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    This was inspired by a thread I read, Biggest Boobs 102ZZZ. No one is going to change the way bigger women are perceived in this business unless we do it ourselves! I'm going to quit my whining on how unfair things are, and do something about it. I'm hereby officially rebelling against conventional stereotypes of what's beautiful/sexy. Time to up my 'game'. This isn't just going for a certain body type either. I'm talking about age, race, etc. It's SO on.
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    You go girl!
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    You are sassy AND smart Miss Pickles.

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    WHOO HOO! *streaks exposing her wobbly BBW fat ass and tits* Take that standards!

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    Foxxy-werent you the BBW that posted in the "Cam moments of triumph/wittiest comebacks" thread about jiggling your fat and other hilarious antics when a custy took you private and then insulted you? And then he actually proceeded to STAY in private and tell you he'd be back when it ended? I guess I could make my lazy ass actually look it up myself,but well honestly,I dont feel like it at the moment LOL Its friday,and Im bout to watch Wreck It Ralph with the lil one so he wins!
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    If you are ashamed of your body don't expect someone to pay to see it. If you can't act like your body is a treasure how DARE you charge people to see it.

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    That post made me crack up. Ugh, I had a guy in high school (when I was like a size 11) try that bull. He would joke about me in class and after school he would be trying to hit it in the library bathroom. I rejected him then and I'd do it again unless he had a credit card and wanted a show hehe.

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    yesss!!! you go girl. im not BBW ( in fact im the opposite) but i've decided to give a big middle finger and fuck you to society telling me i have to be this n that, n i have to have humungous boobs on my tiny frame to be beautiful. beauty comes in all shapes and sizes. "perfect" is boring as fuck if you ask me
    edited to say, and this is not directed at the members on here who do have that body type, they worked very hard for it and i respect them greatly
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    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    I feel that a lot of people perceive that BBW's don't take care of themselves.
    That old chestnut.

    This is not intended as a brag, but a lot of people ask me what my workout routine is, what diet I'm on, how much I must workout, etc... There are many BBWs who take *way* better care of themselves than me in every way.

    I don't work out, I get out of breath pretty easily, and the only diet I'm on is that of noodles, junk food, the occasional takeaway and sometimes some fruit...

    No one should ever judge by looks, even when it comes to shit like how "well" someone takes care of themselves.

    [FTR I am working on taking better care of myself.. I am pissed off that I have so little energy]




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    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    It was me, but I think I was gifted with a great big beautiful sick sense of humor. I dig that some of you seem to 'get it'. Enjoy your movie with the little fella.
    I thought that was you! I just about had to change my big sexy pay'nies I laughed so hard the first time I read it! Not only was it hilarious but it was also INSPIRING- it gave me an entirely new way of looking at fat insults (before I would have just banned instantly,now I use my big beautiful humor as well) but it WAS fat cliche rebelling in its finest form.Instead of sulking and being upset,you took that shit by the reigns and rode that pony for all he was worth,relishing in his insults and throwing them back in his face,banking the entire time! And he LOVED it (i <3 fetishes)

    I would say youve been rebelling longer than you even realize from that wonderful example of cam triumph! Werrk it girl!

    p.s. I feel you on the humor thing- Im constantly messing around/cracking jokes/poking fun at myself and those I love all day long,its a great way to embrace yourself (even if it does sound hypocritical lol)

    Incantatious- the following rant is TOTALLY not directed at you in ANY way,youre one of my absolute favorites on here *goo goo eyes* and I luvs ya bb,I just luvs ya.LET ME LOVE YOU! LOL.Anyways,your post just reminded me of one of my biggest annoyances with "this old chestnut" and I just gotta put my 2 cents in for a sec-

    this is one of my biggest peev's with the whole fat thing-Since when..in the fuck...does ANYONE care about anyone elses HEALTH?! I mean really?? Do we walk around and hate ppl that smoke cigarettes? Yea,it may be obnoxious to non smokers but they generally tend to not HATE smokers over it and think of them as less than human.

    Its like fucking nails on a chalkboard when I hear someone make fun of a fat person or say something about their weight,and then either they or someone who thinks theyre "defending" fat people will say "well I just worry about their HEALTH" LMAO! are you fucking kidding me?! Since when do total strangers give two flying FUCKS about other peoples health?? Its just a chickenshit,HALF ASS excuse to fat bash,all under the cover of "concern".Yea,fuck your mother "concerned citizen"!!

