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    My SD and I are having lunch tomorrow to discuss where we are going with our relationship. We agreed that in a couple months we would discuss whether or not we are both happy with our relationship and if we would go further (which I think we will). I plan on asking for more money (double) and talk about what I've been feeling lately: that I want more from him (gifts in particular, where are the gift cards? shoes? etc...). We have a great connection but I know what this is. I keep my eyes on the $$-- this is a business and I don't allow emotions to come into play BUT I am grateful that I have a guy that I vibe with-- he treats me like a lady, he's comforting, charming, sometimes we just talk for hours without doing anything. We're both intellects and can debate for hours on anything from politics to race to pop culture. Couldn't ask for anything better.

    But, I know its important to keep a business mindset so that's why I am arranging this meeting with him. I just don't know how to say, "On top of wanting more money, I want gifts." I wanted to mention the fact that I do everything I can to keep him happy.. I send him naughty pics throughout the day.. even made a couple vids for practice since I want to start camming soon... I wear sexy alfits, do dances.. etc. He gets the whole GFE on top of everything else but.. I want more from him and I think we have a relationship of sorts.. mistress? Eck. Maybe, I don't know. I usually don't do labels but in this case.. I guess you could call it that.. so... is it selfish of me to bring up gifts on top of asking for double?

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    Default Re: Meeting with my SD tomorrow to discuss $$

    How about something like this
    " blah blah blah but I love to be spoiled and surprised with gifts too ; so when we meet, I want you to surprise me with with a nice gift (or just name whatever gift or item you want) "

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    Quote Originally Posted by funnymoney View Post
    How about something like this
    " blah blah blah but I love to be spoiled and surprised with gifts too ; so when we meet, I want you to surprise me with with a nice gift (or just name whatever gift or item you want) "
    Thank you! I get it! i know you just have to be open, clear and direct and this is what I am learning as I go along.

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    Default Re: Meeting with my SD tomorrow to discuss $$

    Act like you deserve it, don't bat an eyelash. Act like it is what you're used to. I like the "I love to be surprised with things!" idea too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GlamourRouge View Post
    Act like you deserve it, don't bat an eyelash. Act like it is what you're used to. I like the "I love to be surprised with things!" idea too.
    Yes. Being confident in what you say goes a long way. Even the best crafted response will be ineffective if you're tentative in your speech or indicate otherwise (body language, etc.) that you don't believe you're worth it. As corny as it sounds, it may help to practice saying it over and over until it comes out without making you nervous.

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    Default Re: Meeting with my SD tomorrow to discuss $$ *UPDATED*

    My SD and I met for coffee and it went well. He's such a sweetheart and was open to discussing my thoughts! We agreed on double (although I tried to get triple cause I'm greedy) but he did agree that more gifts are required to keep things hot and steamy.
    They way I put it was: I give you gifts (pics, NSFW videos, sexy lingirie, etc) so I want more of the same in the form of gift cards, trips, etc.


    Thanks ladies! I'm grateful for this whole experience because it is helping me become a better negotiator which is important in everything you do!

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