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    Default Gifts From Regulars

    I wanted to know if any of you have ever received gifts from regulars? If so, do you place a limit on the types of gifts you receive? I am not a dancer, but did consider it before I got into camming.

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    Default Re: Gifts From Regulars

    I don't see much of it at my club... there is one girl who gets roses sent to her routinely, but that's all.
    Personally I wouldn't like it, it kind of crosses the business boundary to me in that case, but to each their own.
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    There was an older woman on dayshift at one of my old clubs who worked every day and had 1 regular who would come in and see her and just "talk"with her in the back VIP. This dancer never danced for anyone else, he was the only one. She told us that he usually spends $500-800 each visit, usually 1/week. He would bring her a stuffed animal each time and once he gave her $2000 cash in a card and she made this big deal about not wanting to take it. But then again, sometimes people lie.

    I had a regular that used to make girls dance occasionally, but myself and one other dancer with bigger boobs but same build as me were his ATFs at this club. He would just tip me hundreds for my time, presumably he did the same for her. One day he brought us each a velour hoodie and pant set. I loved it and wore it often.

    I've also had jewelry occassionally, usually gold plated, not real gold : P lol

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    I've gotten gifts before. I have no problem with accepting them. Usually it's not overly extravagant. But one time I was working at a club in Kalamazoo, MI and their big time millionaire customer fell in love with me. He "bought me" a Camaro, in hopes that it would make me be his girlfriend - basically it was leverage for him to try to have sex with me. But I wouldn't have sex with him, so the car was never mine. -__- Oh well!
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    Default Re: Gifts From Regulars

    does a 5 dollar gift card from dunkin donuts count? haha, but seriously i would love my regulars to buy me gifts, i accept their money, why not a gift?

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    Default Re: Gifts From Regulars

    I haven't gotten any gifts yet but I'd accept them as long as its a thoughtful type of gift and the gift didn't come with any strings attached.

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    Default Re: Gifts From Regulars

    I"ve gotten
    A few gold jewelry from Kay and a custom made diamond promise ring.
    Victoria Secret lingeries
    A hello kitty beanie baby
    Chocolates
    All from my creepy obsessed regular in hopes I can see that he's a sweet guy who cares about me but I think he's a creep and these gifts will never make me like him.

    I do like the gifts though!

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    I got gifts sometimes when I was just a waitress. Regulars brought in candy, homemade stuff, cards, extra tips around Christmas time. One time some guy gave me a friendship bracelet, haha. I always thought the gifts were really sweet. Of course, accepting a hand drawn card from a 6 year old when you're a waitress at a coffee shop is probably different from accepting gifts as a stripper.

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    I've gotten some pretty random gifts (and super strange for that matter) - chocolates (for a birthday or valentines day), a USED stuffed animal (it was the guys daughters stuffed animal...pretty sick if you ask me), a taser/mace/switchblade (these three were from the same guy...he wanted me to be able to protect myself outside of work...again...very wierd), birthday cards with money in them, and an assortment of homemade gifts like poems, baked goods, etc.

    Needless to say, with the exception of money...I don't like gifts. They creep me out and I throw the stuff out ASAP. What I do like however is a regular that takes me shopping, which allows me to get things I want. Men should always give money or money cards. Money will always make a stripper happy.

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    I don't like getting gifts. Even if they're things I'd ordinarily like, I end up not using them (e.g. lingerie, jewelry). They have a really weird energy attached to them. I like to keep my work and home selves separate...and gifts edge the line.

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    Default Re: Gifts From Regulars

    Plus, regulars just love to give gifts instead of money since they feel better about their relationship with you if they can buy you something (boyfriend/girlfriend) instead of paying you (stripper/customer). Which is NOT cool with me!

    Sure, some custies 'get it' and will give gifts + money, but this is a rare breed of regular IME.

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    Ive gotten brand new stripper boots that were about 145 and a victoria secret lingerie set.

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    I have been traveling mostly so I havnt had a regular in a while but when I was at a club steadily I had this regular that bought me earrings and victoria secrets stuff.

