Page 4 of 5 FirstFirst ... 2345 LastLast
Results 76 to 100 of 110

Thread: Have You Ever Been Outted?

  1. #76
    God/dess kortneykay's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    In Private Chat Making $
    Posts
    6,059
    Thanks
    13,677
    Thanked 21,933 Times in 4,881 Posts
    My Mood
    Amazed

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    My soon to be ex husband tried outing me to my cousin over text message. She fired back how much of a coward he was, how dare he try and put his own wife on blast, that he was clearly immature and he fucked with the wrong family. That's as far as that went. My family may not particularly like the news if they found out but his hopes for them disowning me got shot down quick. He must have mixed my family up with his. We don't get down like that.




    Believe In Your Brand



  2. The Following 8 Users Say Thank You to kortneykay For This Useful Post:


  3. #77
    Veteran Member SadieTaylor's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2013
    Posts
    300
    Thanks
    287
    Thanked 577 Times in 168 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    I am going on week 5 of camming. I ended up visiting my parents after week 3 and telling them and my sister what I'm doing. I kept it vague and I just told them that I am naked on the internet and it is considered pornography. They actually laughed and asked if I was doing it with another girl. I wanted to be honest so I could market myself and remove the geoblock. And now since I am a sahm I can afford things like swim lessons this summer and preschool in the fall for my twins. I have also told several close friends and everyone except for one of them has been very cool with it. And quite frankly, I don't really give a fuck. I'm just not telling my bf/bd's family, but if they find out, oh well..... It feels good to be financially independent and I'll be damn if anyone tries to take away my newfound pride from all my hard work.

  4. The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to SadieTaylor For This Useful Post:


  5. #78
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,938
    Thanks
    12,138
    Thanked 37,404 Times in 8,667 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    Unfortunately that's how a lot of outting happen these days! One person texting another and before you know it, it travels like wildfire because we have too many worthless busy body in this world so that's their way of gaining "control" and "power".
    Quote Originally Posted by kortneykay View Post
    My soon to be ex husband tried outing me to my cousin over text message. She fired back how much of a coward he was, how dare he try and put his own wife on blast, that he was clearly immature and he fucked with the wrong family. That's as far as that went. My family may not particularly like the news if they found out but his hopes for them disowning me got shot down quick. He must have mixed my family up with his. We don't get down like that.
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  6. The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  7. #79
    God/dess kortneykay's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    In Private Chat Making $
    Posts
    6,059
    Thanks
    13,677
    Thanked 21,933 Times in 4,881 Posts
    My Mood
    Amazed

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    So true Marina, he was doing it to be vindictive. My cousin called and told me a month after and he was smiling in my face, fucking me, and sleeping in my bed and I had no clue haha.




    Believe In Your Brand



  8. The Following User Says Thank You to kortneykay For This Useful Post:


  9. #80
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,938
    Thanks
    12,138
    Thanked 37,404 Times in 8,667 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    Da fuck? Are you serious?! THE NERVES!!! I have been outted so many times, daily that I am immune to it! I don't know this people, they don't pay bills so they really dont matter. I wish someone would come up to me though!

    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    Moved to a different area and was outed yet again. Was at the grocery store and a woman said, "My son said you're on the internet doing nasty things, doing porn." I looked at her and asked "So you let your 16 year old son peruse online porn sites?" She said nothing else. Ladies, if you do this for a living there is a good chance you will be outed. Make sure it's worth it to you. This is not a game, not a whimsical adventure, it is very real despite the naughty fantasy aspect. Consider your choice wisely. Weigh the risks.
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  10. The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  11. #81
    Member
    Joined
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    73
    Thanks
    65
    Thanked 73 Times in 30 Posts
    My Mood
    Chatty

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    I just started doing this and so far only my bf knows(he knew before I even started). My family knows I'm making money and staying up late(I live with my mom) but she thinks I'm translating stuff on the internet, freelance-style. I'm planning on telling them once I save enough money to move out with my boyfriend(might be later on this year). My family is pretty open-minded but who knows... maybe they'll flip their shit, or they won't. It's a coin's toss.

