First of all I would like to thank all of you ladies for all of the info and tips you provide for us newbies, I honestly don't think I would have ever gotten the courage to try dancing if I didn't spend weeks lurking on sw lol, so thank you!!! The knowledge you can gain from here is priceless.
So here's my story: me and my boyfriend/daughters father broke up and I was super depressed. I didn't feel like doing anything but take care of my daughter, go to school, and lay in bed all day on sw; it was pathetic. I've thought about being a stripper for a couple years but never had the courage and couldn't be because my bf wasn't cool with the idea. So it was always just kind of a fantasy of mine. Even when we broke up I was still hesitant to try it because if my ex found out he would never think of me the same; he's an asshole like that. One day I was at his house (booty call, hey a girl has needs too) and went thru his phone (stupid stupid stupid) and found a pic of him on his bday hugged up with some girl
so I dumped my glass of miscato on his couch and left with one thought in my head " I'm gonna strip!" So the next day I go to the adult store, bought myself 3 outfits, a pair of shoes, and called up my friend that dances (and is always bragging about the money )and asked if I could ride with her to where she works and try it out (she had offered to bring me along multiple times)and she said "Yup I'm going tonight come on". So we go a little early so I can meet the owner, I show him my boobs and I was hired
. My first night I made 300 after tip out, my friend of course wanted to know and when I told her she seemed kind of surprised (and honestly a little mad because she made about the same,which btw $300 on a slow Monday night is good where we're from, especially off of just lap dances, although there is VIP and cr's) . But I could sense she didn't like it and had hoped I would have made nothing but a fool out of myself, she's one of those scandalous, pathological liar strippers (you know what I'm talking about) and I probably should have expected that from her because we've always had a love/hate friendship, but I turned to her because I was desperate and I thought it would be easier to have a familiar face there, even if she is two faced. So despite my instincts I went again (this time driving myself) and did good again and also got pretty cool with boss which I don't think she liked either. And I went again, did good and the next day my ex gets a mysterious call telling him I've been stripping and he flips. I know it was my "friend" because she was the only person that knew about it. I confront her about it and of course she denies it and tells me I should come to work anyways, needing and loving the money I make, I do. The next day my ex calls me and tells me he is sorry for everything and that he misses me and wants me back and that he'll change his ways and that its what's best for our daughter, blah blah blah. Me, being the hopeless romantic I am go back to him, change my number, and decide to leave that experience in the past. Well here I am 5 months later, broke up again, needing money again. So I call my friend to see if she still works there and she says no she's working somewhere better makes $1000 a night on a slow night (yeah oook
) and I tell her I'm thinking of going back to the club she showed me and she says she has a couple old dudes that go there regularly that give her a couple grand a week even though she doesn't work there anymore and doesn't want me working there, because after all she "introduced me to the club". Well now that you know my story, what do you think? Should I not go back there? I really would like to go there again because 1. its a really nice club 2. Me and the owner are really cool 3. I am familiar with the way things are done there and what the clients expect. I'm worried about what she would do if she found out, such as try to fight me (not into fighting although I know I could take her), try to embarrass me by bringing people from our home city and I don't want anyone from our city to see me, which is the whole point of me driving an hour and a half away. I would go to another club but I really really like this one and the second closest club that I would work at is 2 hours from home. I don't know if I'm over thinking this or what. I just want to know some of your veteran opinions (newbie opinions welcomed too
) are. Would it be disrespectful to go there since she worked there first and showed me the club and told me she didn't want me going back there? Or does it not matter because she doesn't even work there anymore? Any and all opinions and advice are welcomed. Sorry its sooo long I just want you guys to get the full story so you can give me the best advice possible. Thanks for reading
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. I've thought about being a stripper for a couple years but never had the courage and couldn't be because my bf wasn't cool with the idea. So it was always just kind of a fantasy of mine. Even when we broke up I was still hesitant to try it because if my ex found out he would never think of me the same; he's an asshole like that. One day I was at his house (booty call, hey a girl has needs too) and went thru his phone (stupid stupid stupid) and found a pic of him on his bday hugged up with some girl
so I dumped my glass of miscato on his couch and left with one thought in my head " I'm gonna strip!" So the next day I go to the adult store, bought myself 3 outfits, a pair of shoes, and called up my friend that dances (and is always bragging about the money )and asked if I could ride with her to where she works and try it out (she had offered to bring me along multiple times)and she said "Yup I'm going tonight come on". So we go a little early so I can meet the owner, I show him my boobs and I was hired
. My first night I made 300 after tip out, my friend of course wanted to know and when I told her she seemed kind of surprised (and honestly a little mad because she made about the same,which btw $300 on a slow Monday night is good where we're from, especially off of just lap dances, although there is VIP and cr's) . But I could sense she didn't like it and had hoped I would have made nothing but a fool out of myself, she's one of those scandalous, pathological liar strippers (you know what I'm talking about) and I probably should have expected that from her because we've always had a love/hate friendship, but I turned to her because I was desperate and I thought it would be easier to have a familiar face there, even if she is two faced. So despite my instincts I went again (this time driving myself) and did good again and also got pretty cool with boss which I don't think she liked either. And I went again, did good and the next day my ex gets a mysterious call telling him I've been stripping and he flips. I know it was my "friend" because she was the only person that knew about it. I confront her about it and of course she denies it and tells me I should come to work anyways, needing and loving the money I make, I do. The next day my ex calls me and tells me he is sorry for everything and that he misses me and wants me back and that he'll change his ways and that its what's best for our daughter, blah blah blah. Me, being the hopeless romantic I am go back to him, change my number, and decide to leave that experience in the past. Well here I am 5 months later, broke up again, needing money again. So I call my friend to see if she still works there and she says no she's working somewhere better makes $1000 a night on a slow night (yeah oook
) and I tell her I'm thinking of going back to the club she showed me and she says she has a couple old dudes that go there regularly that give her a couple grand a week even though she doesn't work there anymore and doesn't want me working there, because after all she "introduced me to the club". Well now that you know my story, what do you think? Should I not go back there? I really would like to go there again because 1. its a really nice club 2. Me and the owner are really cool 3. I am familiar with the way things are done there and what the clients expect. I'm worried about what she would do if she found out, such as try to fight me (not into fighting although I know I could take her), try to embarrass me by bringing people from our home city and I don't want anyone from our city to see me, which is the whole point of me driving an hour and a half away. I would go to another club but I really really like this one and the second closest club that I would work at is 2 hours from home. I don't know if I'm over thinking this or what. I just want to know some of your veteran opinions (newbie opinions welcomed too
) are. Would it be disrespectful to go there since she worked there first and showed me the club and told me she didn't want me going back there? Or does it not matter because she doesn't even work there anymore? Any and all opinions and advice are welcomed. Sorry its sooo long I just want you guys to get the full story so you can give me the best advice possible. Thanks for reading 
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