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    Soo...I have been rejected from so many places as a black girl, I really, really would like some help figuring out what place would actually hire me. I was just recently rejected by the gold club in Baltimore...which I heard hires all types :-/ I know it wasn't because of my dancing..i am pretty good..and everyone but the hiring manager was impressed :-/ .If anyone knows of anywhere in dc, md or va that would hire a girl that looks like me, I would be much obliged :-) I don't have the huge boobs, but I have a decent booty :-) Please forgive my horribly messy room. and my sideways pictures....I have no idea why they are orienting themselves that way...When I originally saved them they were vertical.

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    im just wondering maybe if you have considered that it could be your attitude because there's nothing wrong with you physically sooooo...

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    Do I seem to have a bad attitude? I didn't think I did. I hope not. I was just looking for honest advice...I've been rejected from like..everywhere. This is just the newest spot.

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    Stadium Club in DC seems to favor your body type and demographic, as well as Norma Jeans. If you are able to drive, Club Onyx in Philadelphia might be a good fit for you. However they have received some negative press due to a recent shooting. A smaller option is Sabel's showbar.
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    Thanks Tempest :-) I will have to at least try norma jeans.

    Yeah Ive been rejected by...the mile high club, stadium club, crystal city restaurant, papermoon springfield (although these all rejected me 3 years ago) ...I mean, maybe I am just not as good a dancer as I thought I was? I only ever managed to get work out in WV. I am kinda shy, so maybe that came off when they met me? I really do not know. One problem kinda have is im not super comfortable with the more urban clubs..Just because I have a very hard time relating to the customers and the girls there.....although apparently I am built like a more urban dancer.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gogo1 View Post
    Thanks Tempest :-)
    I am kinda shy, so maybe that came off when they met me? I really do not know.
    ^Maybe, shyness often comes across as being "snobby" or anti social when you don't mean it to. Did you make an effort to look the part for your interview or audition?

    If I were you I would really glam up and fake it ('til you make it) when you audition next-act confident (but not arrogant) and very friendly or flirty and approachable. Dressing for success, lots of eye contact, nodding and smiling never goes astray in any job interview-this is no different. Actual confidence will come in time.
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    I had friends that worked at Norma Jeans and they did pretty good. I don't have much experience with urban clubs beyond picking friends up and occasionally popping in to visit. Big tits and no ass do not make money at urban clubs, especially when one dances like an "anime fuckpuppet" according to an exasperated co-worker. (bounce tits, bounce tits, wiggle tailbone, flash pussy) That's my routine. Urban clubs are more about showmanship and that's one thing I don't have. I'm too vain and too passively lazy to make the effort. I enjoy the ATM sitting on my chest. You look good IMO. Why don't you try a mixed club? Some do have "quotas" though.

    I have a buddy here in PA that is black, but she plays the "atypical" black girl card. She dances to metal, is very quiet, and has a somewhat sarcastic sense of humor. Have you thought about that angle? (not saying you have to play that card sometimes going against the grain may work for you. Or it could backfire with the fetishists complaining that you're "not black enough")
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    Olive Jardin -
    Yep. I thought I was flawless, fake eyelashes full face of make up, best most sequin-y outfit....but..nope :-/ I have to work on the being flirty and confident...especially when I am overwhelmed and intimidated.

    Tempest - thanks for the complement!
    I want to try the stadium club again, since it has been soooo long, but I thought they were only hiring perfect bodies these days, because of their new found celebrity. A lot of big name rappers and what not go there these days. But I guess you never know until you try :-)

    Yeah have tried quite a few mixed clubs...i think they have all filled their "quota" though. The only places ive managed to work were in WV about 3 years ago..but the money was so slow..I kinda dont wanna go back.

    Maybe I should try a persona, rather than just...being myself...I like all music, pretty much, metal, edm, hip-hop. But I guess if you want to market yourself you have to fit an "image". Although I kinda think customers think all black girls only come in 1 flavor.