  12. The Following User Says Thank You to lTina For This Useful Post:


  13. #82
    Member Megamind69's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2013
    Posts
    66
    Thanks
    237
    Thanked 49 Times in 25 Posts
    My Mood
    Cool

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    I've just been outed such a nerve wrecking experience I was completely flabbergasted but I'm slowly getting over it now

  14. The Following User Says Thank You to Megamind69 For This Useful Post:


  15. #83
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,938
    Thanks
    12,138
    Thanked 37,404 Times in 8,667 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    It was none if her business to begin with. I guess that was the highlight of her day by trying to shame you? How sad! I like your response. Big hugs!
    Quote Originally Posted by foxxyredd33 View Post
    These people must have nothing else to do in the county where I live. No tact whatsoever asking about things that are none of their business. I do try and be as discreet as I can, but inevitably it 'gets out'. I'm not ashamed of doing this to support myself and my child (they're certainly not offering up any cash assistance, lol), so I'm not going to lie about it nor am I going to glorify it. When she said 'doing nasty things, doing porn' I felt she was wanting to brand me with a scarlet A and have my hair shorn off to shame me or something. Blasted harlot that I may be, I don't feel the personal issues are mine.
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  16. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  17. #84
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,938
    Thanks
    12,138
    Thanked 37,404 Times in 8,667 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    Wow, I am sorry. If you don't mind sharing, how did you find out?
    Quote Originally Posted by Megamind69 View Post
    I've just been outed such a nerve wrecking experience I was completely flabbergasted but I'm slowly getting over it now
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  18. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  19. #85
    Member Megamind69's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2013
    Posts
    66
    Thanks
    237
    Thanked 49 Times in 25 Posts
    My Mood
    Cool

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Wow, I am sorry. If you don't mind sharing, how did you find out?
    Star you can read all abt it here
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...74#post2516774

  20. The Following User Says Thank You to Megamind69 For This Useful Post:


  21. #86
    Member Megamind69's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2013
    Posts
    66
    Thanks
    237
    Thanked 49 Times in 25 Posts
    My Mood
    Cool

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Wow, I am sorry. If you don't mind sharing, how did you find out?
    Star you can read all abt it here
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...74#post2516774

  22. #87
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,938
    Thanks
    12,138
    Thanked 37,404 Times in 8,667 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    It is because of being outted that I am no longer afraid or living in fear of being outted. I feel free, empowered and liberated!
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  23. The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  24. #88
    Member Megamind69's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2013
    Posts
    66
    Thanks
    237
    Thanked 49 Times in 25 Posts
    My Mood
    Cool

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    It is because of being outted that I am no longer afraid or living in fear of being outted. I feel free, empowered and liberated!
    very well put living in fear is like not living at all

  25. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Megamind69 For This Useful Post:


  26. #89
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,938
    Thanks
    12,138
    Thanked 37,404 Times in 8,667 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    No, it isn't! And you can't out the willing
    Quote Originally Posted by Megamind69 View Post
    very well put living in fear is like not living at all
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  27. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  28. #90
    Member
    Joined
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    73
    Thanks
    65
    Thanked 73 Times in 30 Posts
    My Mood
    Chatty

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    Well scratch what I said a few days ago. My sister-in-law went snooping in my bf's cell and read all the messages talking about me camming and the money and such. She told my boyfriend's whole family who in turn asked him if he was okay with dating such a whore... He quickly shot them down saying that I've been camming a total of 12 hours and made more money than them in two weeks lol. They shut their mouths and my MIL and FIL actually support what I'm doing now LOL! The only one disagreeing is my hateful SIL(the one who outted me) who keeps saying what a whore I am and a cheater and other stuff. Fuck her.

