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    Default Anyone ever done a private party with a couple before?

    I have this young, attractive couple that come in to see me pretty frequently and spend lots of money whenever they do. They're a blast, they've never made me feel uncomfortable, usually only stay for 2 hours or so and they always tip high at the end of a room, and I really have fun when they're in. I've given the wife my phone number, because she wanted to be able to text me when they were coming in. Which is a total no brainer for me, I give my number to most of my regulars, even though I know it's frowned upon by a lot of people!

    Anyway, she's asked me on several occasions now to come over to their house and dance for them. She was professional about it, said it would only be for an hour, they would pay me the same amount they would ITC for an hour, plus my club wouldn't be taking a cut, so it would be $400. We talked about it for a while, she said absolutely "no funny business," just dancing.

    I don't think I'm going to do it. She knows I'm on the fence about it, and understands why. In the long run, I'm just not comfortable with the idea of going to their house, even though they seem trustworthy enough... And I'm bummed at the thought that I could lose them as regulars for it, because they are probably the best regulars I've ever had, and I usually hate dancing for couples.

    Anyway, I was just curious if anyone else had any experiences doing "private party" dancing for a couple (Not 3sums!). I'd like to hear stories!
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    Default Re: Anyone ever done a private party with a couple before?

    Dudeee you know they're gonna be all horny and wanting to have sex with you... It will get awkward. Been in that position with a couple, and if you can keep them as club customers only, do that. I just ditched my couple because the whole thing weirded me out. After a few chats it started coming out how they kinda want a girlfriend-y third type of person (they had had a GF before) and these couples ALWAYS want more. I wasn't for it. Have you talked about if they have done this before? I've met some couples who seemed super shady to me, if you don't trust them fully in their house, go with your gut. Assume they will ask for sex and then decide if you want to go. You could still do the dances and turn them down IF they ask. 400 an hour is good!

    Now that I think about it, I'd probably do it lol If you feel safe with them why not, Get ya money upfront just incase

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    Default Re: Anyone ever done a private party with a couple before?

    if you do decide to do it you should charge a lot more than $400. risking your safety, traveling to a different location, possibly dealing with sex drama, the possibility of not getting to go at exactly 1 hr require a much higher fee. not to mention you probably wont be able to work on this day so even tho youre only going for an hr youre really charging for the whole night. $1k min is appropriate imo.

    also you should tell a friend where you are going and have her track your phone thru google latitude.

    go with your gut, if your gut says no then dont do it.

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    Default Re: Anyone ever done a private party with a couple before?

    Maybe bring security/a bouncer with you??? That also might help ward off any sexual advances. (This is coming from a non-stripper but maybe it'll help!)
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    Default Re: Anyone ever done a private party with a couple before?

    Like I said, don't think I'm gonna do it! I don't have anyone in the area I'd trust to be a bouncer/security for me, and the only time I've ever done private parties, it was with security + one other dancer. Just wanted to hear stories if anyone had before.
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    Default Re: Anyone ever done a private party with a couple before?

    They are asking because they are hoping for more. In key west couples are my specailty( ask djoser) no lie I do around 4 hours with couples when I work there during new years. I had one german couple that barely spoke english( hot as hell) during power boat and my other german customer( who had his wife with him and she danced at cheetahs in sarasota) he came in without the wife and well he said the coule would give me 800 to come to theirroom while he the other german who'se wife dances who's ugly as hell would fuck the gf while I gave the bf a hand job. Of course I didn't go I value my life and I would of been the only non german speaking person there. His wife chewed me out the next day and said she woulda went. Nah I make enough and value my life. I wouldn't but I travel so I don't have to rely on regs but if they like you enough they'll keep coming. I mean the rooms are so cheap there so I don't think they'll not come see you anymore because of it.

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