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    This could mean anything from personality to what color car he/she drives. What must a person do or have to be with you? What are you willing to bend on? What's an absolute deal breaker?

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    Cash and clean...I escort too, and seen it all...Im not into love or romance but some sure try, even though there are much better choices for them, DuH!!

    Friendship?, dont smoke near me, or do weird shit! hehe Clean..... nice, funny, honest..

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    .........posted twice on me
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    Do you mean a serious partner? I'm not into frivolous relationships. But if you're referring to a serious partner, he MUST be intelligent, trustworthy/faithful, at least some-what open minded, and not to be shallow but looks do matter. I'd strongly prefer him to have money, but hey, I have plenty of regulars and make plenty of money on my own However, he must have something going for himself; I'd like a man who's en route to a successful career (preferably college educated) so that if the relationship lasts, we'll both have steady jobs and not have to worry about finances. I'd prefer a man who isn't a seriously right-winged conservative. Deal breakers are a man who's pretty much opposite of the traits I've mentioned: if he's a player, or thinks he's a player, he has no chance. If he's a lazy ass who sits around all day and doesn't have a bright-looking future, he has no chance. If he isn't smart, he has no chance.

    But I'm only 22, so I'm in no rush for this future man of my dreams.
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    good hygiene, fit, and over 30 ( i hate younger guys for the most part, ick)..and dark eyes are so attractive to me. never been with a blue-eyed guy..although its not a must, its a plus!

    but he MUST be honest, trustworthy and responsible. good with kids. good with money ( no living with mommy, deal breaker right there), and he cannot be a sexist pig who holds me or any woman to a different standard than himself. open-minded, adventurous, and we must be able to have intelligent conversations, and debates! oh and he's gotta be good at lickn pussy or no deal! lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nina_ View Post
    Do you mean a serious partner? I'm not into frivolous relationships. But if you're referring to a serious partner, he MUST be intelligent, trustworthy/faithful, at least some-what open minded, and not to be shallow but looks do matter. I'd strongly prefer him to have money, but hey, I have plenty of regulars and make plenty of money on my own However, he must have something going for himself; I'd like a man who's en route to a successful career (preferably college educated) so that if the relationship lasts, we'll both have steady jobs and not have to worry about finances. I'd prefer a man who isn't a seriously right-winged conservative. Deal breakers are a man who's pretty much opposite of the traits I've mentioned: if he's a player, or thinks he's a player, he has no chance. If he's a lazy ass who sits around all day and doesn't have a bright-looking future, he has no chance. If he isn't smart, he has no chance.

    But I'm only 22, so I'm in no rush for this future man of my dreams.
    If you find this man ask of he has a brother lol. I'm pretty much looking for the same thing and all the guys I meet seem to have a couple of those qualities at best... Hot but stupid. Educated but ugly as sin. Or the worst...hot, intelligent, successful....and a republican. A different religion I can handle but if I gotta listen to one more asshole talk about how same sex marriage is a disgrace to this country I will claw my eyes out.

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    good hygiene, fit, and over 30 ( i hate younger guys for the most part, ick)..and dark eyes are so attractive to me. never been with a blue-eyed guy..although its not a must, its a plus!

    but he MUST be honest, trustworthy and responsible. good with kids. good with money ( no living with mommy, deal breaker right there), and he cannot be a sexist pig who holds me or any woman to a different standard than himself. open-minded, adventurous, and we must be able to have intelligent conversations, and debates! oh and he's gotta be good at lickn pussy or no deal! lol
    I WISH SO BAD I could be attracted to men over 30 but it feels weird to me they're all so perfect on paper though! Jobs, houses, money, maturity... I'm always meeting men that are single and interested in me but the 10+ year age gap skeeves me out. I wish I could wave magic wand and be able to lust madly for a man that could actually support me through college but I end up with guys my age whose date budget allows for eating at a diner and then go back to his mom's house and watch tv in his room *eyeroll*

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    80 years old, filthy rich and on his deathbed, with me as sole beneficiary.
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    LOL at tempest 666! He sounds perfect

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    Lots of my regulars are conservatives, they seem more honest than some of the others I know less about.. and they seem to be willing to work and have some coin. When it comes to business they on the same page as me .. just saying...

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    that he doesn't kick me out of his bed after he does me
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    For me, looks are not everything but it is a bonus. Physical attraction is what draws people to one another. What I would look for and want is the following:
    1. Smart: She reads books, watches the news, keeps up with current events, etc.
    2. Nice: She should be a nice person, caring, compassionate, and considerate. (The three "C"s as I like to put it)
    3. Open minded: Its always good to keep an open mind.
    Thats about it really, I am a simple man and would love to have a simple down to Earth girl who doesn't mess to much with her hair and make up.

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    I look for 1st physical attraction then mental & emotional maturity. There are a list of things I've learned from past relationships that I always look for but these are the basics.

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    -respectful, manners, class
    -attractive/good hygiene/self care
    -make more money than me--i'm not a gold digger, but i'm not gonna support A MAN.
    -pro gun, preferably owning several and being extremely knowledgeable on guns and gun rights
    -NOT be a democrat
    -treat me like a princess

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss1dancypants View Post
    -pro gun, preferably owning several and being extremely knowledgeable on guns and gun rights
    absofucknlutely! yup!!! Amen! lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by xGigi View Post
    This could mean anything from personality to what color car he/she drives. What must a person do or have to be with you? What are you willing to bend on? What's an absolute deal breaker?
    What kind of partner? Friend to see movies with and fuck? Long term?