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    Have you tried Fuegos or Mustangs in MD(pg county)? I think you would easily be hired at both---plus, those are both lap dance clubs so you'd potentially make more than you would in DC. I think Fuegos is the nicer of the two and is topless, and Mustangs is divier and fully nude--could be the other way around though.

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    I'm not from the area so I can't recommend any clubs. I just wanted to say I think you're really cute and you have a nice body. It can be hard being hired as a black dancer sometimes. Keep trying and eventually you'll make it into a club you love.

    Oh yeah, if it's been three freaking years, GO BACK AND TRY AGAIN! Who's to say what has changed in that amount of time? They've probaby been through a zillion managers!

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    Gogo bazz and Crüe in forest ville md would def hire you. Decent money but beware of the girls (crazy or thieves) and it IS a dive. Lol good luck !

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    Well, idk what to tell you, not from there. I think you're pretty with a great shape. Try some of suggestions above, & keep looking around/trying. Good luck

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    Quote Originally Posted by whirlerz View Post
    I think you're pretty with a great shape.
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    I think you're going to want to shoot me in the face for saying this but I think perhaps you were shooting too high with golds. You yourself state that you're not a good hustler maybe that showed in your interaction when you had your interview. No offense but with these posts you keep making it doesn't strike me as confident and maybe that's showing when you audition. You mentioned something about needing something fixed dental wise maybe they can sense your anxiousness about wanting to work.

    One can ask a million questions but until you evaluate yourself and what could help your outcome all the posting in the world isn't going to help.

    Also everyone knows there's a black girl quota/limit. They could've wanted to hire you but already had too many girls already.

    It's just harder for black girls period. I don't know how you looked for the interview but it looks like in the picture you have a cheap plastic looking wig or weave. (You need to spend the money on a nice sew in. Nails done is good too. Also I hope your makeup was 100% on point) And you could stand to lose a few pounds (20)/tone up a bit. Being black they're going to hold you to a higher standard. You might even have to put in more effort than the majority of the other girls and look as polished as possible.(You yourself stated urban clubs don't suit you although you fit the body type) So need to assimilate a bit. It sounds harsh but you have a bit of stomach, some weight in your thighs, and rolls in your back as you were turning around.

    I'm not trying to be bitch but be real and I'm not trying to point the finger at someone as I'd have no problem posting my pics and being critiqued as well.

    I cam and I've noticed I make a lot more money when I'm at my lowest weight. I also do ashtanga yoga 2 hours a day. Since I like the freedom of not worrying about my body. I'm a hardass when it comes to my own weight. And frequent skinnygossip.com to give you an idea. To me it'd be unsavory to view someone that size in a bikini let alone stripping. Weight/looks matter in the adult industry. There seems to be no effort regarding your body. Looks just like a any girl off the street in a thong. Urban clubs might be your best bet at the moment. I don't see any girls that match up that way body wise in the upscale clubs around me at least. Some are lucky to be naturally thin. But others choose to transform their body.

    I have a similar fat distribution but I fought it off and went from a size 8 to a size 3 or 4 which is good for me since I'm tall.

    I know the economy sucks but you have to have in mind there's tons of girls applying so you must be on point.

    And with cam as well as stripping you'll be doing alot of posing and you don't want to worry about avoiding poses or moving in a way that won't emphasize the extra weight or look unflattering.

    But since you are a pretty girl it wouldn't take much at all to look even more amazing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by la429 View Post
    im just wondering maybe if you have considered that it could be your attitude because there's nothing wrong with you physically sooooo...
    Do you know her personally? Does she have a history of being a bitch on here? What am I missing in her post that might indicate attitude?

