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    so i've worked at my club for almost 2 years this summer, and its gotten slower like a lot of strip clubs, which would be fine but its also coincided with the place hiring more than double the amount of girls that we had last year..im talking like 17 girls ( good hustlers, too) on a tuesday night in a teeny-tiny crap club on the highway!! i have a ton of regulars thank god or i wouldn't have earned jack this week. the drama is thick enough to cut with a knife in there because there's so many females crammed into such a tight place and most of us aren't earning what we used to and getting into cat fights. any good tips on how to handle a place with too many girls and how to stick out to customers without going the damn extras route? should i find a different club even though i have some very faithful regulars? or are you guys noticing a big influx of new dancers coming in..its gotten ridiculous, but the club doesn't care because more house fees for them!! maybe go indy? we ran out of locker space a long time ago, we are literally jammed into the dressing room, and its hard to find a customer who hasn't had the crap hustled out of him and isn't irritated and grumpy already from being harassed by 10 other girls..unless you catch them the minute they walk in when they aren't ready for a dance.

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    I've been in a situation like this before and I've quit. That's actually how I got into PP's years ago. Me and another girl decided to team up and we started doing parties.

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    i'd like to try that, unfortunately waiting til i get a boob job cuz i'd feel self-conscious since it's usually younger guys at parties :/

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    Ah I understand They seem to be the cheap ones too sometimes

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    Is there any chance that after a couple of weeks some of the girls will quit and it won't be so packed? You can't be the only girl contemplating quitting. If I were you I would wait a bit to see if some of the dancers leave. During that time suggest to your regs that you are considering changing club, work out a way to let them know if you do change club, phone or email whatever you feel comfortable with. Then if you do go to a new club you might be able to take some of your regs with you. Sorry your in a tough situation, I'm sure it will get better. I havn't done private parties myself but I know people who have and they have made good money, definitely something to consider.

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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    i'd like to try that, unfortunately waiting til i get a boob job cuz i'd feel self-conscious since it's usually younger guys at parties :/
    Don't let that stop you, if you want to do parties


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    My club has that problem from time to time, and the only way I've countered it is
    1)by having stage shows people will notice,
    2)wearing outfits that make me stand out from the crowd,
    3)talking to any guy with which I can make eye contact,
    4)working the shifts with the fewest amount of girls, then once I'm tired of those shifts, telling all the girls how great those shifts are (to get them to go to those instead), and
    5)working out and trying to look as polished as possible.
    You have to be more political in those situations, IMO.

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    This happens at my club every so often as well, and I generally just wait it out as dancers tend to migrate. Most will likely move on soon enough if there isn't enough money to go around, and things should go back to normal.

    Until then, it could be worthwhile to try out another club, at least for a shift or two a week. If you don't keep in touch with any of your regulars, you can stay at your home club for your most lucrative shifts (ie. when most of your regulars show up) and let them all know when they come in that you'll only be around then, and otherwise they can find you at a different club. I've done that a few times and many have followed or adapted to my newly limited availability at that club.

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    There's always gonna be bitches hard up for money every year, chick. It's a good thing if a place is known to have many girls. That's how places get crowds.

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    My club has been like this too! It's getting close to dead season but every other week, I check Craigslist and groan when I see them hiring new dancers. There were about 12 girls on at 2pm Saturday last week when they know Saturday afternoon blows. Ugh.

    The only thing I do is try to wear stage outfits that the other girls don't have, i.e., I'm often the only one wearing a red dress, or fishnet thigh-highs. Oftentimes at least half of the new girls find they can't handle the business and are gone after a few shifts, so waiting it out works as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by simone87 View Post
    and its gotten slower like a lot of strip clubs, which would be fine but its also coincided with the place hiring more than double the amount of girls
    ^It's always frustrating when clubs do this. Some places seem to do this when it's slow, maybe it's because they want to make up money from the dancer's house fees that they are losing on the bar/entry etc.

