Hey ladies! I know that online sugardaddying is said to be a dead industry, but it sorta fits my repertoire at the moment. I'm considering this my trial run at learning how to sweet-talk men, I guess.
So I put up a picture and I've been getting a couple of messages daily, and I'd like to respond, but I'm not sure what to say. Or rather, how to phrase my words to tactfully communicate my intent and my wants. In fact, I'm not sure what my wants are, or if I should aim higher. I've read here that the SA guys are basically just looking for cheap escorts.
Firstly, I have to overcome my reluctance to consider myself a sugarbaby - I don't believe myself to be attractive enough, which is my first pitfall. And well, I just don't consider myself to be a sexy minx personality-wise - I'm an e-geek, for fuck's sake. I can be sexy for boyfriends, but it's different for older men who want arm candy. I've read that sugarbabying is a lot like an alter ego for most girls, and that'd definitely be my case.
I've chatted with and met guys on OkCupid before, but this is another ballgame entirely. I guess I'm basically asking for someone to outline what the initial message should be like, just as a guide.



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