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    Quote Originally Posted by moatdancer View Post
    Do you know her personally? Does she have a history of being a bitch on here? What am I missing in her post that might indicate attitude?
    I thought that was rude too but there's no point I think in addressing it as it'll just stir more s*** she already addressed the poster already so further hashing it seems unnecessary. Although she's nothing but polite in her posts and even comes off a bit shy so that remark made zero sense to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deaddolly View Post
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    I cam and I've noticed I make a lot more money when I'm at my lowest weight. I also do ashtanga yoga 2 hours a day. Since I like the freedom of not worrying about my body. I'm a hardass when it comes to my own weight. And frequent skinnygossip.com to give you an idea. To me it'd be unsavory to view someone that size in a bikini let alone stripping. Weight/looks matter in the adult industry. There seems to be no effort regarding your body. Looks just like a any girl off the street in a thong. Urban clubs might be your best bet at the moment. I don't see any girls that match up that way body wise in the upscale clubs around me at least. Some are lucky to be naturally thin. But others choose to transform their body.


    But since you are a pretty girl it wouldn't take much at all to look even more amazing.
    Okay, I'll keep that in mind. I def need to work on my hustling skills as well. But umm...I maybe should lose about 10lbs, maybe even 15lbs...but then I'll beat my college 400 meter runner weight. Which is fine. I think I should probably up my hair and make up but to say I take no care of my body, well, I can run a mile in 6:55 soo, people who don't take care of their bodies can't do that.

    I think its great you work out everyday but that website, skinnygossip.com, you referenced is pro-ana. They go out of their way to find female celebrities of all sorts and pick their bodies apart. I personally don't think that's a healthy way to be, but I guess as an adult you are free to make your own choices.

    Thank you for taking the time to write, and I will keep some of your advice in mind :-)
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    Quote Originally Posted by gogo1 View Post
    Okay, I'll keep that in mind. I def need to work on my hustling skills as well. But umm...I maybe should lose about 10lbs, maybe even 15lbs...but then I'll beat my college 400 meter runner weight. Which is fine. I think I should probably up my hair and make up but to say I take no care of my body, well, I can run a mile in 6:55 soo, people who don't take care of their bodies can't do that.

    I think its great you work out everyday but that website, skinnygossip.com, you referenced is pro-ana. They go out of their way to find female celebrities of all sorts and pick their bodies apart. I personally don't think that's a healthy way to be, but I guess as an adult you are free to make your own choices.

    Thank you for taking the time to write, and I will keep some of your advice in mind :-)
    I didn't say you didn't take care of your body. (Total misquote) I was saying there was no effort in regards to it looking toned in any way. Which is very obvious.

    Weight has nothing to do with physical ability to a point. People that weigh much more than me can also run long distances, dance, do gymnastics, and kick my butt on the tennis court. It has nothing to do with one's body but building up endurance. As long as someone isn't severally overweight anyone can do that.

    Do whatever works for you if 10lbs looks perfect stop there.

    The site is proskinny not pro-ana (which is heavy assumption to casually make ) if you read the FAQ. People are banned from the site who post such stuff. There are however people that lean that way who visit the site but they are none of my concern. Just as I'm not concerned about the people doing drugs when I go to metal shows it comes with the territory.

    It's just a group of fellow hard asses like myself. It's more satirical than anything as well as entertainment. No correlation with my health. I find some of the women they post entirely too skinny but I read what interests me.

    I think Masumi Max is the perfect example she's average sized but she works out and is nicely toned.
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    wow from the pics i wouldn't say "she could stand to lose weight"! she looks quite toned and fit to me. not skinny but why is skinny the hailed as the best thing you can be?there is such a thing as being too thin,and you dont want to go there. its just as unattractive as being too fat. everybody's body is different, and different guys like different things, as well as different clubs..being HEALTHY is beautiful, and i think everyone can agree on that. if you are too fat, then im too fat, and i get told im skinny constantly. it actually gets annoying.
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    I think you look great hun! You'd have no problem working in the clubs I've danced in.

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    I, also, am not from Baltimore but I think you look great and your stomach is fine. Being thin doesn't guarantee you'll be hired everywhere, and confidence is key. I understand that's not something you can buy from the beauty supply, so if choosing a persona helps you toward that goal, then so be it. But I always feel happier and at my best when I'm just being myself. Good luck!