    I dont care if someone is skinny and eats completely clean/organic or gorges on junk food every single day,just as I dont care what other fat people are eating or not.NONE of us should have to answer to other people about our own bodies and our own business,PERIOD. Juuust bc some bitch runs 5 miles a day and follows a strict macrobiotic diet,doesnt mean that shes any better or above others,its just simple HER CHOICE! I didnt realize that being fat meant you didnt get to make any choices for yourself anymore...

    But all in all,this has been talked about numerous times,stigma is stigma,cliche is cliche and whether we like it or not,it is what it is-All we can do is make ourselves happy *steps off soapbox* *also hands back whip after beating dead horse* thank you and good night!
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    If you are ashamed of your body don't expect someone to pay to see it. If you can't act like your body is a treasure how DARE you charge people to see it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VoluptiousBriadda View Post
    Since when do total strangers give two flying FUCKS about other peoples health?? Its just a chickenshit,HALF ASS excuse to fat bash,all under the cover of "concern".Yea,fuck your mother "concerned citizen"!!

    I dont care if someone is skinny and eats completely clean/organic or gorges on junk food every single day,just as I dont care what other fat people are eating or not.NONE of us should have to answer to other people about our own bodies and our own business,PERIOD. Juuust bc some bitch runs 5 miles a day and follows a strict macrobiotic diet,doesnt mean that shes any better or above others,its just simple HER CHOICE! I didnt realize that being fat meant you didnt get to make any choices for yourself anymore...

    But all in all,this has been talked about numerous times,stigma is stigma,cliche is cliche and whether we like it or not,it is what it is-All we can do is make ourselves happy *steps off soapbox* *also hands back whip after beating dead horse* thank you and good night!
    No bb... Let me love you. I have SO much love to givvvvvvve!!!!

    *bows down on the floor*

    Yeah and I worship your post. Fuckin' A.

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    I love everything about this thread. That's all.
    For the love of nipples!


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    Quote Originally Posted by VoluptiousBriadda View Post
    Since when do total strangers give two flying FUCKS about other peoples health?? Its just a chickenshit,HALF ASS excuse to fat bash,all under the cover of "concern".Yea,fuck your mother "concerned citizen"!!
    ^^^this whole thread rocks, but this in particular, so fucking true. I have a friend who's overweight by BMI standards and she gets WAY more flak from 'concerned' citizens about her health than my chain-smoking, osteopenic ass ever has. Fat-bashers are like peeps who watch Jerry Springer and Maury, they get to feel superior by projecting a shit ton of moral and behavioral deficiencies onto those they deem beneath them. Weight policing is really about the individual policing the bodies of others, not the bodies of those being scrutinized. If I wanted to judge, I'd characterize an inability to get beyond socialization in a society which deems one body size, color, age, etc the ideal to which all else is contrasted as lazy and weak

    Not that anyone needs the validation of customers (I hope), but what ABigNerd wrote is bang on....the vast amounts of $$$$$ earned by chicas who don't fit the arbitrary standard of white, slender and young belies the messages that confront us on magazines, on tv, from people who should realize that there is a world out there beyond the circumference of their thighs and caloric intake for the day. While camming is slightly constrained by the decisions of site owners (vis à vis how they organize their sites, advertising, placements, categorization, etc) in camming the customers ultimately decide who banks and who doesn't. They spend their money where they wish given a vast array of options. And racialized women, older women, overweight women can and do bank. Often.

    There will always be people who judge, we're a fun species that way. Fuck em.


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    I don't care about what others like or don't but don't fucking tell me you pick on a chubby person FOR HIS HEALTH. Do something good for everyone's health and kill yourself and all your self entitled moron friends lol!





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    Oh yes, this thread was catching my eyes/ soul and i can relate due to my life experience, personal and of significant others.
    First of all i think people will judge about others being 'different' in general. As i was learning in art school there are specific measures regarding human body, we learnt that the ideal means a specific distance between eyes, ears, nose size, mouth size, forehead, so on.
    The same applies to body, height, weight and such. These standards are ancient old and people see them as 'normality' in our present society.

    Now everything that is out of these standards is considered by many people abnormal, if it's about weight, figure, whatever.
    If u have a specific figure u cant do anything about and is considered unattractive then u need to live with that or go for plastic surgery if u can afford.
    If u overweight people will judge "she/ he is eating too much" therefore the bashing 'u dont take care of yourself' by 'my' standards.

    Now the point is, u never know what makes somebody become overweight, i dont think somebody wants to be overweight but it's happening due to various reasons. From outside things look like 'laziness, eating too much, low self esteem, so on', from inside things are different 'race, genetics, high appetite (gourmand), depression, pain, fear, not moving much due to profession or energy level in general and so on'.

