I've tried the SD thing but haven't actually landed one yet. I've gotten to go shopping a few times and most guys were willing to pay me on dates without me asking.
There were also a ton of guys that were just using the SD angle with no intention of ever starting an arrangement but just to get a young woman to come out to meet him and grope her lol. (which has happened to me as well)
To be honest these guys would have a snowball's chance in hell of scoring a date with a woman barely in her 20s unless they stormed a college campus at the risk of getting arrested and put a gun to a woman's head.
Hot girls have options. That why I think these clowns need to pay. As another woman put it.
"... if a man expects a woman like me to make a special effort for him, he needs to be able and willing to make it worth my while – otherwise I have plenty of satisfying options for occupying my time"
I know it may take months to find a "real" SD. But in the meantime I want to charge these guys every time I go on a date with them. From now on I never want to go on a date for free.lol I may not land a "SD". But at least I could rack up money from these dates like some other girls I know do.
That way I at least get something out of it. It takes gas money to get there, juggling of my school/work schedule, as well as time to look nice. I'm sick of doing all this for nothing. And besides I can easily get dates or pay for my own dinner or coffee. I get my time wasted and these old farts get a "free" date with a pretty girl that would usually never happen. My time is money. lol I even have that in my profile on the SD website I'm on. So these guys must know I'm expecting them to pay something. But we all know they're looking to get as much for as little as possible. If I don't open my mouth of course they'll be happy to pay me nothing.
How do you ask for money for the first meeting in a nice way? I know you should ask/negotiate the amount before you meet. I have two potential SD's that want to meet me for lunch. They've asked me where I want to eat and what time. But along with my answer to those questions I also need to make it clear to them that I expect cash for our first meeting.
How would you word that in a subtle way? Would you say "what are your thoughts of "helping" me for this first meeting? Or how about "I would like money for a tank full of gas?"
Any help would be greatly appreciated. Sorry for the extremely long message lol



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I guess there's no subtle way to say it. I'll have to think of the best way to word it.

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