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    I don't think you really need to lose any weight. I don't know how tall you are but you seem decently proportioned to me. It never hurts to hit the gym and strive for improvement though. I hit my goal weight and then some but I still go 4x a week 2 hours a day.

    Just my opinion. If I thought you needed to lose weight trust me I'd tell you. I'm not a club manager though. Some places might be hypercritical of you. Just be prepared for that.

    Also I agree with Deaddolly. After I dropped the weight I gained my money went way up. I still can't get hired at some clubs because of my tattoos, but because I lost weight there are more options open to me than when I was heavy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by gogo1 View Post
    Thanks Tempest :-) I will have to at least try norma jeans.

    Yeah Ive been rejected by...the mile high club, stadium club, crystal city restaurant, papermoon springfield (although these all rejected me 3 years ago) ...I mean, maybe I am just not as good a dancer as I thought I was? I only ever managed to get work out in WV. I am kinda shy, so maybe that came off when they met me? I really do not know. One problem kinda have is im not super comfortable with the more urban clubs..Just because I have a very hard time relating to the customers and the girls there.....although apparently I am built like a more urban dancer.
    Honestly clubs don't really care how good pof a dancer you are so I wouldn't worry about that. They just want to see your body. I don't even go on stage but I work in top clubs across the U.S. and they want you out of your outfit quickly. I orked at ther gold club and didn't like it. It regulard based ( bunch of old guys sitting waiting for their regualr girl who jusy sits and drinks for free.) I like hustler better. I'm not sure why your getting turned down from places? Are you gpoing in dressed to the nines, hair makeup?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deaddolly View Post
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    I think you're going to want to shoot me in the face for saying this but I think perhaps you were shooting too high with golds. You yourself state that you're not a good hustler maybe that showed in your interaction when you had your interview. No offense but with these posts you keep making it doesn't strike me as confident and maybe that's showing when you audition. You mentioned something about needing something fixed dental wise maybe they can sense your anxiousness about wanting to work.

    One can ask a million questions but until you evaluate yourself and what could help your outcome all the posting in the world isn't going to help.

    Also everyone knows there's a black girl quota/limit. They could've wanted to hire you but already had too many girls already.

    It's just harder for black girls period. I don't know how you looked for the interview but it looks like in the picture you have a cheap plastic looking wig or weave. (You need to spend the money on a nice sew in. Nails done is good too. Also I hope your makeup was 100% on point) And you could stand to lose a few pounds (20)/tone up a bit. Being black they're going to hold you to a higher standard. You might even have to put in more effort than the majority of the other girls and look as polished as possible.(You yourself stated urban clubs don't suit you although you fit the body type) So need to assimilate a bit. It sounds harsh but you have a bit of stomach, some weight in your thighs, and rolls in your back as you were turning around.

    I'm not trying to be bitch but be real and I'm not trying to point the finger at someone as I'd have no problem posting my pics and being critiqued as well.

    I cam and I've noticed I make a lot more money when I'm at my lowest weight. I also do ashtanga yoga 2 hours a day. Since I like the freedom of not worrying about my body. I'm a hardass when it comes to my own weight. And frequent skinnygossip.com to give you an idea. To me it'd be unsavory to view someone that size in a bikini let alone stripping. Weight/looks matter in the adult industry. There seems to be no effort regarding your body. Looks just like a any girl off the street in a thong. Urban clubs might be your best bet at the moment. I don't see any girls that match up that way body wise in the upscale clubs around me at least. Some are lucky to be naturally thin. But others choose to transform their body.

    I have a similar fat distribution but I fought it off and went from a size 8 to a size 3 or 4 which is good for me since I'm tall.

    I know the economy sucks but you have to have in mind there's tons of girls applying so you must be on point.

    And with cam as well as stripping you'll be doing alot of posing and you don't want to worry about avoiding poses or moving in a way that won't emphasize the extra weight or look unflattering.

