Hey girls =D
I'm sorry I was gone from the forum for somedays, specially to my friends who sent me PM these days. I'll answer you all tonight ok? Miss you already =D Anyway, I've been some kind of trouble here and I would like you girls to help me out, if you can. I guess I'll split in topics as I've read if again and it's a huge text, sorry for that.
THE CONCERN
As you know, I cam with the "blessings" of my husband. He even helped me out in a new set of pictures on monday, outfit exchange, research for nice sexy positions for the pictures and - later on - he corrected lights and stains on Photoshop (mainly on the wall and my skin) while I was actually working on cam.
This thursday I was uploading the pictures and he came talk to me, with his concerns. He said he was too worried, he thought about the pictures and he realized people can copy pictures and spread around much easier than record my sessions. And there's my body and my face in there. He said he's afraid people will find out about me, actually that they'll have great chance to find out about my job if I post the pictures and keep doing that. Besides that, he told me about the future: if people notice my camming profession our lives would be hell, according to them. People would point me on the streets and treat him as a "husband of a whore". You see, our town has just 35.000 people living here. It's really small, but he has been here forever (he was born here). I'm from a huge city in our country, 14 million people. So that's different, I guess.
He said he was shocked after he saw on TV a really sad story where a guy drunk and got his car, and ended up running over a man in a bicicle. He tore his arm off in the accident! The bicicle guy survived, but in the end he had no right arm, and that was his "main arm". My husband got shocked because the driver's family was hostilized BAD here. People even threw eggs at the guy's father. What do they have to do with the accident?? I mean, the driver must pay... but was his father there helping him to screw things up?
He's afraid besides people point me out on the street, people will point out his family as well. And, above everything, he's concerned for our children... we don't have any yet, but we plan to have them someday. Living here would be impossible for them, he says.
So he told me to keep working, but don't post pictures of my face. If I need, just in the bio picture and with no tits/butt/etc. WITH MY FACE. If I show something, no face on that. And he said he knows it won't save the day, but will make things harder for someone to find out.
About me, I can mention I don't care people finding out for me. They don't pay my bills. But I worry about my kids, family and I worry about my husband as well. I've been so bullied in childhood that I carry my troubles till nowadays. I know how it's like to be bullied and I've grown a shield for that. But my hubbie really seems to be troubled about it, and I don't wanna hurt my children in the future.
EARNINGS ON WEBCAM
My husband also thinks camming is some kind of "endless scam" where you work lots and get little. That some girls really manage to make something out of it but most won't do much, and he thinks I'll go that way. He said it's not because I'm ugly, actually he says I'm beautiful and a great acquisition to any website, according to him. But that there are so many girls with full-time exposure and really good connection... my connection sucks and I can only work 3 or 4 hours/day. I've been camming for 3 weeks and made 100 dollars so far.
The first week I've worked a little but spent a long time applying for websites. The second week I've worked about 4 days but I was waiting for my new internet connection, which didn't work so I gave up. And the third week I got really really sick, really bad PMS that made me stay in bed for two days. I never had such horrible cramps. Now I'm good as new and working again, this will be my forth week.
So, counting bad connection, little time because of my main job and the other topic...
PRIVACY X EARNINGS
I love camming so much... it's really fun to change outfits, research for the best lights, nice positions, good shows and really showing myself on camera. But I feel like not showing my face and having so many restrictions (the ones above) will affect my earnings! What do you think, girls? I'm a marketing girl and I was soooo eager to have a good Twitter, C4S, and build the right aura around my persona... and now it's all gone, not showing my face will afect everything I've planned.
DISGUISE
I was thinking about having a black wig for me, change my eyes color... so I can keep showing my face, but I feel maybe I'll look like a clown ¬¬ besides, can you imagine I'm putting wig, lenses, make up and outfit every single day... it will be hell...
FOR THE GIRLS ALREADY "OUT" ABOUT CAMMING...
Did people point you out? Did you have problems with your kids, if you have them? Did you have problems with your parents, or in your town (if you're from a small one?). I know my country is different, but I would love to hear from you.
FOR THE GIRLS WHO HIDE ABOUT CAMMING...
How long have you been hiding you camming job? Why do you hide it? No one ever suspected? What do you do to hide it? Do you show your face of use a disguise? If you don't show your face, does it affect your earnings? Do you sell on C4S?
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I'm sorry again for the long post, but this is really important... I feel like if I'm doing half thing, I shouldn't be doing it at all. If I can't do a good marketing job on camming, why bother camming at all? I don't wanna stuck a dildo in myself to make like 100 bucks a week... it's worth at least 500 bucks a week, or more! But can I reach it having so many troubles in my way? I'm so sad about all of this... I really wish you girls could help me out...
Thank you for reading =* I'm eager to read your opinions![]()




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