    A love of sex, good food, and exercise of all kinds essential. Bisexual a +. Should enjoy spur of the moment adventures and outdoor oriented stuff, and not be religious or closed minded. You start spouting God nonsense as me, I'm done. Give me illogical double standards, like sex before marriage OK, but gay marriage bad, and other crap like that = you're not a person who thinks things through and fall back to your social learning and group think.

    Being into firearms a + and or at least understanding why the 2A is important to Basic Human Rights.

    Smoking is a deal breaker, as is drama and using the "L word" too damn soon. How soon is too soon? I don't know, but I know it when it happens. Why the rush?
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    P - A - S - S- S -S - S -S - I - O - N.
    (that's how you spell it right?)

    Seriously. I have 3 men in my life that have been in my life for a decade or more. Three of my best friends, that have every attribute of a man I'd want to fall madly in love with, go on wild crazy adventures with, lay in bed side by side with some books and a comfortable silence...with. One of them even describes our relationship as brother/sister that occasionally fuck when they're drunk (yes, that's disgustingly incestuous terminology, but we're not ACTUALLY related so it's OK).

    These guys are smart, attractive, funny, with a zest for life, travel and excitement. Deep thinkers, kind hearts. Wildly motivated to pursue their dreams. Open minded, accepting of me and others, non-judgmental. Everything on my list. But there's NO PASSION there whatsoever!! And when there's no passion, it doesn't matter how great the person is. You gotta have that chemistry... Or you just end up with the love of a brother and sister that occasionally fuck when they're drunk. *sigh*
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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    absofucknlutely! yup!!! Amen! lol
    I'll bring the toys if you bring the ammo!

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    Attractive (to me)/chemistry, self awareness, intelligent, very masculine to balance out my strong energy, responsible, dependable on the BIG issues ( I can take care of myself on the normal stuff), health and fitness conscious, someone who just 'gets me'...quirks and all, and maturity on all levels.

    Well that shouldn't be so difficult...lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by xGigi View Post
    If you find this man ask of he has a brother lol. I'm pretty much looking for the same thing and all the guys I meet seem to have a couple of those qualities at best... Hot but stupid. Educated but ugly as sin. Or the worst...hot, intelligent, successful....and a republican. A different religion I can handle but if I gotta listen to one more asshole talk about how same sex marriage is a disgrace to this country I will claw my eyes out.
    hahaha this times a million. birthers need not apply with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by miss1dancypants View Post
    -pro gun, preferably owning several and being extremely knowledgeable on guns and gun rights
    -NOT be a democrat
    This part I find quite intriguing because generally speaking most dancers I have known (at least when I was actively dancing)were so left wing. Btw I actually kind of agree with this because for the most part I can't handle a leftwing man, nor an extreme rightwing man either.

    Anyway, I tried to post this earlier but my computer froze so here it is again in what I look for in a mate.

    1. Men who have zero baby mama drama. Basically this means that I will not under any circumstance date a man who is either a divorced dad or a never married one. Everyone knows how strict I am on this so no rehashing it except to say this will not change. Many reasons, from financial to drama to just don't want to come after his kids. A divorced dad is also out because as a devout Catholic I couldn't marry him at church unless he was annulled. A never married dad, especially one with several baby mamas would not share my morals.

    2. Must be religious. I attend church at least once a week or more and always attend events. A guy who was non religious would probably not be able to accept this.

    3. Must love animals and kids and be kind in general. This is so important in a mate because there are so many cruel people. I want a man who will be there for me and is kind in general. I have a dog, cat, and bird so he has to love animals. I don't have kids but have a niece and work with kids at church.

    4. Must share my interests. I want someone who is into the same things as me because it's fun to share activities together.

    I am always told that I am picky and should settle, but guess what? I met a man who fits ALL of these plus so much more. He is childless (he is never married too apparently which is a HUGE plus), he is religious (Catholic), he loves everyone and is all around kind, and in addition not only does he have animals like dogs, birds and even a snake but he owns an animal related business! He also has nieces and nephews he is devoted too. We met at an activity we are both involved in and we have mutual friends. He's not the cutest guy, nor the tallest (he is about 3 inches shorter)but he is so kind and gentle. Mutual friends tell both of us we look like we belong together already. If everything works out then I will truly believe God answered my prayers in a way I never expected. Strangely, I have always felt I would marry a man with Mexican ancestry and he is 50% (50 Italian). The chemistry with him is so amazing and it gets stronger the more I get to know him.

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    is that the ex officer who you posted about earlier kelly?? if it is, im glad it worked out!!

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    Thanks, yes it's him. He is so shy and at one point I thought he wasn't interested until he said he was planning on taking me out. I had never dealt with a shy man before so it was a learning experience but I have strong faith it'll work out.

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    im rooting for you kelly
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    Honestly, what a difficult question to answer........

    A Lady and a Lioness........ A caring, loving, domestic, skillful, homemaker to me and friends; a steel eyed, harsh, valkyrie, remorseless to those that cross her path with intent to cause her or those she cares for harm.

    A bubbly, outgoing, energized spirit that loves to entertain and keeps a calendar full of community events. A sassy, teasing, sensual spirit for whom the bedroom is a place of warmth, and sharing intimacy.

    Financially responsible, the income doesn't matter, as long as she can use it wisely, with room for indulgences where appropriate. Ethically responsible, no one should think twice about her judgement with the large or small matters of what is right and wrong. Compatibility in morale issues (not going to list) and will to debate politely on it, happy in hiking boots or heels, able to pack one suitcase for a seven day get away, a health and taste conscious cook (because I am awful), has her own hobbies and time to herself and respects mine, trusting of me as I am of her (because once it is gone, it is gone), a builder and nurturer that likes to tend her garden and flowers, a learner or student that likes to challenge herself with new things.


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