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    I have my first sugar daddy and so far its been a very pleasant and easy-going relationship. I've been with him for a couple months but aside from a gift card for Valentine's day I haven't received any extra gifts (besides my money of course). We agreed that after 2 months we would sit down and talk about whether we wanted to go further with our relationship and discuss a pay raise and I plan to tell him I want to double my price for time spent which I think he'll be fine with but I'm still wondering about the perks?? The shoes, the shopping sprees, etc? Should I request these also or just be glad I'm getting my envelopes and keep it moving.

    We meet once a week and always during the afternoon so dinner dates, etc. are probably never going to happen. He usually brings over a bottle of wine but sometimes I'm like.. maybe it'll be shoes this week! Lol.. Anyway, should gifts come with the whole deal? I hear girls getting all these extra perks and I'm like... hmmm

    So should I be content with the cash or expect cash AND gifts?

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    Maybe it depends how much is in the envelope. You do realize you are a prostitute right? Shoes and little treats are better at making you think you are a really a sugar baby. Tell him you feel like a ho.

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    Escort, Hooker, Prostitute, Whore, I don't care what you call me. There all just semantics. -Belle, Diary of A Call Girl.

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    Sugar baby? She didn't say that.

    I think the sugar baby thing is supposed to be more than what an escort would do on a typical one-three hour date. Of course you don't want to piss him off. What makes you think he is going give you a raise? Especially double? I hope you are getting enough!

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    Quote Originally Posted by strippername View Post
    Sugar baby? She didn't say that.

    I think the sugar baby thing is supposed to be more than what an escort would do on a typical one-three hour date. Of course you don't want to piss him off. What makes you think he is going give you a raise? Especially double? I hope you are getting enough!
    Ok, I understand what you're saying now. He certainly doesn't take me on dates or anything-- some weeks we just talk or go get coffee, and the next week he may come over. He has talked about taking me with him on his next out-of-town trip which I would expect to be compensated for so in that case-- cash does play the major role in our relationship. I guess that's why gifts haven't come into play.

    I do get enough but it should be more. It could always be more couldn't it? I don't think it could ever be enough so I'm asking for double.

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    So wait, is a prostitute and escort the same thing? Must be.. you're an escort.. you have a client, they come over, you screw, he gives you an envelope (envelope first of course) boo to semantics!

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    You are confusing me! I think it is my fault though. Or maybe that was a joke? Of course they are the same thing. I haven't read your other threads. Maybe I should to get some back story on this. I just don't want you to lie to yourself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by strippername View Post
    You are confusing me! I think it is my fault though. Or maybe that was a joke? Of course they are the same thing. I haven't read your other threads. Maybe I should to get some back story on this. I just don't want you to lie to yourself.
    I'm sorry.. you said a sugar baby does more than what an escort does so that's why she gets perks (the gifts, dinners, etc.) but an escort is just a prostitute for she shouldn't expect anything but cash. No, I get it. I was the one who got the labels wrong.

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    Sugar is sugar. My answer to OP is YES you should always get gifts. Like added toppings on an icecream, or else it's just a transaction like and escort.
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    I think you should ask for exactly what you want. If the plan is to get together to negotiate you won't come off as greedy because he is expecting you to tell him how he can make all your dreams come true. If he can't afford your dreams, then he will tell you what he can do for you. He may say he can double your cash, but can only afford occasional shopping trips. It's better to ask and be negotiated down than to regret not asking for what you really wanted. When guys at the club where I work ask me out to dinner I tell them I don't enjoy dining out, but I do enjoy shopping at Bottega Veneta, and if we're having a good time I just might let them take me to dinner afterward. Another dancer I know says she will go to dinner, but she'll need something to wear and offers to email a link to the dress and shoes she wants at Net-A-Porter because they offer same day delivery in NYC. If he has the items delivered then the date is on. Could you do something like this with your guy? Tell him you'd rather shop and let him pick out something special for you than spoil your diet on a restaurant meal, or tell him that you need something new to wear for him or you won't feel pretty and sexy. I think if you make him feel like the money makes the arrangement possible, but the gifts are really meaningful and make you feel very special to him, then he'll feel good about giving you both.

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    Default Re: Should gifts be expected from a sugar daddy or is the agreed upon cash enough?

    Update: We agreed on everything I asked for and the way I put it as far as gifts goes: I told him getting gifts will make me really feel like his "special girlfriend," as he likes to call me but without them I just feel cheap and unappreciated and he agreed. Right now he's out of town so I said something like, "omg.. I can't wait to see what you got me!"

    Here's my take: When negotiating money-- always be direct but when talking about gifts, it was easier for me to just smile and be flirty.

    Thank you for everyone's help!

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