So, a few weeks ago, I met this guy ITC, and did a few dances for him. He seemed to really like me, and started going on and on about how he wants to spoil me and has all this disposable income and nothing to do with it. (I know most guys who say that stuff are just BSing, but I actually know what he does for a living, and I have no doubt that he actually does have the $$.) I told him about how I was going to school, and he said he wanted to help me by setting aside $2000+ every month for me, so that I wouldn't have to stress about about working so much, and I could focus on school. He came in to see me specifically the next time I worked and bought an hour in the CR with me, at which point I gave him my number. Since then, he's been texting me trying to get me to come "dance" (Yeah, cuz I'm SURE that's all he has in mind) for him at his place, promising to pay me quite well for my time. I always tell him that I really don't have the extra time for that, because I'm too busy with work and school (that is actually true), and he should come see me ITC. So, he's been coming about once a week to see me ITC, but he's only been bringing about $160 or less to spend on me each time. If I mention buying the club's "funny money" or going to the CR rather than doing dances, he doesn't want to, because "he doesn't like that some of the money goes to the club." The thing is, I'm starting to get really annoyed with this guy always pressuring me to see him OTC, because he should KNOW how difficult my courses are......since he majored in the exact same subject!!! Is there a tactful way that I can sort of point out to him that I think he's being insincere about helping me, since he's taking away from my study time by trying to see me OTC (and therefore potentially get him to come to the club and spend all the $$ he promised me instead?) Or, do I just say nothing and be happy with the $160 or so that he spends on me each week, and accept the fact that it may not ever be more?



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Of course $160/week pretty much guaranteed is nice......but if there is more $$ to be had, of course I want it.

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