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    Default Advice for cam GUYS

    Preface: I know that males aren't allowed in this section and that admin still haven't worked out a satisfactory solution. Therefore this thread is not but so useful, as the only cam guys who could chime in would be those attached to a female poster in a couple and as the only cam guys who can see this are those who already lurk (hi!) or those who we share the link with. I also know that I'm not either of the above audiences, so I may be insensitive or totally off the mark, many apologies ahead of time!

    Situation: A custie wrote me a very nice "thank you" email (isn't it cool when they do that?!) telling me that he'd gotten a session with me because his ex-girlfriend had asked him to go watch cams because she wants him to start doing couples with her. If said ex is a SW poster/lurker don't worry, I know zero details and he never even told me his name, so the email I wrote him back was a generic email about a generic situation. I kinda thought probably watching other solo girls wasn't what she'd wanted him to do in order to prepare for doing couples shows, so I wrote him back and before I knew it, the thing had turned into a tome of risk awareness advice (me? Write an overly-long post? Say it ain't so!).

    Therefore: I share the email below and I implore you to share experience/advice that cam guys or couples could use.

    Generic link to search on couples camming for to sort through:
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/se...earchid=469857
    Generic link to search on cam guy for to search through:
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/se...earchid=469864

    Email:
    ...And now, I'm so sorry, but...to further deflate your balloon... "ex-girlfriend." Is it wise a) to become sexually involved with an ex and b) to further complicate that with both viewers AND money?

    Interpersonally:
    Do either of you still care for each other? Did you have enjoyable sex? Is either of you using this as a way to get back together? If the person who broke it off ISN'T the person who suggested camming together...are you sure of the answer to the previous question? Do you ever think of her as, "your" woman? If you get possessive of her, watching her be "objectified" in real time will NOT make you feel better.

    What are you two going to do about the people you see in real life? AKA Is it possible for each of you to, "keep it professional" when the other one gets a "real" or "new" significant other? If either of you suggest that neither of you see other people while you're involved in camming together, this is a sign you can't, "keep it professional." Speaking of other people, what about STDs? Condoms with other partners? Condoms with each other? (How much would it suck to get Chlamydia from your ex, while at work, right?!)

    Commercially:
    Can you last for a long time? Can you ejaculate noticeable volumes, multiple times in a night? Do you have any issues with the way you look? Can you maintain an erection when C2C is on and a) there is a creepy, gross looking dude jerking it or b) there is a guy who you think is hotter than you jerking it? What if said dude is outspoken about how good/bad you and/or your ex look separately or together? Are you easily annoyed or frustrated? (camming requires an iron core but endless patience and easy-going-ness)

    How will the money be shared out? 50/50? Who will keep track of what is coming in and what expenses are going out? The check will come to one person (or one Payoneer card), how will that person get the money to the other? Are you okay with your legal name and two forms of photo ID being on some random server somewhere, associated with porn? Speaking of, are you okay with the potentially inevitable loved one/boss seeing you boning away at her (potentially in some weird costume or position a client has requested)? <-Don't go into politics or get into a contentious child custody battle.

    Porn star pro-tips:
    Watch endless amounts of boy-girl porn. The free stuff from major studios. It will all begin to look formulaic. That's because it IS. Strip, passionate embrace, lick boobs, lick pussy (fake orgasm*), suck cock, three positions (1+ fake orgasms), optional anal, optional anal gaping, suck/jerk so as he can to pop to face (unless it's a cream pie). This is what viewers will be expecting from you (unless they ask for something else**).

    They will also be expecting tricks that they don't even know they're seeing. The major one is, "cheating out," where you angle your body away from the camera so that the camera can see what you're doing. If you're really eating pussy, your face is all up in that jank. The camera can't see anything. So you cheat out; squash the other side of your head against her thigh, extend your tongue as far as it can go and just barely lick her while spreading her open. Now they can see everything...and now the sex isn't fun.

    *as a cam girl -if she's any good at giving the guys what they want, as I'm sure she is- your ex will have had to learn to convincingly fake orgasms, or at least convincingly fake them for tv. Is this going to freak you out, seeing her appear to have an orgasm and then wondering if she was ever faking with you, in your personal life? Speaking of, if you're possessive (even though she's your ex) it may bother you to watch her have genuine orgasms at the direction of/due to others.

    **and when they "ask" for something else, they will frequently be hung up with a)trying to type as little as possible so that they can keep jerking it and not realizing that this means you have no idea what they're trying to say b)issues of sexual shame that keep them from articulating what they want. <-"I want you to dominate me." "Ok, how?" "Whatever you think is best, mistress." and now how am I supposed to know which of the seven THOUSAND things that domination could entail is the one he wants, versus the one that will send him screaming from the room/leaving me a bad rating, thus effecting my ability to make money for the rest of the month?

    TL: DR Plz to post advice and links for cam guys or cam couples
    Last edited by IsobelWren; 03-29-2013 at 08:22 AM. Reason: damn automatic emoticons


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