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    Default A million YAY's I got hired ;)

    Thanks again to all the girls who built my confidence up at SW!!! I went into the local club today to audition and I got accepted! YAY! I was so nervous, my song felt like it took a few hours not minutes!!! I start on Tuesday! Wish me luck!

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    Congratulations!

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    congratsss!

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    Congratulations, Trixxi! it's so funny - we're in the same city/state and this is my 1st week, too! I hope you really like the club you landed at and have a blast! Feel free to pm me if you want to talk Portland!

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    Congrats

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    Congrats!!

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    Congratulations and good luck for your first night. Im new to stripping aswell with only a few shifts under my belt, or would that be g-string. I wrote about my first night in one of my earlier posts and if a girl like me can do it im sure you'll do just fine. Again good luck and work it sister.

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    How'd it go?

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    Well I want to say I am proud of myself for doing my first shift ... I did a day shift and I think there were at least 10 other girls there in the club. Most of them were very good with their hustling skills. I did'nt realize how little the stage dancing tips would actually be, and when I tried to sell dances I was only able to sell 4. The club has topless dances, nude dances and 3 VIP rooms, and I only did topless and nude, no VIP. I definitely need to work on setting my boundaries AND asking for the cash. One guy was a hands all over me kind of guy and said he did want a nude dance but then only wanted to pay for topless! He was so rude with trying to grab my crotch that when he said he wanted no more dances and paid me for two topless dances, I was fine to walk away at that point. This particular customer I had talked to for about 2 hours! He kept saying "yes I want a dance ... " but with these kind of limitations: "other girls were dancing in lap dance area," so he wanted to be "alone" with me ... then he said "I will get a dance after a few more stage sets," so I said OK, and after 2 songs I said, let's go do it, and thankfully the room was empty. But then he was totally an "extras" kind of guy, which I did not feel comfortable with at all. He kept wanting me to touch his genitals, wanting to touch my genitals ... and I felt that was crossing the line of acceptable ...

    My first two topless lap dances the house mom got mad at me for "grinding" with my panties on the customer which I thought seemed to work fine ... so she said "no grinding unless its a nude dance," so I felt cautious with this 2nd guy in the LD area.

    I talked to a few other guys, some were just not interested at all in talking to me. But I was polite, I heard their little excuse like "I'm just about to leave the club ... nice to meet you!" Then I would see him in the lap dance area with another girl ... whatever. A few guys said "you're too nice to be working here!" Which I did not know what to say back to! They seemed to like the other girls who hustled them. At about 8pm a bunch of girls left and only about 4 girls until the change over at 9. I was exhausted, and then this group of Latinos called me over to sit with them. I speak a little spanish so we talked and one guy said "my brother wants a dance!" So I was relieved to actually make one more dance before the night was over. The dance was a nude one, and the guy had no cash so i had to walk with him over to the ATM. A little embarassing!!! But he was a total gentlemen, he asked where he could touch me and he kept his hands where I said was OK.

    I feel grateful to have made $99 (after $20 tip out) on my first shift, considering I barely did any pole work and was completely nervous. I changed my bras and panties 3x and I met some girls in the club who were really nice to me ... other girls just could care less about me, maybe even saw me as a threat. But I did not want to step on any other girl's toes. One guy I talked to was like "I'm waiting for ... this other girl," and I knew he was her customer so I left him alone. But once she left early ... he was tipping me $2 a stage dance, but he already said he was not interested and wanted the other girl ... so I never offered him a private dance. Another guy kept coming up to the rail and watching me dance ... but also kept looking away too ... so I did'nt know if he wanted a dance either. I was pretty hesistant to approach guys unless they were sitting totally alone.

    My knees are sore and I am going to go back to do more dancing tonight. I want to pace myself more, be more gentle with myself and definitely work the customers more. I want to keep that positive, smiling attitude, and even develop a fake little autobiography because my real one is just not "bubbly" enough. I have no idea what to say to things like "what made you want to be a dancer," I said "it seemed like something fun and exciting to try," I did not want to outright say "the money," but it is the money of course!!!

    All in all, I made more in 6 hours than I have ever made cleaning hotel rooms, and I did not have to deal with any bitchy lady saying I was not cleaning the room fast enough or I forgot to fold the TP in a certain silly way ...

