i seem to attract people who like to "open up their hearts" to me a biiittt too much! i've had 3 guys break down in tears ( akward!!) and others regale me with very sad, long stories of their divorces, mother's death, etc. im very good at reading people so i don't think they are bullshitting me unless they are top actors :p this happens in my personal life a lot, i've always been the friend people want to talk to when they are down, but at work how do i lighten it up a bit after all that and get them to want dances without sounding cold and callous and money hungry? are the lines " i know just what will cheer you up, come back with me for a bit of fun" too mean sounding? and what the hell do i do when they start crying? i just sit there kind of shocked..should i hug them, or would that be too platonic? it keeps happening! im good at relating to cusys and gaining their trust but i need to start hustling and being more cold, manipulating and seductive. perhaps im giving off the "friend vibe" instead of the temptress vibe. but a lot of guys come in just to talk and get some female companionship so im sure others have experienced this too..
in my heart i feel that im being a terrible person for hustling somebody who feels so bad



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