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    Default SD and Flight Bookings- giving out personal INFO??!!

    I know women often get their sugar daddies, pots, clients, etc. to book flights for trips. My SD is planning on leaving the country for work this summer and wants to bring me along. I feel safe enough with him but I'm still a bit paranoid about giving him my last name and passport info which he says he needs to book the flight. I may tell him that I will give it to him over the phone just cause of how much I hate how anything over the Internet never actually goes away.

    Anyway, how do you guys get flights booked? Have you just had the guy take care of everything or do you request money so you can do it yourself? I know in the video vixen industry-- women get ballers/ athletes to book flights for them all the time to visit them in different cities.. usually its assistants that do this so I am assuming you just have them take care of it, make sure you have a roundtrip ticket and go.

    Its silly at this point for me to be paranoid about him knowing my last name. He's been to my place, I know all his personal info and if I feel safe enough to go out the country with him so its really no big deal.. I just want to know my other options.

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    Default Re: SD and Flight Bookings- giving out personal INFO??!!

    I am curious about this also. I am about to start doing domme sessions but I refuse to give out my real name. I wonder if there are like airline giftcards? Help anyone?

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    Yep there are airline e gift cards and they can be sent anonymously for almost all the major airlines.
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    Default Re: SD and Flight Bookings- giving out personal INFO??!!

    I only travel with those who I know well enough that I feel comfortable with them knowing my info.

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    Default Re: SD and Flight Bookings- giving out personal INFO??!!

    He cannot book your flight without the info., so the only other option is to do it yourself. Now he could certainly send you an e-gift certificate or front/reimburse the money, but the bigger question in my mind is just how you are going to spin this with him. What a cold reality moment he is going to have when you tell him that you aren't comfortable with sharing your last name. Now I suppose that you could always try to fabricate some excuse, but if he is smart enough that he has a good job that sends him overseas and can comfortably afford to bring you over, then I'm guessing that he is smart enough to figure out what is actually going on.

    Idk, but IMHO if you are really that concerned about this then you really ought to consider whether you want to take that trip at all. Once he has you overseas, staying in a place that he is paying for and in an area that he probably knows far better than you do, you are most definitely at his mercy. You mentioned in another thread that he was previously in SE Asia. Idk if that is where you are going, but if so, it is definitely not a place where you want anything going sideways on you. If you have any hesitation at all, then IMHO just come up with an excuse as to why you cannot go.

    In any event, good luck!

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    Default Re: SD and Flight Bookings- giving out personal INFO??!!

    Pre-paid credit cards are on option too.

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    Default Re: SD and Flight Bookings- giving out personal INFO??!!

    Quote Originally Posted by rickdugan View Post
    Idk, but IMHO if you are really that concerned about this then you really ought to consider whether you want to take that trip at all. Once he has you overseas, staying in a place that he is paying for and in an area that he probably knows far better than you do, you are most definitely at his mercy. You mentioned in another thread that he was previously in SE Asia. Idk if that is where you are going, but if so, it is definitely not a place where you want anything going sideways on you. If you have any hesitation at all, then IMHO just come up with an excuse as to why you cannot go.

    In any event, good luck!
    Thanks Rick. This time he'll be in Europe and I obviously wouldn't of even considered this trip if I had reservations about it. But I am the most paranoid person on the planet. I've always been this way, which is both good and bad. It took me a year to actually meet a potential sugar daddy face to face and a month of meetings with this one before I finally decided I could spend time with him without fear that he was psychopath. All this is good but it has kept me from taking golden opportunities in life.. like an all expense trip abroad. And I have to trust my gut. I know myself well enough at this point that I can do this without fear something bad will happen. Its just those worries that creep in my mind (what if the plane crashes, what if I get abducted, what if I lose my passport, what if he gets abducted, what if I get on the wrong train, etc).

    Ticket has already been bought and I'm still second guessing myself.. so time will tell.

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    I've had an online SD for about 5 years off and on. He wants to go on a cruise next year and wants me to be his travel companion on a few excursions so I'm glad you brought this up. Quite frankly I think there should always be a level of security for the SB. He asked me for my deposit info and I prefer he deposit it another way. OP, I would personally ask that he send you the money and let you book your own flight just to be on the safe side. Unless you are dating and know each other well in person I would keep that level of security for yourself.

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    Default Re: SD and Flight Bookings- giving out personal INFO??!!

    Idk, if he knows where you live and you know enough about him and have spent alot Of time together already, what's the big deal about him having your last name?

    Like the OP said, you're going to have some trouble explaining that you aren't comfortable giving it to him- but you're comfortable enough to travel alone with him.

    I'm not trying to be rude, just help you make an informed decision.

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    Default Re: SD and Flight Bookings- giving out personal INFO??!!

    You spent a lot of time with him if you are going on an overseas trip, right?!?! Like, he isn't some random dude you met online and you are just now going on a trip with him ,so. . .
    I don't let any clients ever know my real name, either, EVER!!! . . but when I was in NY. . I had a guy who was a super regular beforehand take me on a trip in the Catskills, it was way worth it for the money, and you can only go so long on a trip without somebody knowing your real name. If you are overseas, I am sure it is going to come out of the bag eventually

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    Default Re: SD and Flight Bookings- giving out personal INFO??!!

    If he's been to your home, he can easily find out your name.

    You realize that the tag on your luggage is going to have your real name on it, right?

    The gate agent and very likely the flight attendents will address you using your real name.

    When you go through customs, they will use your real name.

    If you travel together, he will know your name, whether you tell him or not. The only way for him to not know is to book your own seperate flight, seperate hotel, etc. Why you would go out of the country without your travel partner knowing your name is beyond me.

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