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    Yikes, sounds like you encountered a lot of ASSHOLES your first shift! There are always guys who will prey on the new girl and see what he can get away with. First of all, don't talk to a guy for TWO HOURS if he's not paying you! If he wants to talk that long, your time is money and he needs to take you up to VIP. Also, if a guy is just playing games with you and setting specific limitations as to what he requires just to get a dance, just walk away. Seriously. Your post made me so annoyed about that guy! He is a serious piece of shit. The most common excuse I hear is that they don't like this song, let's wait till the next one to see if he likes that one better. The best thing you can do with these types is be like, "Baby, you won't be paying attention to who else is in the room/what song is playing, etc., you're gonna be distracted by ME!" MAYBE wait one or two more songs if it's not busy and you think you couldn't make the money a little easier from another customer. But listen: there is NO SHAME in walking away from an asshole who is NOT PAYING YOU!!!! You don't even have to be mean, just make up a reason that you have to pee, or "freshen up" (play on your phone in the dressing room), whatever, and then just don't go back.
    You're also probably gonna get a lot of guys offering to take you on dates, they want your phone number, they can't get a dance from you cause they would rather take you out to dinner, etc.... Try selling them one dance, mention that you are at work and need to make money while you're here. If they don't buy a dance, MOVE ON. These types are always targeting new girls. Oh, and needless to say, don't give them your phone number! Give your number to men who have spent big money (like, a couple hundred) on you, so you can call them to come in and visit you again. Don't give your number to losers who aren't even spending money because then they're gonna annoy the shit out of you even when you're not at work! Ideally, you will have a separate phone or a Google Voice number to give them instead of your personal cell phone. (Also, you don't even have to stay in contact with ANY customers outside of work if you don't want to, but definitely don't give broke losers your number!)
    When guys try to play dumb about the rules regarding touching, first gently remind them maybe in a cutesy giggly way "We don't allow that here Mister!" and move his hands and place them on the arms of the chair, and if he KEEPS trying after you repeatedly reminded him, you can either finish the dance while you hold his hands down, or if he's really bad, just end the dance right away and get your money. You don't deserve to be disrespected like that.
    It seems like a lot of new girls (myself included when I first started) are afraid of coming off as "money hungry." ANd they sit with guys for hours to chat before they ask for a dance, and stuff like that. Guys aren't stupid, they know you're here for the money! Don't be afraid to demand money when you've earned it and to WALK AWAY when they stop spending. After a dance, don't go back and sit with the guy you just danced for, he's not your friend, he's your customer. Let him know you'll "check up with him in a few, thanks so much for the dances!" Then walk away.
    You don't "owe" these guys anything. You don't have to become best friends with him before you ask him if he'd like to buy a dance from you. You are here to get as much money as possible in the least amount of time.
    I also see new girls sit with guys for like 15-20 minutes before asking for a dance. Unless he gave you a huge stage tip or something, no need to chat for this long! Say hi, chat for 1-2 songs, and when you hear the next song starting up, smile and say "Are you ready for a dance this song?" If he says yes, great! If he says no, say "OK, well I'm gonna go make a round, I'll check back with you a little later!" and get up and walk away. Seriously.
    Overall, it sounds like you know what you're doing and that you're gonna be a smart girl who knows how to hustle. The first few weeks are really awkward and hard, but $99 on your first shift isn't bad at all!
    You will pick up on all this eventually on your own, I just wanted to try to save you some time so you can start making some more money!

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    Also, the tip that I got that lead to me making way more money, is to always always always ask him at the end of the dance "Do you wanna keep going?" or "do you want to do one more?" ask it while you keep dancing a little and smile or rub his chest or his shoulders or something. Try to get as many dances as possible in a row from one guy while you've got him there! You might as well do that then have to try to find some other guy and chat him up, and then ask him if he wants to buy a dance. :-D

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    Thanks aperfectseal this is a lot of great advice that I will use today! You are definitely RIGHT about the guys that wanted my phone number and wanted to take me out to dinner! I will find out about google voice and just remember I am not doing my normal pick up lines that I would use in a regular club, I am trying to sell dances not be anyone's girlfriend down the road ... especially not these guys that are cheap and cross my comfort boundaries! TIME IS MONEY is going to be my new mantra!

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    Quote Originally Posted by trixxi View Post
    TIME IS MONEY is going to be my new mantra!
    It's a good mantra to have! Don't ever feel bad about pushing someone to a sale and not letting them waste your time.

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