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    Default Dancing and camming, should I let them know which clubs I visit?

    So, I'm a traveling dancer.
    I cam on the side.

    Would it be wise to post on my Twitter or announce on cam the cities I will be performing in?

    Seems like it could be a big money maker, but also seems dangerous if proper safety precautions weren't taken.

    Should I hook up all of my strip club customers to my cam/twitter account?

    Business cards maybe?

    Opinions?

    Edit- I wear a dark wig at work and a blonde wig on cam. Would that help with my safety issues?

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    Default Re: Dancing and camming, should I let them know which clubs I visit?

    um, I would just let special big spenders know you'll be dancing in their area and they can set up an in club "date" if they tip enough in advance.
    I wouldn't tell everyone.

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    Default Re: Dancing and camming, should I let them know which clubs I visit?

    I wouldnt. But that is just me. I would be afraid that over time some of these guys may end up with a deep obsession or something that would possibly build. Then if they have your location, I think that is just asking for trouble IMHO. When your a dancer if someone was to become obsessed with you, you may notice it because you are seeing them in person. Online is a whole different ball game. People can be watching you and you don't even know they are there! I dunno just my opinion

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    Default Re: Dancing and camming, should I let them know which clubs I visit?

    Absolutely not. It just seems like an easy way to invite creepers to stalk you. You might be announcing it to a room full of members but you never know what guests are watching you, listening to you, and collecting information on you to try to stalk you/blackmail you.... I'd never give specifics of my location to anyone on cam, not the city, and certainly not the exact building in which they can find me.

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    Default Re: Dancing and camming, should I let them know which clubs I visit?

    I have thought about dancing....I would totally tell my close regs where they could find me, seems like it would be cool esp. since ur a traveling dancer....Just be as safe as possible ofcourse, watch ur surroundings, but that's normal for any stripper





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    Quote Originally Posted by lolabunny View Post
    I have thought about dancing....I would totally tell my close regs where they could find me, seems like it would be cool esp. since ur a traveling dancer....Just be as safe as possible ofcourse, watch ur surroundings, but that's normal for any stripper
    If I danced, I think there are about two regs of mine that I would actually give that informantion to. They are guys who've been spending regularly on me for 2+ years and never tried to pry into my personal life or give off a creepy vibe. I think the problem with a lot of cam customers is many times, they imagine they have a close personal relationship with you and they can start to feel like they are entitled to know "the real you" and be a part of your life. I'd think by them inviting them into your personal space you are validating their delusions of closeness and unknowingly confirming that you have some special relationship with them when really there is not. And then when they show up at the club and you don't treat them like the special snowflake that they are I imagine some might get a bit angry and a bit vengeful, and feel that you have somehow led them on. And might try to exact their revenge by gathering information on you, which would be much easier to do now that they've been given access to your physical space.

    Quite some time ago there was this really popular model on Chaturbate. I think she happened to mention what state she lived in, she happened to mention what she did for a living, and she may or may not have given some clues about the general area of the state she lived in. Some crazy fan TRACKED HER DOWN, showed up at her job telling her how he always watched her on Chaturbate except now he knew her real name, her address, everything. I'm not sure how the issue was resolved but she doesn't cam anymore.

    I bring this up only to illustrate that crazy things like that DO happen, and trying to stay as anonymous as possible on cam is a good way to try to protect yourself from that.

    And lolabunny, I Luuuuurrrrvvvveee your Roger gif!

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    Default Re: Dancing and camming, should I let them know which clubs I visit?

    No, this idea scares me. You could find yourself face to face with a creepy guy who thinks that - because he knows you from a cam site - he has some special connection with you. To them it's probably like meeting a celebrity face to face. You wouldn't want one of these guys following you to your car. Also, there are guys out there who like to "fall in love" with cam models.

    I think the only time your idea is probably okay is when you're attending one of those Exxxotica conventions...since it's normal for MFC models to meet fans there, and there's plenty of security, and it's crowded. But I would never announce on Twitter "I'm in New York, and I'll be shopping at Toys R Us in Times Square at around 5 this afternoon." If I'm gonna tweet about it, instead of giving details I'm just gonna say "I'm at the store buying a Transformers toy." LOL. If someone tweets back "What store?," later on WHEN I'M ALREADY BACK HOME I might say "I was at Toys R Us." But I'm definitely not gonna give a specific location of the place that I'm CURRENTLY at.

    A friend of mine who used to cam on MFC was in a store once, and some guy recognized her from MFC and started shouting "Hey, it's _______ from MyFreeCams!" really loudly. He was following her around in the store, and when she got to the register, this douche told the cashier "Let me see her credit card" because he wanted to see my friend's REAL NAME. SMH. The cashier told him to leave her alone. When she walked out of the store, the douchebag grabbed her, and she hit him as hard as he could and got the hell out of there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post
    If I danced, I think there are about two regs of mine that I would actually give that informantion to. They are guys who've been spending regularly on me for 2+ years and never tried to pry into my personal life or give off a creepy vibe. I think the problem with a lot of cam customers is many times, they imagine they have a close personal relationship with you and they can start to feel like they are entitled to know "the real you" and be a part of your life. I'd think by them inviting them into your personal space you are validating their delusions of closeness and unknowingly confirming that you have some special relationship with them when really there is not. And then when they show up at the club and you don't treat them like the special snowflake that they are I imagine some might get a bit angry and a bit vengeful, and feel that you have somehow led them on. And might try to exact their revenge by gathering information on you, which would be much easier to do now that they've been given access to your physical space.