    Is there another club in your area that you could try out ?
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    yeah there are 2 i could try out without having to go out of state, they seem to have a monopoly on the other clubs around here, but im going to try them to see if its better ..im hoping a lot of the new girls will quit, one of them in particular has pissed off pretty much every girl there and won't last. its the best club of the 3 so it draws all the girls from the other clubs too. they just need to put a limit on the amount of girls in one night! thanks for the replies guys

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    Some places seem to do this when it's slow, maybe it's because they want to make up money from the dancer's house fees that they are losing on the bar/entry etc
    For clubs that aren't extremely profitable, there's a lot of truth in your observation.

    In the final analysis, in situations where a steady stream of would-be dancers are knocking on the club's door looking for work, the club has no real reason to do anything for the sake of 'keeping existing dancers happy'. Thus while every additional dancer the club hires more or less means lower earnings for all of the existing dancers, it also means additional house fees being paid to the club.


    There's always gonna be bitches hard up for money every year, chick. It's a good thing if a place is known to have many girls. That's how places get crowds.
    This observation is also true ... with a twist. While customers knowing that a particular club has more dancers available does tend to increase customer traffic by itself, arguably the REAL reason is that customers assume that more dancers means more dancer 'desparation' thus probably means more 'bang for their buck' ( i.e. higher probability of some dancers offering extras ).

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    It's the same exact way at my club. The locker room is so crowded, it is almost impossible to get a spot in front of the mirror just so you can get ready, even if you have seniority and it's a whole bunch of new girls. It's ridiculous. Some nights there are more girls working than customers in the building..I know how you feel

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post

    This observation is also true ... with a twist. While customers knowing that a particular club has more dancers available does tend to increase customer traffic by itself, arguably the REAL reason is that customers assume that more dancers means more dancer 'desparation' thus probably means more 'bang for their buck' ( i.e. higher probability of some dancers offering extras ).
    yeah, and most girls, from what i've seen, do not give that extra bang at all. the club refuses to advertise to save money and their prices have gone up. the club always has a much higher ratio of girls.

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    Stay away from the drama and be the girl who hustles most. Be the girl who is working the floor while everyone else is in the dressing room and whatnot. Where I work, there's often times where there will be more girls than customers. I still make close to $600 a night on average because I work really hard.

    I saw you mentioned something about bachelor parties. Just get a partner who has big fake boobs. That way there's variety. I started doing bachelor parties last year, unfortunately near the end of bachelor season so I only did a few, but I banked with my small boobs. My duo partner had big fake boobs. It was a team effort so we split all the money we made but the money we made was just as equally earned by me. The guys still loved me lol. I will be doing parties again this summer and can't wait.
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    I would recommend finding a second club that is busier that you can work at occaisonally to supplement your income until things calm down at your home club. You'll also probably make more regular customers in the mean time (new market!). Never hurts to have a second place to work incase your club gets closed for some reason.

    How you can stand out while you wait it out:

    -outfits that are the opposite of the status quo
    -offering customers something "unique"--gfe, goth barbie, nerdy stripper, gamer stripper, shoulder massages, palm reading, titty shots, whatever. Find your niche and exploit THE SHIT out it.
    -change your hair to a unique colour, style it so that it is super big
    -(i personally wouldn't pick this one but it seems to work for a lot of girls) boob job
    -focus on cultivating regulars and get the ones you have on a schedule (sounds like you're doing this one already)
    -DON'T no matter what, get sucked into the sad bitch game. Keep a smile on your face, stay away from all the drama and cat fights
    -you may not be comfortable with this but up the contact levels on your dances. No extras. Just higher contact/naughtier dances. I don't know what rules you have to deal with in your area but, stay within them, just get creative and try mixing in some new stuff into your routines
    -KILLER stage sets to attract customers

    Hope things pick up soon!!!
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    ^thanks that was very helpful. thats exactly what i've been doing with my dances, just making them super sultry and intimate and naughty ( with no extras tho), and i've been keeping waay out of the way of the drama lol. good advice! thanks! i should go shopping for some new outfits

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    Quote Originally Posted by Odette View Post
    I would recommend finding a second club that is busier that you can work at occaisonally to supplement your income until things calm down at your home club. You'll also probably make more regular customers in the mean time (new market!). Never hurts to have a second place to work incase your club gets closed for some reason.