    I can honestly say i been going thru all these situations, been the ugly duck all my life (sad lol), been bashed about it, been skinny, also been bashed, overweight now, bashed again, my son been overweight when in elementary school, been bashed, my mom been always overweight, been bashed.
    This is happening always with other categories, blacks will be bashed by white people and opposite too (racism is working both ways), transexual's, gays, disabled, all are suffering from others being nasty to them because all these people are 'out of the norm' and what is different must be bad for some.

    Regarding overweight people these haters will think "why u let urself get there? you are disgusting, u are a disgrace for human race, it's disturbing me to see you like this, i am better than u cause i do my best to look fit while u sit on ur lazy ass and eat".

    I seen people doing this to me or others, i had a 'friend', cam model too that was skinny and fit and was bashing overweight models alot, when i became overweight too she started to feel superior towards me and give me advice to loose weight, to work out, bla bla, our friendship degraded cause i felt hurt by her attitude.

    I can tell one of the reasons i dont do gold shows (i tried) is because i dont want to expose myself to be bashed by haters, i towards time developed a sensitivity about being called out (for being ugly, skinny, fat so on) and i prefer to protect myself cause it hurts to put urself in a hot spot (GS) and be called out by haters.
    I can make money from pvt's with people that are into me and like what i have to offer and consider me attractive, sexy & hot but to try indulge the crowds when u 'out of the norm' is alot more difficult.

    I know people will not change, the haters will stay haters, they will continue to bash and hurt others but u know what?
    That people have their own issues we dont know about, it's something inside them most probably, they must feel miserable about something in their life but they can hide it, they want to make others feel miserable for something that is visible to others, haters need to feel superior therefore they attack 'minorities'.

    Have peace and lots of love for all of You out there, skinny or overweight, gays or straight, TS's or not, we are all humans and deserve love and to be happy!

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    I've never been a BBW, but a lot of my family are BBWs. Its genetics majority of the time. The gene my family has all comes from my sibling's mom (we have the same dad but not the same mom), who is extremely tiny so she doesn't even appear to be a BBW, yet has a high BMI. She had kids with my dad (way before I was born) and the kids turned out to be regular-sized people with her body type so they look like BBWs. So I see how it works. Even being raised with my nephews & nieces (same age as myself) with roughly the same diet, majority of them turned out really big so its obviously genetics. Its a predisposition to a certain body type. Just thought I'd throw that out there.

    #2, there are lots of fashion styles that actually look better on really curvy or BBW women than on "thin" women. Like rockabilly and pinup. So just dress for your body type

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    Quote Originally Posted by AliceFun View Post
    Oh yes, this thread was catching my eyes/ soul and i can relate due to my life experience, personal and of significant others.
    First of all i think people will judge about others being 'different' in general. As i was learning in art school there are specific measures regarding human body, we learnt that the ideal means a specific distance between eyes, ears, nose size, mouth size, forehead, so on.
    The same applies to body, height, weight and such. These standards are ancient old and people see them as 'normality' in our present society.

    Now everything that is out of these standards is considered by many people abnormal, if it's about weight, figure, whatever.
    If u have a specific figure u cant do anything about and is considered unattractive then u need to live with that or go for plastic surgery if u can afford.
    If u overweight people will judge "she/ he is eating too much" therefore the bashing 'u dont take care of yourself' by 'my' standards.

    Now the point is, u never know what makes somebody become overweight, i dont think somebody wants to be overweight but it's happening due to various reasons. From outside things look like 'laziness, eating too much, low self esteem, so on', from inside things are different 'race, genetics, high appetite (gourmand), depression, pain, fear, not moving much due to profession or energy level in general and so on'.

    I can honestly say i been going thru all these situations, been the ugly duck all my life (sad lol), been bashed about it, been skinny, also been bashed, overweight now, bashed again, my son been overweight when in elementary school, been bashed, my mom been always overweight, been bashed.
    This is happening always with other categories, blacks will be bashed by white people and opposite too (racism is working both ways), transexual's, gays, disabled, all are suffering from others being nasty to them because all these people are 'out of the norm' and what is different must be bad for some.

    Regarding overweight people these haters will think "why u let urself get there? you are disgusting, u are a disgrace for human race, it's disturbing me to see you like this, i am better than u cause i do my best to look fit while u sit on ur lazy ass and eat".

    I seen people doing this to me or others, i had a 'friend', cam model too that was skinny and fit and was bashing overweight models alot, when i became overweight too she started to feel superior towards me and give me advice to loose weight, to work out, bla bla, our friendship degraded cause i felt hurt by her attitude.

