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    Default I could use some comfort from girls who cam too.. I'm so nervous!

    So this is my first night streaming in HD. Usually I shoot in crappy quality video due to a crappy laptop but I just got a super laptop and now I can stream in full hd..

    I'm afraid that my fans might not have ever noticed that I wear a lot of make up to cover my pizza-face complexion and they'll noticed for the first time tonight

    I'm afraid that everyones going to be staring at my stretchmarks and razor burn! OMG

    anyone feel this way streaming in HD the first time?

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    Default Re: I could use some comfort from girls who cam too.. I'm so nervous!

    I felt the exact same way the first time I started using the encoder on SM- for the first time I was in Hi def,and my screen was HUGE! I was a lil freaked out...Then I calmed my nerves,hit start,and rocked that shit!

    ALWAYS keep in mind that only girls care about stretch marks and razor burn.If your fans loved you before,theyll still love you now,even more-so bc they can now see you better (and bigger).Confidence is MANDATORY for camming and if youre worried about how you look,its going to come across.Even with a giant smile plastered on your face-youll just end up looking like a sweaty,nervous camgirl with a stick up her butt whos smiling bc she either has gas or has to poop.

    So go through your emotions,feel nervous if you want,but do it before you get on cam - reassure yourself that youre going to rock that shit and then get on there with guns blazing like youre motherfuckin Jesse James bishes!
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    If you are ashamed of your body don't expect someone to pay to see it. If you can't act like your body is a treasure how DARE you charge people to see it.

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    Default Re: I could use some comfort from girls who cam too.. I'm so nervous!

    Stretch marks yes but not so much anymore. I wait a day after I shave so the burn bumps dont show as much.

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    Default Re: I could use some comfort from girls who cam too.. I'm so nervous!

    What's wrong stretch marks? Turn on that cam and just be confident!

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    Default Re: I could use some comfort from girls who cam too.. I'm so nervous!

    There are men who are actually attracted to stretch marks. I've never had kids but I gained a lot of weight (stress, bad habits) as my first marriage was going south, and then lost it all and then some when I kicked that baggage to the curb. I look good but have stretch marks that on my arms, thighs, butt, stomach, tits...

    When I first started dating my husband and he got a good look at my stretch marks, he actually growled and pounced on me. I've had guys not care about my stretch marks before, but he actually was turned on.

    If your lighting is just so, even with HD they won't be able to really see a lot of markings. Even if they can see, they probably won't care, and the ones who do can go the fuck away.
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    Default Re: I could use some comfort from girls who cam too.. I'm so nervous!

    We all have imperfections...the guys that want a perfect, flawless looking woman will just watch edited porn. Guys on cam sites want a REAL girl, that's why they are there. I have crazy stretchmarks and cellulite, but it's part of my body and I'm proud of what I'm workin with!! You should be too gorgeous

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    Default Re: I could use some comfort from girls who cam too.. I'm so nervous!

    I agree I always find what I'm least confident about in myself most of my cuties are totally into.....

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    Just so you know, most strippers and pornstars have stretch marks, cellulite, uneven skin, etc. You just can't see it because of the lighting used. Dark lights in clubs and bright lights in porn. Just use bright lights when camming and they probably won't show up.

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    I used to worry about random bruises and try to cover them up with concealer (which rubbed off as soon as I'd do a baby oil show) but then I stopped, and no one has ever said anything. I mean, they are small but my skin is pale and I am clumsy as all get out. The guys really don't care. It's very liberating, and heart warming how men love everything about a real woman. Well, the good ones, at least.

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    Default Re: I could use some comfort from girls who cam too.. I'm so nervous!

    No one is perfect. You just have to be comfortable and rock what you have. HD really isnt that bad and honestly doesnt show flaws as well as you think.

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    I use a good quality logitech cam, it says HD on teh box, but i think they LIED because a customer sent me a microsoft lifecam HD and when I turned it on...omg HD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You could see everything, acne, wrinkles, freckles, patchy makeup. I almost cried lol. Lets just say I put that webcam back in the box and used my old one. Aint no way I'd show up looking like that. My logitech cam hides everything I don't know why but I'd never use any other webcam after using this one. I know guys say they don't care about blemishes and things and tell u that u r being silly, but when a girl with a full blown acne infection shows up, AINT NOBODY PAYING FOR THAT.

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    I stream HD with a c920, most guys like seeing that my face isnt covered in make up but do not put my face extremely close to the camera unless Im in private and its requested. I had a big red zit one day and did cry, I logged in and 5 different ppl said something about it, most of which not even saying hello first, just what happened to your face! (this was last week) I dont normally buy make up but seriously considering trying to learn to apply concealer if it happens again, though those guys were just assholes, because I logged out of that site and into another one and no one said anything at all about it and I made $$$
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    Default Re: I could use some comfort from girls who cam too.. I'm so nervous!

    Quote Originally Posted by TeenageAnnie View Post
    I use a good quality logitech cam, it says HD on teh box, but i think they LIED because a customer sent me a microsoft lifecam HD and when I turned it on...omg HD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You could see everything, acne, wrinkles, freckles, patchy makeup. I almost cried lol. Lets just say I put that webcam back in the box and used my old one. Aint no way I'd show up looking like that. My logitech cam hides everything I don't know why but I'd never use any other webcam after using this one. I know guys say they don't care about blemishes and things and tell u that u r being silly, but when a girl with a full blown acne infection shows up, AINT NOBODY PAYING FOR THAT.
    That is kind of terrifying for me! I don't have great skin, actually it is SO much better now but I am still prone to occasional break outs (not too major) but my real problem is acne scars. I started getting pimples when I was 7 or so, I'm 27 now, and it used to be very bad and I'd always pick my skin so I have 20 years worth of dark marks. My skin has cleared up a ton since moving West and I'm actually totally confident going out socially with no makeup on- something I would NEVER do a couple of years ago- but on cam my dark spots show up way worse than they do in the natural light of real life. Too HD does kind of scare me, I prefer "semi-HD" (is that a thing?) for my own ego. I have a logitech c910 which is supposedly HD but it does hide a lot with the proper lighting. The funny thing is, my face gets better and better the longer I go without makeup, but I feel like I have to wear makeup on cam for the guys to spend on me. I'm in this crappy cycle of needing makeup to cam because my skin isn't perfect, and my skin not being perfect because of the makeup I wear to cam. I've tried so many different brands, clear skin makeups, they're all garbage for me.

    OP, if you are really conscious of your flaws (and I totally know that feeling) I would recommend opening up your cam program and doing your makeup while watching your feed. Not your live feed, of course. Don't go live. Just start your cam so you can see what you look like and use your computer screen like you would a mirror so you can enhance your appearance perfectly to suit the cam. Cam lighting is way different from real lighting, so by doing your makeup in the cam you're making sure you are presenting the image you want to when you do finally go live.

    I also have tons of other body "flaws" that I truly don't even notice anymore. I am honestly way more self-confident about my appearance than I ever was before camming. I don't notice my stretch marks, the sagging of my breasts, nor my one slightly crooked tooth at all when I used to be almost obsessed with them. I've truly become oblivious because I KNOW that I am beautiful and attractive, flaws and all. I still wear makeup on cam, and I look forward to the day when I don't have to, but it just goes to show that you can be confident while still acknowledging certain aspects of your appearance that you would like to change.

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