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    I work in a no contact club and i get asked all the time by customers what happens in the vip and the want to know what my dances are like in the vip? Its not any different apart from being in a private closed booth. when they ask me I always say il be naughtier and we will have a lot more fun in there. Then I get asked what i mean by naughtier and I dont know how to answer this?? It results in me losing the sale and they go with another dancer because i havent convinced them and i know they are not doing anything different or doing extras in the vip as it is a very clean club.

    How should i respond to guys who asl whats going to happen in the vip and what do i mean by naughtier? help.

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    Default Re: Customers asking what will happen, what i will do in the vip?? Help!!!

    Reply with more sensual and sexy maybe?

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    Default Re: Customers asking what will happen, what i will do in the vip?? Help!!!

    Tell them, "you'll see" and smile. If they keep asking, just say it again.

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    You get your own private area where you can both relax where all the dances are included for a whole hr. Does the club make him get alcohol? If so add in that you guys can get tipsy together and just fake drink or drink in moderation. If he protests that he just wants to hang out with you on the floor emphasize that you can't spend all that time with him but up there you can uninterrupted plus he won't have to pay extra for dances.

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    I find the guys that keep pestering about it really have no intention of ever buying it - or are just looking for extras. When they first ask, I tell them it's much more private and we can have a much more sensual and naughty experience without any interruptions. Before they can ask again, I tell them most gentlemen prefer VIP to regular lap dances because it's a much better deal. If they simply must ask for more details, I say to let me show them. Last resort, offer them a taste with a regular lap dance. I refuse to sit around playing their game for a long time, so I go through this quick and move on if they don't bite.

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    I have tried saying im good at showing than telling and i tell them they will get the best dance in the vip as we will be completly alone together and that way they get a naughtier so its much more fun all round. Is there anything that you ladies do to try and give them that extra push to get the vips? I normally put my hand on theirs when i say this but i just feel like there is something i shud be doing to improve on this?

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    yeah i know what you mean il be careful even tho i think like you said it depends on where you work and i work in the UK.

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    Quote Originally Posted by DesuvsDeath View Post
    FYI: using words like 'naughtier' and/or saying you do more or you'll have more fun, or you'll give a better dance, ect CAN get you arrested for solicitation in some states.
    do u know what these states are? 0,0
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    "What do you mean, naughtier? What will you DO?"

    At this point I tell them dirty talk will cost them $4.99 a minute, and hold out my garter strap. When they stare at it I say "orrrr... we can just go find out now."

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    My club is really loud, so I tell them it is a bit more quiet in there and we can spend more time 'alone'. I always up-sell the idea that it is a more 'personal' experience rather than being out around the noisy crowd. It normally works really well with the older guys.

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    ^ Yep.
    " It's more private and personal back there, so it's it's the most fun."

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    Default Re: Customers asking what will happen, what i will do in the vip?? Help!!!

    im having this problem too. i get the ones who just press for details..ill say the regular " oh you'll see!" or " its naughtier, more sensual, more luxurious, intimate, bla bla" but they keep asking " like what? naughtier like how? what exactly?" and i just get sooo fed up i've stopped hustling VIPS. its cost me money but they drive me waayyy too crazy with their " so what am i going to get for all the money?" i feel so pressured.
    basically, if they are just looking for a bj or sex and keep pressing it, just walk away. they are dirtbags. some girls lie just to get the money but its not worth it the harassment and hassle and its wrong. if "naughtier, more sensual and private time with your favorite dancer" isn't enough, chuck em.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Snowy0Star View Post
    do u know what these states are? 0,0
    Yeah, it's not so much state laws as local bylaws. Look them up for your city. It's always good to know what is actually legal as in many cases, the rules of the club don't always align with the letter of the law, but the onus is on you if there is a raid or an undercover cop.

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    I tell them it's more "intimate". I think I read it somewhere on here but suggesting intimacy rather than privacy makes the experience sound way more exciting/lucrative/worthwhile. If they keep pestering me about what they get I just politely excuse myself.

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    I find the guys that keep pestering about it really have no intention of ever buying it - or are just looking for extras.
    This, exactly. I've only once taken a guy to VIP who was really persistent about asking, "What will you do/what do I get?" and he turned out to be a nightmare. Maybe your club is different, but in my club, the guys with $$ are 99% of the time not going to ask, because they either know the game, or would just be happy enough to spend the time in your company that they're not concerned with "what exactly" they will get.

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    When a guy is getting too pushy about what he'll "get" or just how naughty we can be etc. I know it's time to leave. He may do an hr or half hr but it'll be hell to deal with him and I'd rather make myself available to someone who's interested in happily doing multiple hours anyways. So I don't even mention being naughty or intimate anymore, I find it just keeps the wrong type interested. And if he does end up still wanting to do a vip he feels ripped off. I hate getting stuck with a grabby guy trying to nickle and dime me for extras and seeing that I missed out on a guy who just wants to party with naked women or talk and cuddle for hours on end.

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    I'm a brat at work so I just tell them that's the only place I'll get naked. If they want a $20 dance on the floor, I tell them they are wasting their money since I'm not getting naked... Ironically I have a pretty high close rate by being stubborn.

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    This is one of those customers who annoy me so much. Flip the conversation back in your control!

    Customer: what will you do to/for me?!
    You: (be overdramatic to make them hush) oh, I cant show you out here! I KNOW you'll have the time of your life back there with me! The REAL question is what can you do for me!?
    Customer: he will probably laugh and then boom, topic flipped away from you and onto him.

    If still persistent, smile / flirt / tell him you would love to show him how much fun you guys can have together, then ask him if he is ready for this... word things as if he's already buying. The key is to not let it bother you. Keep your cool. KNOW your worth, smile and giggle a lot with these types. You have to take control by being a bit louder and almost ditzier with these custies if that makes sense? It loosens them up and makes them feel better bout themselves (even though you're just using psychology on them without them realizing)

    And if it still isn't working, you got a time waster on your hands.. move on!

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    This is one of those customers who annoy me so much. Flip the conversation back in your control!

    Customer: what will you do to/for me?!
    You: (be overdramatic to make them hush) oh, I cant show you out here! I KNOW you'll have the time of your life back there with me! The REAL question is what can you do for me!?
    Customer: he will probably laugh and then boom, topic flipped away from you and onto him.

    If still persistent, smile / flirt / tell him you would love to show him how much fun you guys can have together, then ask him if he is ready for this... word things as if he's already buying. The key is to not let it bother you. Keep your cool. KNOW your worth, smile and giggle a lot with these types. You have to take control by being a bit louder and almost ditzier with these custies if that makes sense? It loosens them up and makes them feel better bout themselves (even though you're just using psychology on them without them realizing)

    And if it still isn't working, you got a time waster on your hands.. move on!

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    Yeah thats probably where i go wrong wasting time on these types trying to convince them to go for a VIP and im missing out on the genuine type that just want the company and to have fun. Ii try being loud and dizty and flipping the question back on them if it doesnt work im not going to waste my time with them. thank you everyone.

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    One guy asked me that and I replied "If you grab my pussy I will kick the shit out of you and make you my bitch". Next thing you know I'm downstairs in the CR for 2 hours whipping this masochist with his belt and making him bark like a dog.
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