Okay so I've worked at one particular club consistently for about a year and a half-only going elsewhere on occasion when I've been bored.
Since I began working there-one guy has been asking me to go out with him and I've always said no and told him I don't date customers, don't want to go out with anybody but do like him etc etc-he's always spent money on me, not a LOT, but enough to turn an okay night into a good one-like he'll always give me £50 or £80 when he comes in.
This guy is 'friends' with all the girls. Most of them,even the more reserved ones-have him as a fb friend.
He's a really nice guy. He's in his late forties, kind,funny, trustworthy, intelligent-I trust him enough to have even given him a lift home before now as have other girls.He's not much to look at though .
I am getting pissed off though because recently he's been asking me out persistently, every time he has come in. All the way through a dance he's been talking about how it's obvious we like one another and It's obvious it's just me being too scared to let him in and I should just give him a chance etc etc.
I just get around it by saying 'Dude, I know you say this to allllll the girls!' (He does, but he reckons he does it more with me).......whatever!
I confided in another girl about it and she said he's done similar to her-and to others, he seems desperate to just date any of us and is becoming more and more of a pest-but will this mean he'll soon get bored and stop spending money?!
At this moment I'm so irritated by him that I can deal with losing the money he spends on me but he also brings a friend in with him who spends on me too.....
I got a message off him recently begging me to go out with him and saying he's hurting wanting me and stuff. I don't know what to reply to it other than being nasty.
Because he's a nice, intelligent guy I'm inclined to think that he's just aiming out of his league wants to date a dancer, he could quite easily find himself a nice girl he's very good company, but he's decided he wants a dancer girlfriend and won't settle for anything else.I'm not sure what to say-I have to reply to his message I can't ignore it forever. Ugh!
Any experiences to share?




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). Regulars are fickle and have a shelf life (especially if they are looking for more than they can find inside the SC doors).

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