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    Hello, I am sorry if this may sound like a stupid question but I have never done escorting in the past and have been thinking about it. I currently only do body rubs and I know some girls who escort on the side.

    I was wondering if you let clients eat you out and if you do, do you protect yourself? If that's the case, what do you use? Dental dam, or do you cut off a condom into a rectangle...? I am worried about health issues but at the same time, these two options probably don't look very sexy... I know a lot of girls who told me that when the client doesn't have any visible symptoms around their mouth or anything they allow him to do it without protection but it still seem risky...

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    I never did because that was a personal limit I had. For me, having a guy perform oral sex on me is more intimate than sex.
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    You are at risk of things like Herpes, UTIs (particularly if they have poor oral hygiene), and HPV can be spread orally (but I am sure that is rare to pass in that way)....

    I know of an escort that kissed her friends young kid on the nose one day, and now that kid is 9 or 10, and he gets herpes infections inside and around his NOSTRILS. Very sad, really. That is how easy it spreads...just one or two kisses on the nose.

    The thing is herpes, is it is just skin shedding that spreads it...just skin to skin contact...

    Freaks me out to think of that shit. I personally have been jumping between the idea of allowing a client to do that or not. I think I will end up making them use a dental dam, though.

    Most clients, from what I have heard...or even men in general, are terrible at giving oral. Mainly because each woman is different for what she likes, and women are unique.....a client might have been able to get his wife off with some weird oral skills, but it could feel uncomfortable for you and do nothing at all.

    Clients don't like to think of themselves as "Johns" it seems....that is why they want to avoid making the session feel like they paid for it. The less restrictions there are, it seems more "personal" to them, almost like they picked you up in a bar. If you say: "no kissing, no oral" etc....then it feels more like "a session".

    ONLY do what you find comfortable and safe. NEVER just do what other women do, because you will feel ANXIOUS and UNHAPPY if you are going against your own heart.

    For me, the anxiety of 'catching something' from a dude that I DON'T KNOW who he has kissed lately, or what he has put in his mouth lately...freaks me out to much.

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    Hellz no. Always a dental dam, and if they refuse, I refuse.

    Two words for you: asymptomatic shedding.


    Quote Originally Posted by xStacey View Post
    Hello, I am sorry if this may sound like a stupid question but I have never done escorting in the past and have been thinking about it. I currently only do body rubs and I know some girls who escort on the side.

    I was wondering if you let clients eat you out and if you do, do you protect yourself? If that's the case, what do you use? Dental dam, or do you cut off a condom into a rectangle...? I am worried about health issues but at the same time, these two options probably don't look very sexy... I know a lot of girls who told me that when the client doesn't have any visible symptoms around their mouth or anything they allow him to do it without protection but it still seem risky...

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    May I ask you where you get them? They're so hard to find... There was a sex shop I went to they had this thing for the woman to hear when the man performs oral on her but they only had 2 & they were about $6 each lol...

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    you can buy them in bulk on amazon or ebay for cheap
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    Ditto MissSassy, try amazon.com or ebay.com, but usually I like to shop here in bulk (I'm not affiliated): www.wowcondoms.com

    My favorite: the Hot Dam non-latex dental dam. They don't smell nor taste like anything and are great if you have latex allergies: http://wowcondoms.com/SearchProduct....xt=adental dam


    Quote Originally Posted by xStacey View Post
    May I ask you where you get them? They're so hard to find... There was a sex shop I went to they had this thing for the woman to hear when the man performs oral on her but they only had 2 & they were about $6 each lol...
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    If your going into escort work, why not go on Valtrex as a preventative? Talk to a doctor (perhaps at a sliding fee scale clinic) about Valtrex and probably Truvada too (to prevent HIV transmission). That one may be too expensive I have NO idea the cost, but if you are high risk, which escort work is, safe sex or not, it would be great piece of mind.

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    Default Re: Escorting - letting clients eat you out?

    Great question and I've been wondering this too. I had my first successful session today and allowed the guy to lick on my clit but won't allow this to be the norm. Problem is that whole "GFE" thing but I will take that down.

    I won't kiss nor allow oral unless its with a dental dam or condom on him. Thanks!

    PS- Do you guys request the client to pull out prior to cuming? The thought of a broken condom freaks me out!

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    I think there are ways you can save on PrEP (Truvada). I have gay escort friends that take it, and they get their co-pay reduced with this program called Gilead I think. Look it up. It might also be covered by Medicaid but I'm not too sure on that.
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    As a client, I always bring and use a dental dam (which makes me an oddity, I'm told by providers). From a client's perspective (or at least my perspective, although my guys I know agree), without the taste, fragrance, and texture, for me the act becomes mostly symbolic -- which works for me in domination type sessions, but I'd probably pass in a more vanilla scenario. But since so many HSV carriers are asymptomatic, I'm usually uncomfortable otherwise.
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    ^^^^^you are wise to do so. There is a thread on this forum where mostly everyone who commented said they did not use dental dams (despite knowing the risks). So I could see how you would be seen as rare.
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    I wanted to mention too... That they are finding more and more diseases are sexually transmitted. I was thinking if you had the HPV shots, and was on Truvada and Valtrex you might be pretty safe (BBBJ) low volume client but they are finding all kinds of evidence that Lyme disease is sexually transmitted, the Zika virus possibly even ebola... There is a lot about transmission of microorganisms we don't I know about. I think you gals are smart to bring your own safety kits and suit up.

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