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    Dizzy How much sex is too much?

    I have done some girl/boy stuff with a guy friend on cam... he didn't even want to get paid, just the sex and we're f'buddies anyway...so, my take home is mine.

    I actually made more money doing solo show stuff, with way, way less effort. Is this typical?

    Also, I think I actually hurt a nice client's (rather spendy client's) feelings when he found out I had sex on cam with my friend. Is this a less-is-more kind of common situation with camming?

    Also... got offered a porn gig... exposure is good for business, business is good for money... straight up internet porn with a major porn company seems... a little too much exposure... I can hide in obscurity in the US as a cam-girl; don't care what American's think since few of them actually know me. Most Sing... guys like high production value porn. Expensive Top-shelf stuff with good film quality. If I do the porn, the odds of being discovered go up... a lot. But the money... not so bad plus my billing kind of goes up camming. Advice on this? Cam-girl to porn? Too much for me? I have no experience with sex industry other than... laptop, cam site... 10 hours of work... no stripping exp. no other sex-related exp.

    I just assumed girl/boy made more money but, no?

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    Default Re: How much sex is too much?

    nope. not more $. Just split. least in my experiences... enjoy and just keep having fun, whether you decide to leap into mainstream porn (pleassssseeee be very cautious when you sign anything!!) or if you decide to cam it for a bit - which is what I'd do - at least for a while and see how you like it after a bit... porn is a HUGE decision.
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    Default Re: How much sex is too much?

    In my experience in the camming industry solo is more money.
    I've also done a few boy/girl shows. I dislike them horribly. People expect more. You get less requests for it.
    Tho that might work on chaturbate and sites such as that...
    independantly my thoughts are no,it doesn't work.
    And yes I believe it is quite common for it to hurt regulars feelings or atleast make them have less interest.

    Most are okay with knowing your married,have kids...whatever
    do they wanna see it? hell no

    so from my own personal experience yes being seen with a male...is a pay cut.

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    Default Re: How much sex is too much?

    Yeah, despite how wildly popular BBC-fetish and all that may seem to be, I've found that many of my guys get extremely disappointed when they find out the most explicit details of my true sex life by way of me selling content that features my IRL-sex partner. Like, some guys get straight up bummed. LOL! I don't get it but yeah, doing solo stuff is much easier anyway. I would probably see better result with girl/girl camming than I would see with B/G camming but I don't have any close girlfriends so I've never tried.

    Good luck with the porn-filming! You're absolutely right, it could potentially launch you and you'll have a much harder time staying undercover. Sure, it's a great reason to raise your rates even more, camming and it builds almost an instant fan base but depending on your long-term goals, there could be a lot at stake. Don't think so much about the short-term gains. You can always make money, camming. Think really hard about how invested you are in this industry. Are you new (like, fewer than three years in)? Do you plan on doing this job for very long? Do you like and enjoy sex work and promoting yourself when your jobs are done? All this makes a big difference when you're defining your "career". I've been doing this work for around twelve years and although I'm not super-out, I'm comfortable, at this point, to tell people that ask honestly what I do and anticipate a negative response. If I did something that somehow sky-rocketed my image and brought in a huge shift in revenue, I couldn't give a fuck who found out. But it's entirely up to you, how far you want to take yourself. More foresight and planning and a good idea of your future goals can be very helpful. Start thinking of a five-year plan, maybe?

    Oh and yeah, READ your contracts very carefully! Like, fine-tooth comb, make copies, highlight stuff, sleep on it, and wake up and read it again before making a decision. Even some of the best-quality porn companies are fucking sharks. Good luck!
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    OH MY GOD, thank you all so much. Vivian, i looked you up online, you are so funny and interesting. Major girl crush from your videos. I wish I lived in SoCal so we could get QUESO with your funny friends. Loves and kisses.

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