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    Ok, so I am a witty playful smart ass and girls who tend to dance for a living tend to like me and ive dated multiple exotic dancers. When does it tend to become offensive to you all in regards to money? I know your primarily at your job to make cash and im not the jealous type and encourage my gf/ along with exs to go and make her cash and not waiting on me when I come in. But the one thing that I have not figured out about yall is the whole paying for dances during the intial courtship. with a few of the girls ive payed for dances and with others ive sat with and they liked me and gave their numbers without paying for dances and we dated afterwards. Which do you prefer and why?

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    ^ lmao, exactly!

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    In your first sentence, it sounds like you are trying to convince yourself something. To me it looks like you are getting played. You think you're dating, they see you as a customer.

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    What does 'Datting' mean?
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    Ok, so I am a witty playful smart ass and girls who tend to dance for a living tend to like me and ive dated multiple exotic dancers. When does it tend to become offensive to you all in regards to money? I know your primarily at your job to make cash and im not the jealous type and encourage my gf/ along with exs to go and make her cash and not waiting on me when I come in. But the one thing that I have not figured out about yall is the whole paying for dances during the intial courtship. with a few of the girls ive payed for dances and with others ive sat with and they liked me and gave their numbers without paying for dances and we dated afterwards. Which do you prefer and why?
    There are good earners and bad earners working in every strip club. On the customer side there are spenders and time-wasters at every club. One thing you don't see a lot of is boyfriends. If you are dating a dancer you should not be at her club during her shift bothering her. Most clubs actually have rules about this. If she is dumb enough to let you do that it's clear she is not a very good earner. The ones who are insisting that you buy dances from them are not really seeing you as a BF. They may be willing to date you outside of the club but they clearly see you as a customer.
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    What does 'Datting' mean?
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    Quote Originally Posted by sugarmouse0707 View Post
    What does 'Datting' mean?
    I say datting is a term where a customer believes he is so awesome that strippers "like" him as a boyfriend, even though she doesnt think they are dating and charges him for her time, lmao.

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    I'm sorry D-Town, I'm just giving you a hard time...but it makes absolutely no sense a dancer would be in a club waiting for her "boyfriend" to arrive so she can charge him for dances. It is clear to me that you are not dating, maybe she lead you to believe so but that alone should of been an obvious red flag to you.

    I would never dance for my boyfriend in the club, it's a waste of time since I can just go home and give him lap dances and blow him after that.

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    I think if you just started dating the girl, and you actually do see her outside of work, one way of seeing her while she is at work is to come and watch her work. if the point of paying is to not get found out about and breaking the dating the customer rules, I can see that. But, wold you pay for something you can get outside the club? Are you just paying for her time so she can pretend she's working, so she doesn't have to ive other strangers a lap dance?

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    LMFAO, wow. .. . . i cant even breathe right now. LOLOLOL.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alys Butterfly View Post
    .....Are you just paying for her time so she can pretend she's working, so she doesn't have to ive other strangers a lap dance?
    If this is the case, she needs to quit her job.

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    If this is the case, she needs to quit her job.
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    Quote Originally Posted by d-town View Post
    go and make her cash and not waiting on me when I come in.
    I really don't think you're actually dating a dancer. She's probably saying that so you keep coming in and spending. No way in hell would a dancer's boyfriend come to the club unless he's there to pick her up.

    Well actually, I did know of a girl whose boyfriend/husband would come into the club and tip the girls on stage, but he would only come in when its slow, and it was like a dive bar so most of the girls hung out together outside of work & they all knew him. But that is not normal at all, and is not tolerated by management 99% of the time.

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    There are good earners and bad earners working in every strip club. On the customer side there are spenders and time-wasters at every club. One thing you don't see a lot of is boyfriends. If you are dating a dancer you should not be at her club during her shift bothering her. Most clubs actually have rules about this. If she is dumb enough to let you do that it's clear she is not a very good earner. The ones who are insisting that you buy dances from them are not really seeing you as a BF. They may be willing to date you outside of the club but they clearly see you as a customer.
    I have been with a few women in the Industry. I always thought that it wasn't very smart for me to be spending money there while she was trying to make, not to say I didn't go up there to pick her up or have a drink while waiting.

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    ^ I've been in similar situations and I agree. Waiting for a gal to get off of work is one thing. Hanging out during her shift and distracting her is another.
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    What does 'Datting' mean?
    Sleeping over at my place and going on dates. And no I don't pay for club extras..I just know how to talk to girls.

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    I'm sorry D-Town, I'm just giving you a hard time...but it makes absolutely no sense a dancer would be in a club waiting for her "boyfriend" to arrive so she can charge him for dances. It is clear to me that you are not dating, maybe she lead you to believe so but that alone should of been an obvious red flag to you.

    I would never dance for my boyfriend in the club, it's a waste of time since I can just go home and give him lap dances and blow him after that.
    I'm not dating a girl at this time. I'm talking about in my past. I've seen girls bf come into the clubhouse in Dallas and I agree, it's very distracting to the girl and I couldn't get a dance from her. I go to the club to drink and just joke around with girls to entertain myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    I'm sorry D-Town, I'm just giving you a hard time...but it makes absolutely no sense a dancer would be in a club waiting for her "boyfriend" to arrive so she can charge him for dances. It is clear to me that you are not dating, maybe she lead you to believe so but that alone should of been an obvious red flag to you.

    I would never dance for my boyfriend in the club, it's a waste of time since I can just go home and give him lap dances and blow him after that.
    I'm not dating a girl at this time. I'm talking about in my past. I've seen girls bf come into the clubhouse in Dallas and I agree, it's very distracting to the girl and I couldn't get a dance from her. I go to the club to drink and just joke around with girls to entertain myself.

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    Sleeping over at my place and going on dates. And no I don't pay for club extras..I just know how to talk to girls.
    Ah so datting is like dating, but in your own house. I'm with you.
    I never supposed that you did.
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    Ah so datting is like dating, but in your own house. I'm with you.
    I never supposed that you did.
    my bad, I can't spell.

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    Ok, so I am a witty playful smart ass and girls who tend to dance for a living tend to like me and ive dated multiple exotic dancers. When does it tend to become offensive to you all in regards to money? I know your primarily at your job to make cash and im not the jealous type and encourage my gf/ along with exs to go and make her cash and not waiting on me when I come in. But the one thing that I have not figured out about yall is the whole paying for dances during the intial courtship. with a few of the girls ive payed for dances and with others ive sat with and they liked me and gave their numbers without paying for dances and we dated afterwards. Which do you prefer and why?


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    ^sadly, not all dancers have this as their credo. but on the other hand, some dancers spend SO much time working that they really don't have much a social life and ability to meet men if not at work.
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    my bad, I can't spell.
    Smart and witty but can't spell?Hm.
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