    But since you are a pretty girl it wouldn't take much at all to look even more amazing.
    Are you a dancer? Iwork in TOP clubs all over the U.S. and the majority of the dancers nowadays aren't fit and skinny. I'm just shy of 5 feet 7 and weigh 111 and I'm in a club with over 100 girls now and there are at least 40 way bigger than the op. Dancers today are not the perfect 10's od when I entered the biz. I look around nightly and go how the hell did that get hired and these are nice clubs!

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    Quote Originally Posted by michele11 View Post
    Are you a dancer? Iwork in TOP clubs all over the U.S. and the majority of the dancers nowadays aren't fit and skinny. I'm just shy of 5 feet 7 and weigh 111 and I'm in a club with over 100 girls now and there are at least 40 way bigger than the op. Dancers today are not the perfect 10's od when I entered the biz. I look around nightly and go how the hell did that get hired and these are nice clubs!
    I don't think Kate Upton or Barbra Palvin have any business modeling but there's always people that you wonder about. However at the end of the day it helps to look good/be mildly attractive. It doesn't matter what the other girls are doing or what they look like. When the op is auditioning they're only judging her. (And extra hard being a minority)

    My post mentioned the clubs in MY area and what I've seen. It's not about being a perfect 10 I never said it was. It's about putting your best effort.

    If you read my post within this very thread it says I currently cam. I have danced before but that's neither here nor there.

    I am used to being critiqued. Very used to it. No if doesn't always feel good but I rather be given new things to try than to flounder around doing the same thing over and over hoping for new results.

    I was the ONLY one not to sugarcoat things. As the daughter of a model and also a minority I know first hand if you don't fit the standard or the person hiring usually doesn't go for your look they have plenty of other (non-minority) options to fill their time. (Which counts for alot since she wants to work in upscale clubs) So you have to knock them dead. (There's other threads started by or responded to by black dancers that echo these same sentiments) I.E get a sew in, have nails done, must be on point.

    I've been auditioning for acting jobs and some modeling stuff since I was in gradeschool.
    It's usually in front of a panel of 3 people and they are very blunt and tell you to your face what you're doing wrong or what you need to work on. Or sometimes they'll just humor you and smile and your face giving the impression that you did an amazing job yet never call you back.

    I feel like I'm saying what no one else will. When you walk through that door for the audition (modeling, acting, dancing no matter what it is) they pretty much already have decided if they will hire you or not. But to be polite or if they know you've drove a long way to get there they'll let you audition to humor you smile and your face already having you crossed off the list and won't ever tell you why.

    I don't understand the direction towards me since the poster is the one that asked to be critiqued and posted photos. (My opinion is my thoughts at the end of the day if no one else agrees with it or finds it not useful is fine by me. I'm just putting it out there. My thoughts are my thoughts and they make sense to me. I'm not here to or care to argue or hash it out with every person who doesn't agree)

    She herself said everyone but the hiring manger looked impressed with her audition. Everyone else was being polite but he already knew he was never going to hire her. Since she drove over an hour to get there they'd say they'd call her to give her some false hope. Like a guy says he'll call and never does. The poster herself agreed with me that her hair and makeup was lacking and that she needs to loose some weight.

    When my mom was modeling if she didn't fit the weight or size requirements they'd fire her and blacklist her and none of the other designers would use her. If you do what you've always done you'll get what you always got I don't see anything vulgar with improving one's appearance if it will help with the job.

    I'm not suggesting anything crazy or what is beyond one's reach. She has things that money can't buy a pretty face and a nice shape.

    If losing a tiny bit of weight and doing my hair and nails as well as improving my confidence would greatly improve my chances I sure would do it.

    It's true these panel people or whoever is auditioning you will grin in your face and just will cut you from their list without saying anything. It's up to the person auditioning to step their game up.

    Plus she's been rejected from clubs from 3 years ago and quite a few clubs recently and hasn't been hired which is abnormal if nothing she's doing is working so far and she's on here asking for help she should try something different.

    I'm done with this thread as there's nothing left to say as I already beyond stated my opinion in my last two posts. I already had it made up in my mind that I was done with this thread but since I was addressed directly I've responded once more.

    I'm done though.

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