup?..I imagine it being a bit awkward discussing with someone my biggest insecurity and how I plan to conceal it lol

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    It depends on the club. Some clubs hire without even knowing what you look like-some expect you to look stereotypically perfect and anything wrong and they'll point it out, fail you or ask if you'll do something about it.
    It depends how upscale the club is, what the clientelle is like, what's popular, what 'looks' the girls there already have, among other things.
    I was turned down for the first club I went in first time I moved region, they said I needed to lose weight..Got hired at the second club I went for which was in a different town.
    You can either wear a cover up and hope nothings said, dress/corset-OR , be more open and call up the club and ask if your tummy is a problem I'd probably go with the first but that's just me-I think telling people about your flaws highlights them and makes them more obvious!and depends on what the manager's like on which they'd think was better thing to do. Really though, if your friend thinks you'll get hired, she probably knows you look okay.

    I've seen girls whose tummies are really saggy and marked from carrying children, and seen them do well too-but then I've also been in clubs where it just wouldn't be allowed so there's no straight answer here!
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    Quote Originally Posted by tolle View Post
    I've heard that some clubs look your body over before the audition. In that case would I vocalize that I intend on wearing a coverup?
    ^I would ask your friend if the club does that-she would know for sure.

    For your audition, I'd suggest getting a spray tan or applying a tan in a can like Sally Hansen. A tan automatically makes you look and feel better .

    Also, we ALL have flaws and most of the time WE are the only ones who really notice them. So "fake it, 'til you make it!".
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    Girl if you'd seen what I've seen you'd feel a lot better about yourself trust me! I used to work with a bitch who had NO teeth whatsoever!
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