  29. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to lTina For This Useful Post:


  30. #91
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,938
    Thanks
    12,138
    Thanked 37,404 Times in 8,667 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    WOW, where are the boundaries? Or is there any?
    Quote Originally Posted by lTina View Post
    Well scratch what I said a few days ago. My sister-in-law went snooping in my bf's cell and read all the messages talking about me camming and the money and such. She told my boyfriend's whole family who in turn asked him if he was okay with dating such a whore... He quickly shot them down saying that I've been camming a total of 12 hours and made more money than them in two weeks lol. They shut their mouths and my MIL and FIL actually support what I'm doing now LOL! The only one disagreeing is my hateful SIL(the one who outted me) who keeps saying what a whore I am and a cheater and other stuff. Fuck her.
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  31. The Following User Says Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  32. #92
    Member
    Joined
    Mar 2013
    Posts
    73
    Thanks
    65
    Thanked 73 Times in 30 Posts
    My Mood
    Chatty

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    WOW, where are the boundaries? Or is there any?
    She's crazy. Like, batshit insane. My boyfriend had a very old phone, it was starting to act up and when my mom bought a new cellphone a few days ago she gave him her old one. So yesterday my boyfriend left the old phone in his room when he came visit me; his sister went into his room looking for something, saw the phone, grabbed it and looked at EVERYTHING. Photos, calls, messages. When he got back to his house his parents confronted him. Then I went to his house and we talked and his sister was laughing like a maniac the whole time saying what a slut I was, that I was a prostitute, things like that and finally confessed to everything.

    Edit: Forgot to add, she also had kind of a meltdown, saying that HER FATHER probably watches and buys my shows. She's been saying that I like to show my ass and boobs to her dad for MONTHS, even telling my boyfriend that our daughter is not his, but his dad's. SHE'S INSANE.

  33. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to lTina For This Useful Post:


  34. #93
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,938
    Thanks
    12,138
    Thanked 37,404 Times in 8,667 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    I've lost a lot of faith in humanity a long time ago!
    Quote Originally Posted by lTina View Post
    She's crazy. Like, batshit insane. My boyfriend had a very old phone, it was starting to act up and when my mom bought a new cellphone a few days ago she gave him her old one. So yesterday my boyfriend left the old phone in his room when he came visit me; his sister went into his room looking for something, saw the phone, grabbed it and looked at EVERYTHING. Photos, calls, messages. When he got back to his house his parents confronted him. Then I went to his house and we talked and his sister was laughing like a maniac the whole time saying what a slut I was, that I was a prostitute, things like that and finally confessed to everything.
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  35. The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  36. #94
    Featured Member MellyMay's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2013
    Location
    West Coast Best Coast
    Posts
    948
    Thanks
    581
    Thanked 1,858 Times in 599 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    Quote Originally Posted by MellyMay View Post
    It's not so much that I've been outted, per se.....but....some awkward moments.

    An ex boyf from NINE YEARS AGO has continued googling me (compliment? or creepy?) and found my ELM info which directed him to my cam-related blog. He contacted me on MGF and didn't know he can't give me personal info. They blcoked him for trying to give me his email....... what an idiot, as we are FB friends!

    The weord moment happened the other night. An acquaintance from tumblr who I know recently got married found me whilst trolling MFC. He went, "Wow, this is the first time I've seen anyone I know!" Luckily, he wasn't looking to out me and was kind enough to just PM and say hello. I think he tipped a bit out of his own embarrassment. I thought it was pretty funny.....but evidence that maaaaaaaannnnnnnn, anyone can find you, even if you're a newb listed on one of the last pages, lol.
    Oh man, more to report:

    I now have ANOTHER ex and my most recent ex's BEST FRIEND popping in and out of my room as guests. Again, not outted yet.
    BUT-
    I went on a casual barely-even-a-date kinda date from this silly site (like a friendster/FB/OKCupid-ish start up by a friend). I put that I cam in my little bio as IDGAF. Within 10 mins the dude was being totally inappropriate, assuming I was just gonna fuck him immediately. When I was like, "Uhhhh, no dude," he replied with "I KNOW WHAT YOU DO."
    O rly? I outted myself, loser. Needless to say, I told him off and was gone within 30 mins.
    mellymay.com

  37. The Following User Says Thank You to MellyMay For This Useful Post:


  38. #95
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,938
    Thanks
    12,138
    Thanked 37,404 Times in 8,667 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    For safety reasons, I personally wouldn't put that on my profile. There are way too many crazy out there that the last thing you want is sexual assault. When men know you're in the adult industry, the majority will see it as a green light for nothing but sex.
    Quote Originally Posted by MellyMay View Post
    Oh man, more to report:

