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    So, a few weeks ago, I met this guy ITC, and did a few dances for him. He seemed to really like me, and started going on and on about how he wants to spoil me and has all this disposable income and nothing to do with it. (I know most guys who say that stuff are just BSing, but I actually know what he does for a living, and I have no doubt that he actually does have the $$.) I told him about how I was going to school, and he said he wanted to help me by setting aside $2000+ every month for me, so that I wouldn't have to stress about about working so much, and I could focus on school. He came in to see me specifically the next time I worked and bought an hour in the CR with me, at which point I gave him my number. Since then, he's been texting me trying to get me to come "dance" (Yeah, cuz I'm SURE that's all he has in mind) for him at his place, promising to pay me quite well for my time. I always tell him that I really don't have the extra time for that, because I'm too busy with work and school (that is actually true), and he should come see me ITC. So, he's been coming about once a week to see me ITC, but he's only been bringing about $160 or less to spend on me each time. If I mention buying the club's "funny money" or going to the CR rather than doing dances, he doesn't want to, because "he doesn't like that some of the money goes to the club." The thing is, I'm starting to get really annoyed with this guy always pressuring me to see him OTC, because he should KNOW how difficult my courses are......since he majored in the exact same subject!!! Is there a tactful way that I can sort of point out to him that I think he's being insincere about helping me, since he's taking away from my study time by trying to see me OTC (and therefore potentially get him to come to the club and spend all the $$ he promised me instead?) Or, do I just say nothing and be happy with the $160 or so that he spends on me each week, and accept the fact that it may not ever be more?

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    Default Re: How to Deal With This Guy?

    guys like this piss me off..basically dangling money in front of you and trying to manipulate you into something you aren't comfortable with. you could play games with him, or just take his money and move onto other guys who actually get what a strip club is..i'd choose the latter

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    Default Re: How to Deal With This Guy?

    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    guys like this piss me off..basically dangling money in front of you and trying to manipulate you into something you aren't comfortable with.
    +1. Just because you don't doubt that he has $$$ doesn't mean he has any real intention of spending. He's demonstrated the exact opposite. Honestly, it doesn't sound like he's going to have a very long shelf life, so just try and milk him ITC as much as you can. Tell him that you are SO busy with classes and studying and really look forward to when he visits you at work because it's such a nice "break" to spend time with him.

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    Default Re: How to Deal With This Guy?

    It doesn't sound like he really has any intention of "taking care of you" or whatever BS guys say. If it were me, I would probably just keep stringing him along and making up stupid excuses for not being able to hang out with him OTC while pretending like "Awww, I really wish I could, Babe!" When he comes in, fawn all over him and his dumb stories, as long as he isn't trying to take advantage of your time ITC. Eventually, he'll probably give up and stop seeing you, but that's probably what I would do to try to get him to keep seeing me ITC. $160 a week isn't really that much, but it does add up to $640 a month, which is a car payment and then some for most people, so hopefully you can keep him around for as long as possible! Good luck with your classes, btw

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    It doesn't sound like he really has any intention of "taking care of you" or whatever BS guys say. If it were me, I would probably just keep stringing him along and making up stupid excuses for not being able to hang out with him OTC while pretending like "Awww, I really wish I could, Babe!" When he comes in, fawn all over him and his dumb stories, as long as he isn't trying to take advantage of your time ITC.
    This was exactly my plan anyway, as I really have no desire to see ANY customer OTC at all. My (almost non-existent) free time is precious! What I was really trying to get at is.....do you ladies have any suggestions for a way I might get him to start increasing his spending ITC since apparently he has sooo much extra $$ he is just DYING to spend on me? Of course $160/week pretty much guaranteed is nice......but if there is more $$ to be had, of course I want it.

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    You should be a bitch to him and see what happens.
    If he goes away, it's no great loss.

    And if he responds and finally antes up, then you've won in that regard too.

    Sometimes guys just respond better when they know a woman is willing to drop them if they don't shape the fuck up.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BANHammerGoddess View Post
    You should be a bitch to him and see what happens.
    If he goes away, it's no great loss.

    And if he responds and finally antes up, then you've won in that regard too.

    Sometimes guys just respond better when they know a woman is willing to drop them if they don't shape the fuck up.
    I'd say keep it ITC. I hustle guys online and sometimes in real life on a regular basis. (although the SD thing isn't going too well) However I don't waste my time since I can easily spot a time waster.

    What I've learned so far is that if a guy doesn't do what he says instantly or in a reasonable time frame like an hour he's not ever planning to do it. When what comes out of their mouth and what they actually do doesn't like up. I always walk.

    I don't play when I expect a certain gift or gift-card I want it quickly. If it doesn't happen I swiftly cease contact and cross them off my list.

    The serious guys ALWAYS come up with what they promised instantly (like within an hour or the day we agree to meet). Completely no bs. But you got to realize the majority of guys who offer things don't come through or are time wasters so you got to learn to eliminate them quickly and move on to the next guy so you don't waste YOUR time.

    Basically he's just trying to string you along and maybe possible sleep with you and bounce before he has to hold up his part of the bargain. He just wants free attention. He has no attention of giving you anything yet he'll guilt trip you like you're missing out on something to get as much as he can for as little as possible. He's full of crap rich guys and some broke ones pull this scam all the time with girl after girl.

    Keep it ITC. If he spends money on you in the club keep talking to him if not ignore him when he's at the club. Most of these guys want everything without doing s*** for you. Also if does start spending money on you ITC he'll probably stop spending because once he's met you out the club you're no longer a "fantasy" or in the protected environment of the SC where he knows he has to pay to see you. You'll be on his turf in the real world and fair game and he'll see no reason to spend on you after that.

    To me if he was serious he would of gave you some serious money in the club right then.

    Like BanhammerGoddess mentioned. Act like you just fine with or without him. That way YOU are now in control and he'll know he'll have to do what he promised or else you'll be on to better things.

    Also I don't care what he's got or how rich he is. I've cursed out millionaires.lol Somethings are just not worth it. One shouldn't tolerate being disrespected or strung along. These rich guys KNOW that girls will pay them extra attention since they have money and they use that to their advantage with no intention of spending. Sometimes it's more profitable to hang around guys who are not super rich. They are more generous since they don't usually get free attention like the rich guys.

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    Default Re: How to Deal With This Guy?

    He's bs'ing you. He doesn't have the money. Its like the guys with the fake biz cards who claim to be this and that and theyre not. I wouldn't waste my time with him.
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