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    I don’t like gifts. I don’t like gifts because fuckers have a habit of thinking that by giving me a gift that they are going to score some points with me…And it’s always something stupid like victoria’s secret lingerie or a sex toy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Nina_ View Post
    I've gotten gifts before. I have no problem with accepting them. Usually it's not overly extravagant. But one time I was working at a club in Kalamazoo, MI and their big time millionaire customer fell in love with me. He "bought me" a Camaro, in hopes that it would make me be his girlfriend - basically it was leverage for him to try to have sex with me. But I wouldn't have sex with him, so the car was never mine. -__- Oh well!
    Was he a casino (or casino construction) guy by any chance?

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    I have received many different gifts, but my favorite one (because it's wierd and funny) was a regular bought me a WEED WACKER! Haha, it was great tho. He knew I needed one for my lawn cause I was telling him about my jungle (I was a newer home owner back then). But it was really funny cause the guys at work would make fun of my blonde peach fuzz all over my body and they thought the gift meant I was too hairy!

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    Default Re: Gifts From Regulars

    There is a regular in my club that rarely buys dances. He enjoys company, but wants to be the life of the party all night. He is the guy that will buy you drinks all night and save you from asshat customers. But he buys all of his favorites jewelery and outfits. He also owns a furniture company, so when a girl moves and is in need, he'll hook her up. If you are having a tough time at work for a while, he'll just slide you a few hundred to help out. Yes, I love money, money pays my bills, but on a bad night, a nice necklace or ring can turn it around.

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    I like receiving gifts, as I do not receive any in my personal life. However it doesn't happen as often as I thought it would. In a year, I received a bouquet, chocolates, and a book (lol, it was from one of my regular who loves to talk about litterature). I have regulars who come see me weekly or bi-weekly who tip well but never buy me anything though.

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    I receive a lot of gifts and I'm thankful for them all, but the ones that mean the most to me are really thoughtful gifts that come from one guy who actually thinks about me and what I like. Much better than guys who are like "Oooo.... She's a girl - I'll get her something shiny!!" especially when I've said over and over that I don't like jewelry, so stop buying it for me if you expect me to wear it! Also, I hate the spa and hideous lingerie!!

    Sorry, been keeping that in for a while... Felt good, though

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    Quote Originally Posted by Addison View Post
    I receive a lot of gifts and I'm thankful for them all, but the ones that mean the most to me are really thoughtful gifts that come from one guy who actually thinks about me and what I like. Much better than guys who are like "Oooo.... She's a girl - I'll get her something shiny!!" especially when I've said over and over that I don't like jewelry, so stop buying it for me if you expect me to wear it! Also, I hate the spa and hideous lingerie!!

    Sorry, been keeping that in for a while... Felt good, though
    Yeesssss... I never wear jewelry, so I don't understand when regulars buy me jewelry. It's like they think I don't wear any because I don't have any.

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    ive been given a jewlery before and outfits, thats really it though

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    I have a regular customer that always brings in treats for the girls; chocolates, donuts, etc. He bought me a dress once O.O It was a really pretty cheetah print dress that I loved, but then I let a girl who had huge bewbs borrow it and it looked better on her so I got sad ><

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    I've only had one regular who'd bring me gifts. The gifts weren't huge, but they'd be something that I talked about. He is/was a corporate attorney, and he'd bring his clients in a lot. I'd generally see him about 5-6 times a month. He admittedly wasn't too keen on strip clubs himself, and never got a lap dance from me or any other girl that I know of - he would tip me well just got talking to him and was as good as a tipper as you could ask for while dancing on stage. He'd talk a lot to me, and for instance, one day I said something about loving starbucks coffee - mocha cappuccino is my fav, but I hate spending the $4 bucks for a stupid coffee. Next time he came in, he gave me a $75 gift card to starbucks.

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    ^Aw, that's cute! A gift card is a great thing to get from a regular - it's more "gift-y" than cash, but you still get to decide how to use it. Plus, whenever regulars give me extra cash on holidays/birthdays, I tend to just throw it into my savings instead of spending it on something I'll enjoy. So it's nice to get gift cards since I'm then 'forced' to use it for something fun.

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    wishlists are good for gifts but at work I want cash!

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