    Quite some time ago there was this really popular model on Chaturbate. I think she happened to mention what state she lived in, she happened to mention what she did for a living, and she may or may not have given some clues about the general area of the state she lived in. Some crazy fan TRACKED HER DOWN, showed up at her job telling her how he always watched her on Chaturbate except now he knew her real name, her address, everything. I'm not sure how the issue was resolved but she doesn't cam anymore.

    I bring this up only to illustrate that crazy things like that DO happen, and trying to stay as anonymous as possible on cam is a good way to try to protect yourself from that.

    And lolabunny, I Luuuuurrrrvvvveee your Roger gif!
    Oh wow, that's scary....Well since you put it like that, I can definitely see where this could actually turn into a serious problem ...to the OP, if you do decide to do this, just be extremely careful, don't just let anyone know ur whereabouts and don't give out too much info...I think you should also know what these guys that ur telling looks like....hopefully u have had some c2c sessions with them..
    ..and yes bb, I love me some Roger lol





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    I would only do it for your super big spenders, make them pay extra just to find out where you are, then make them give you all their info so they can be screened. After that, give all their info to a trusted friend and let them know that you are giving a 3rd party their info for your safety. I wouldn't broadcast it on twitter. I would make it like a special once in a lifetime thing for big spenders only.
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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post
    And lolabunny, I Luuuuurrrrvvvveee your Roger gif!
    Me too Lola! I love Roger so much! lol
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    Only if you're featuring. Porn stars do this all the time. And with Porn Wikileaks having all their real names on google, you're probably fine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CourtneyRaine View Post
    Quite some time ago there was this really popular model on Chaturbate. I think she happened to mention what state she lived in, she happened to mention what she did for a living, and she may or may not have given some clues about the general area of the state she lived in. Some crazy fan TRACKED HER DOWN, showed up at her job telling her how he always watched her on Chaturbate except now he knew her real name, her address, everything. I'm not sure how the issue was resolved but she doesn't cam anymore.
    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    A friend of mine who used to cam on MFC was in a store once, and some guy recognized her from MFC and started shouting "Hey, it's _______ from MyFreeCams!" really loudly. He was following her around in the store, and when she got to the register, this douche told the cashier "Let me see her credit card" because he wanted to see my friend's REAL NAME. SMH. The cashier told him to leave her alone. When she walked out of the store, the douchebag grabbed her, and she hit him as hard as he could and got the hell out of there.
    That's so scary and rude.lol These guys are crazy I wouldn't tell them anything. I once had a cam reg that would send me e-gift cards and he eventually got mad because he wanted my address to send a actual gift instead of just sending the giftcards. (He already figured out my time zone) And was saying stuff like "you don't trust me".lol Eventually it got really nasty and I had to block/ban him. The less they know the better.

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    Hell, no ... but this is the girl that gives a fake city/state faaaar away from where I actually live. You can never be too careful.

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    I wouldn't do it. Not to freak anyone out or be a negative Nancy but 1-2yrs ago a girl who was a camgirl, stripper, c4s producer, and a youtube producer got murdered. She was very open about what she did. She posted where she was from. She made youtube videos of her dancing and practicing pole tricks and made it known that she was a newbie. She even posted what club she worked at via youtube and twitter. She went out to dinner with one of her customers and he ended up murdering her.

    I'm not trying to be disrespectful or anything but I know that you ladies aren't that naive. I just don't think that its a smart idea to broadcast where you dance at if you're an adult web entertainer. I know some Pornstars, Urban models, and 1 of my fav models Francine Dee does it. But they all seem to have a management/security team. I don't think its a good idea for a model that's solo to do it. If I danced and cammed the only way I'd tell customers what club I worked at is if I had a management/security team to protect me. An even at that I'd do it in a way so that only good spenders would know what club I worked at.
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    Like other girls said many cam custies think that the only reason you aren't meeting them is because you cannot through a screen because you are a camgirl. If they knew they could meet you they'd expect too much in my opinion. I bet you have tons of fun travelling

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blovely View Post
    I wouldn't do it. Not to freak anyone out or be a negative nancy but 1-2yrs ago a girl who was a camgirl, stripper, and youtube producers got murdered. She was very open about what did. She posted where she was from. She made youtube videos of her dancing and practicing pole tricks and made it known that she was a newbie. She even posted what club she worked at via youtube and twitter. She went out to dinner with one of her customers and he ended up murdering her.

    I'm not trying to be disrespectful or anything but I know that you ladies aren't that naive. I just don't think that its a smart idea to broadcast where you dance at if your an adult web entertainer. I know some Pornstars, Urban models, and 1 of my fav models Francine Dee does it. But they all seem to have a management/security team. I don't think its a good idea for a model that's solo to do it. The only way I'd tell customers where I worked is if I had a management/security team to protect me. An even at that I'd do it in a way so that only good spenders would know where I worked.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lolabunny View Post
    I think I know exactly who you are talking about
    It was really sad. My Ex told me about it and asked me if I knew of her. Sadly I didn't until after the tragedy happened. I sent out an R.I.P tweet after hearing about. I don't wish that on anybody. But at the same time (again not trying to be disrespectful) it made me wish that all newbie's knew about SW.

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    this is what i would do and i think you would be better off doing it this way. when ur getting ready to go off traveling to dance at clubs on the road. get some business cards together with ur cam info on them and only give them to the club spenders, you are more likely to convert them in to cam $$$$$$ than to try and get an already obsessed cam fan to just spend money on you like a club reg would. you gotta remember that most cam fans do see you as more of a celeb type than just a cam/dancer and most cam spenders don't even go to strip clubs at all. they would most likely just bug you and waste your time and end up pissing you both off and creating a hole that you cant get out of. now strip clubs guys would love to have ur cam info cuz now when you leave they're club, you can still keep them as a custie and when ur in they're area dancing again just give em a shout.

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