    How you can stand out while you wait it out:

    -outfits that are the opposite of the status quo
    -offering customers something "unique"--gfe, goth barbie, nerdy stripper, gamer stripper, shoulder massages, palm reading, titty shots, whatever. Find your niche and exploit THE SHIT out it.
    -change your hair to a unique colour, style it so that it is super big
    -(i personally wouldn't pick this one but it seems to work for a lot of girls) boob job
    -focus on cultivating regulars and get the ones you have on a schedule (sounds like you're doing this one already)
    -DON'T no matter what, get sucked into the sad bitch game. Keep a smile on your face, stay away from all the drama and cat fights
    -you may not be comfortable with this but up the contact levels on your dances. No extras. Just higher contact/naughtier dances. I don't know what rules you have to deal with in your area but, stay within them, just get creative and try mixing in some new stuff into your routines
    -KILLER stage sets to attract customers

    Hope things pick up soon!!!
    This is soooo true!!! I actually do have the goth barbie thing going on hahaha & most guys love it I always play fun stuff on stage that the crowd might be into & make sure I SMILE SMILE SMILE!!!! However, the same thing happened at my old club in Hollywood, & I recently quit to go on the road for awhile, so i know how irritating it can be. I hated most of the girls there anyway, nothing but drama & cutthroat bitches.

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    odette - thank you sooo much !
    simone - Manager at the last club I worked at, called it Spring Fever.
    He couldn't believe every year - how many high schoolers turned 18 in recent months - and resolved during spring break to get a job as a dancer before graduating ! Every day he would interview a dozen girls - and it went for days.

    They go as quickly as they come :-)
    By summer it gets back to normal.

    Sometimes I have asked a customer what sorta dance would turn them on. I do add cheerfully - "without breaking rules and laws. Don't want both of us to be kicked out." Also give them choice of outfit to wear for next set. I only do this with regulars as I'm comfortable with it. Responses have lot of variety and definetely interesting ! Custies are generally pleased to be asked and do open up and feel liberated. I'm blessed to be making 80% of income from regulars. Avoids the painful hustle from jerks and assholes.

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    yeah exactly, im the regulars kind of girl, some girls make money getting dances from every guy in the place but i usually go the route of just a few spending a lot or having a ton of regulars..its easier work for the same amount or more! im in kind of a bind with the outfits idea because the manager is a complete nazi and its like walking on eggshells trying to get him to approve outfits. i earn money in school girl and he's turned that down so im trying to find a way around it. he wants us to dress in all gowns, blecchhh, even though the rules state differently. ill stick around for the regs but i think i may try other clubs as well just for the freedom of wearing the oufits i want!! i also want to take pole classes because in my club a lot of the customers throw big money on stage for that

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    blah i feel your pain simone so nervous to go back to work and have there be a million girls then NO ONE will make money. wish they would put a cap on new girls... especially DUMB new girls. then maybe let go of the "repeat offenders" (ie girls who keep getting fired for doing stupid shit then are back the next day....)

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    yeah they said they have 16-17 girls from tuesday to saturday and more walk in too yeah, i feel like they are just being super greedy and not even caring.

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    Not surprised to hear this. This very forum (or the vast internet in general) highlighting aspects of what was once a 'hidden profession' from the rest of society, is a major part of the continued saturation of this business --incl. other adult work.

    I try to limit my posts but I can see now that I'm being a hypocrite.

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    i'd still rather risk it and have a support system though, this site is invaluable.i think people have always known there were strippers, i think it has more to do with the fact that there is a big shortage of jobs out there, and society getting more comfortable with female sexuality ( which i totally support! but its a downside).

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