    I can tell one of the reasons i dont do gold shows (i tried) is because i dont want to expose myself to be bashed by haters, i towards time developed a sensitivity about being called out (for being ugly, skinny, fat so on) and i prefer to protect myself cause it hurts to put urself in a hot spot (GS) and be called out by haters.
    I can make money from pvt's with people that are into me and like what i have to offer and consider me attractive, sexy & hot but to try indulge the crowds when u 'out of the norm' is alot more difficult.

    I know people will not change, the haters will stay haters, they will continue to bash and hurt others but u know what?
    That people have their own issues we dont know about, it's something inside them most probably, they must feel miserable about something in their life but they can hide it, they want to make others feel miserable for something that is visible to others, haters need to feel superior therefore they attack 'minorities'.

    Have peace and lots of love for all of You out there, skinny or overweight, gays or straight, TS's or not, we are all humans and deserve love and to be happy!
    This touched me even more than you can possibly know. I have tears welling up and everything. I can empathize with what you're saying. It's unreal. I'm so wanting to give you a hug. You seem to be a truly classy and kind lady!
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    A book that you might dig that also rebels against the aesthetic norm is "The Beauty Myth" by Naomi Wolf.

    I jump around in the book and read different parts but it's amazing how, after reading it, you feel like what you take for granted everyday when it comes to beauty feels more like brainwashing.

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    I love that even the non BBW in here have taken a stand to defend and fight against fat bashing/hate. That actually moves me SO much you have no idea! The fact that woman who don't have to fight the good fight of fat acceptance DO, that is just beautiful and I truly love you ladies for it! Hopefully thanks to people like you others will join the cause too. Fat bashing is one of the few forms of prejudice that is really still acceptable in society today. Most people wouldn't think it's okay to bash someone based on gender, sexual orientation, race, religion etc but its still okay to call someone fat in a negative way or shame them for their bodies. It's not okay. People too often use the 'health' card but we know majority of the time that's just an excuse.

    I've always been a BBW. I struggled with poor body image in high school. Hated my body for a long long time. It took me a long time to be comfortable with myself and love my body- all my body- even the fat wobbly jiggly parts that would probably gross some out. When I first got into the adult industry, as a fat woman it was liberating. I did some nude modeling when I was 20 for the first time and as a fat girl feeling like I had to cover myself up my whole life because it wasn't socially acceptable and because society wasn't okay with seeing more of me, shedding my clothes for the first time was just FREEING. I've been what was considered an SSBBW, now I'm a BBW. Still happy, still love myself. Don't love myself anymore now then I did when I was bigger. I was fucking sexy then and I'm still fucking sexy! I've found that most of society isn't okay with the fact that I'M okay with myself being fat. "What...but...you're suppose to hate yourself and want to be skinny and cover yourself up with a moomoo" God forbid a fat woman wants to be sexy and show her body off, or GASP work in the sex industry! OMG!

    I probably got a little off track here but I love all of you ladies who posted here! Thank you all!
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    I'm not going to say I'm a saint. If someone is a bitch to me, I'll think in my head, if they're overweight, that they're a fucking cunt-cow, so I know that I do have a weight bias. But on the other end, I think larger women can totally be sexy. I think it only bothers me when I see women complain about being overweight, or they've got a lot of self-esteem issues linked to their weight but then they don't DO anything about it. I have a relative who's overweight and she will walk around her neighborhood in her one piece bathing suit, and be like "so?" I think she's fucking awesome. I have another relative, and also an acquaintance, who have severe food issues, are always looking for approval from others, and they're generally annoying because of how their issues with food manifests (example: one steals her roommate's food, eats half of it, puts the rest in the trash and covers it in soap, and then doesn't replace the food. Another has severe GI distress so she can't really socialize outside her home very much, but at the same point it doesn't seem to me, judging from her and her hub's eating habits that they're really doing anything constructive to change that.)

    Anyway, I just wanted to point out that it all comes down to attitude. I find small people who have body dysmorphic image just as fucking annoying, and it all comes down to: If you have issues with yourself, don't make other people suffer because of them.


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    Proud of you for embracing your body. If more people felt good about themselves the world would be a better place. I need to follow your lead.

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    ^ omg that's awful your own mother would tell you that! i know how you feel, my father constantly not-so-subtely hinted that i was homely and unattractive growing up and it did SERIOUS damage to my self esteem growing up. even now i have issues from it. rejection and insults from ones own parent hurt the most deeply. *hugs*

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    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    My goodness. Fucking cow c*nt? Skinny dysmorphic b*tch? No where on any planet should this be used to describe one another! If it's in your head, please keep it there or start another thread.

    Only if they're annoying or bitchy for reasons having nothing to do with their weight. It's like having a cocksucker boss who's bald and so when you rail at him in your head, you call him a bald douchefuck.