    I now have ANOTHER ex and my most recent ex's BEST FRIEND popping in and out of my room as guests. Again, not outted yet.
    BUT-
    I went on a casual barely-even-a-date kinda date from this silly site (like a friendster/FB/OKCupid-ish start up by a friend). I put that I cam in my little bio as IDGAF. Within 10 mins the dude was being totally inappropriate, assuming I was just gonna fuck him immediately. When I was like, "Uhhhh, no dude," he replied with "I KNOW WHAT YOU DO."
    O rly? I outted myself, loser. Needless to say, I told him off and was gone within 30 mins.
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  39. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  40. #96
    Featured Member MellyMay's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2013
    Location
    West Coast Best Coast
    Posts
    948
    Thanks
    581
    Thanked 1,858 Times in 599 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    For safety reasons, I personally wouldn't put that on my profile. There are way too many crazy out there that the last thing you want is sexual assault. When men know you're in the adult industry, the majority will see it as a green light for nothing but sex.

    Oh, I made sure to take it down immediately. No need to deal with such nonsense, amirite?

    Thx Marina for your input! I'm finding an almost 70/30% split on my friends' opinions of camming in general. I've certainly not outted myself to some individuals, but for the most part, my besties know. Soooo many are so supportive and like, "Yeah, that's awesome. You're perfect for that kinda thing" yet a small faction (including ONE of the ex's previously mentioned) are like, "You're better than that. Blah blah blah."

    But yeah, from here out, I'm not gonna lead with my cam girl status in certain situations.
    mellymay.com

  41. The Following User Says Thank You to MellyMay For This Useful Post:


  42. #97
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,938
    Thanks
    12,138
    Thanked 37,404 Times in 8,667 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    This is hitting home again so I want to bump it!
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  43. The Following 3 Users Say Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  44. #98
    Senior Member BellaK's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2011
    Location
    in the sky
    Posts
    172
    Thanks
    1,473
    Thanked 493 Times in 129 Posts
    My Mood
    Amused

    WWW Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    I have never been outted, but I know like someone else said, it will happen some day. Someone has claimed to have attended H.S. with me in freechat (yeah. right). I've really thought about it. Ive decided in like the recent years to care so much less about what people think. Its not as socially accepted, yet millions of people login daily just to see chat/"fuck"/ even be "in love" with US. So, they are the ones with the problem, if anyone, not us. The customers arent judged as much as we are, not fair. So again, should we care about being outted, because we show what we do, while most people hide it? NO. :-) However, I know some camgirls have something to lose by being outted, I sure don't!

    HAD TO SHARE:

    Name:  quote!.jpg
Views: 124
Size:  106.9 KB
    "Not one drop of my self-worth depends on your acceptance of me."

  45. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to BellaK For This Useful Post:


  46. #99
    God/dess Marina Starr's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2012
    Location
    Don't Bother Me, USA
    Posts
    9,938
    Thanks
    12,138
    Thanked 37,404 Times in 8,667 Posts

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?


    Quote Originally Posted by BellaK View Post
    I have never been outted, but I know like someone else said, it will happen some day. Someone has claimed to have attended H.S. with me in freechat (yeah. right). I've really thought about it. Ive decided in like the recent years to care so much less about what people think. Its not as socially accepted, yet millions of people login daily just to see chat/"fuck"/ even be "in love" with US. So, they are the ones with the problem, if anyone, not us. The customers arent judged as much as we are, not fair. So again, should we care about being outted, because we show what we do, while most people hide it? NO. :-) However, I know some camgirls have something to lose by being outted, I sure don't!

    HAD TO SHARE:

    Name:  quote!.jpg
Views: 124
Size:  106.9 KB
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



  47. The Following User Says Thank You to Marina Starr For This Useful Post:


  48. #100
    God/dess sammii's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2011
    Location
    United States
    Posts
    2,071
    Thanks
    5,793
    Thanked 4,328 Times in 1,404 Posts
    My Mood
    Angelic

    Default Re: Have You Ever Been Outted?

    Yes. A lot of people I know in real life know both my real name and my cam name. It started off with me telling 1 or 2 people, into "I heard that you webcam." Word can spread like wildfire if you're not careful.

  49. The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to sammii For This Useful Post:


Page 4 of 5 FirstFirst ... 2345 LastLast

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •