Hi ladies.
So I've only been working about a month and a half, and I'm afraid I'm already experiencing burnout (or something).
At first I was loving the job. I was loving getting all dolled up and sexy to go to work, loving the club atmosphere, the girls there, the money (most of all), etc, etc. However now it's all changed.
I know extras go in the majority of clubs (ok I don't actually know but I'm guessing), but since my club got new management I feel like it's gotten so bad I can't handle it. My club was owned by a couple, but they have gotten a divorce now and it's just owned by the husband. A bunch of girls who had worked there but hadn't gotten along with the wife are coming back to work, and it's ALOT of girls. I would have no problem with new girls, being as I am one of them, but seriously all these girls seem to be dirty! It's crazy! In my month and a half working there I had only witnessed one extra (I'm sure they were more but they weren't all over the place). Now, my last night I had worked there, I made under $20 (I had never made less than $190). Every single guy was expecting sex. I was even with a customer for THREE hours, and a girl walked up and whispered in his ear and he literally got up and left me and went with her. After 3 fucking hours. The manager was even more mad then me and freaked out on her. I had guys all night telling me these 3 certain girls were offering sex for $200, and bjs for $50. 3 may not seem like alot but I work in a small club so it's overkill when even 10 girls are working. And all of these girls were new. Just walking by the semi private dance booths a saw one of those 3 girls giving a dude a bj. Like literally saw it. I would never rat them out, so I just turned my head, but seriously at least do it in VIP, not where we can see!!
So at the end of the night, all of the clean girls didn't even make out house fees, and the dirty girls had money literally falling out of their full purses. It made me feel like I was working in a whore house. I want to be a dancer, but it makes me feel so dirty to feel like I'm working in a whore house!! Not worth it to me, especially if all the guys want sex now because girls offer it in the first few minutes of conversation.
I know the obvious answer would be switch clubs, but I already drive 61 miles to my club. All of the clubs in my town are extremely slow and dirty too. Like even my dancer friends in this town tell me it's extremely dirty. (ps I live in Oregon) I tried a night at the one club my friend suggested and told me was the cleanest in town, but it was painfully slow and there wasn't even one customer in the 3 hours I was there so I left. The girls there also told me it's the only club in town that is somewhat clean, so dancing in my town isn't an option.
So after my long rant, I guess what I'm getting at is, are all clubs extremely dirty and I'm just oblivious? Or how do you girls actually make money when girls are offering sex? I just feel like I can't compete trying to sell dances, when for the price of 2 1/2 dances girls will give you a bj.



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the "good old days" ( or so i heard) are gone..extras run rampant in this crap economy, a lot of clubs allow it because they want money and customers just as bad, and its not likely to get any better..in fact it may get even worse. you can't change other other people or what they do, you just can't..so work on your own hustle and being the best you can be like like charlie said. getting back at extras girls will get your ass beat or worse, so be careful! just saying that because i've seen it

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