Ok, a few weeks ago I met a customer who I thought would be a solid regular. He bought lots of dances and we had a lot in common in terms of movie tastes, sports teams, etc. We exchanged numbers so we could keep in touch. He came in again a few days later and spent a decent amount of money again, and then came in again about a week after that. Then he was supposed to come see me but ended up canceling because he had a flight to catch to ATL for business. He said when he got back he'd bring me a gift to make it up to me.
Apparently, the whole "bring me a gift" thing didn't really mean that; what he wants to do is take me out to lunch and then take me to Tiffany's to get a Tiffany necklace that I want (we both love the movie Breakfast at Tiffany's, so it was his idea, but I love Tiffany jewelry so I wouldn't mind it). He also wants to take me to Tiger's games (the Detroit baseball team), etc. Basically, he now wants to see me outside of the club to go on dates, etc.
Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't mind being taken shopping and I love going to Tigers games and whatnot, but I RARELY spend time with customers outside of the club... I am an entertainer, I don't do any "extras." I've only let customers take me out on dates on two occasions, and those were with guys who'd come to see me in the clubs countless times and spent a lot of money.
How do I get this man to understand he needs to see me more inside the club and spend money there? Or should I just let him take me out and enjoy the perks, and leave it at that? He has stated that he'll pay me for my time spent with him, but I'm afraid if I see him outside of the club he'll eventually expect me to have sex with him which simply isn't going to happen. Ladies, how would you handle the situation?



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so if you don't want to,explain that he needs to build more of a rapport, gotta get to know you more, etc the usual. maybe hint that after you really bond in champagne he may have a chance lol, if he still persists and doesn't take no for an answer then drop him..he's just looking for a gf/lay. idk, this is a very annoying but common situation, sorry


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