    I actually thought my post was still pretty positive while explaining how my weight bias still exists. Weight isn't the issue. It's making your weight an issue for others or just being ugly on the inside that makes you ugly on the outside. I was pretty much agreeing with the OP-- being beautiful on the outside typically has fuck-all to do with what you actually look like. It's attitude, and a bunch of other internal things. It'd be nice to think it's all butterflies and rainbows and unicorns when it comes to all people being beautiful in some way, but the truth is, there's ugly people who are both skinny and overweight, and there's beautiful or "hot DAMN!" people of both types. The two people that I used as examples, plus the dysmorphic chick-- they all had beautiful or pretty moments, but largely, they're issues with themselves and how those issues manifested defined how people viewed them-- NOT their actual body types.

    But hey, feel free to hit the ignore button. That's what it's there for, for when you can't stand hearing anything that doesn't jibe with your perfect ideal online world.
    And since it's an online discussion, I'll say whatever I want that I want to share, and that doesn't go against SW's forum rules.

    And as a side note, that's shitty what your mom did to you, but consider working on not having a kneejerk reaction when someone says that she found a small group of overweight or body dysmorphic people unattractive because of how they acted out. I once had a manager who was very southern, and very gay, and a complete cunt half the time. Finally, he overstepped the boundaries by a HUGE margin and acted in a very unprofessional manner. Did I light into him? No. I simply stopped working his shifts. But you better believe that I called him a fucking ignorant troglodyte drama queen beeyotch, with all the emphasis on queen I could muster. But I would not ever consider myself anti-gay.
    In the same manner, just because I call someone a fucking cow cunt in my head for being a cunt and also being overweight, does not mean that I'm out there going "hey fatso, hey ugly piggy, squee squee!"
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    When you tell someone "If it's in your head, please keep it there or start another thread," after reacting negatively to one small part of someone's post, yeah, you're going to offend seeing as how it's a public forum for the exchanging of ideas. You can phrase it however you want but telling someone to keep their opinions to themselves in a discussion bored is pretty rude, not to mention dumb if you actually are coming to the discussion to converse on different aspects of a subject. Me talking about how I have a weight bias towards people who are dumb in real life who just happen to be overweight (my weight bias is actually pretty small considering I think people should be whoever they want to be so long as you're not fucking other people over) wasn't directed at the vast majority of overweight people out there, wasn't directed at overweight people here on SW, and definitely wasn't directed at you. So if you don't want to look like you're picking a fight and overstepping in terms of telling someone what they can or cannot post, consider what you're typing before you actually press save.

    That being said, this is an internet forum, so aside from discussing ideas or opinions, who really gives a rat's ass about being offended over what some random stranger said to you online? I really don't give a rat's ass and likely won't even remember what you personally wrote in, like, two days. Nothing personal-- I'd do that for anyone sticking their foot in their mouth, even on the rare occasion, when I do it myself.

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    You seemed previously to be confused on how you offended and asked me to point it out. Now, after I point it out, you want to play the martyr? Oooookay. This thread is still a positive one. One little side-topic isn't going to obliterate that.

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    Ok,so I rarely interfere but this is getting way out of the "alternate view points" area,and sliding right into personal arguing and fighting.I understand what BOTH of yall are saying- lets just chalk it up to it could have been handled in better ways by both parties and as a result,both got offended.

    There are always ways to say things more delicately and while Im not saying you have to sugar coat everything you say here,one or two simple words can easily set someone off,thats the downfall of forums and speaking through text only.Not saying that you cant have a discussion/debate and that only rainbows and unicorns are allowed,but posts should be handled with care and sensitivity so that a viewpoint can be expressed without causing offense/destruction along the way.And that goes for any subsequent responses to any post you may find offensive as well.

    So lets let bygones be bygones and get this thread back on topic,it was meant to uplift and encourage and it can be quite deflating for someone struggling with self esteem issues to start reading such a positive thread and then see it crash and burn into a personal argument.Take the main BBW camgirl thread as a spot on example - its extremely hard to recover a thread back to its original state and meaning after it dive bombs into bickering and namecalling.SW and CC are a sanctuary for many,including myself,lets give back to it in positive ways instead of detracting from it.

    Both of you have written great contributions to this thread so lets keep put the ish aside and get back to contributing fabulousness.
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    Aaaaand of course after I post,I realize half of the last posts have been deleted,making it look like Im bringing it BACK up again.Sorry guys,wasnt trying to stir the pot back up again,was just going off of what I read before it got erased.

    Ok Ill start - Fat bishes be AWESOME!

    Continue!
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