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    Hey,

    I've been camming for 3 weeks now & thanks to all of you I'm slowly working my way up as a cammodel. However, there's a few definitions I need help with. 1) what exactly is a voyeur show? And do you do this in exclusive chat? 2) what the hell is cuckold? I had a guy ask me if I did cuckolding but I had no clue on what the hell it was, though I've seen many girls list it in their room topic. If you don't feel like explaining but know a link on SW that describes all these terms I keep seeing thrown around I would love to have it. Thanks~ SM newbie.

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    Default Re: New to this don't blame me!!

    Don't blame you.. for being new?

    As in: You're new, how on Earth are you possibly supposed to know what these terms mean?
    As in: In which conceivable way does a newcomer go about uncovering such elusive mysteries?

    If anything, being new should surely mean these terms are fresh in your mind - from the work you put in to researching your biz?
    Am I alone?

    No offence meant, but you honestly have all the time in the world to research these terms, and so with all the kindness in the world, if you aren't to blame, who is?

    There are so many new models who ask to be spoonfed the basics... from all the others who actually bothered to get their virtual ass over to a search engine, tube site, sex books, etc to do their work.

    On another note, it makes me sad to think that such vast fetishes (many of which, for many of us, require work and study put into how to understand them from the actual perspective of the fetishist / client to understand what they're looking for; perform them; perfect them; be them; to the best of your ability for your audience...) boil down to the simplest, shallow tag-words in the camming world. Because honestly, anyone can say to you "oh this means this", and "that means that". Believe me, caring about your work enough to bother finding out what these mean for yourself, and finding your own individual way to make them your art will benefit you, your clients and your income more than anything else.




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    Here are some links for you:
    http://bit.ly/ZJuMJu
    http://bit.ly/AdBce1

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    Default Re: New to this don't blame me!!

    Ok, thank you.

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    I thought Google was broken or something.

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    Default Re: New to this don't blame me!!

    1. Often people define voyeur differently in practice. In camming for some it is a XXX show with no interaction, others it is just you doing what youd do without people watching but half naked, for others it is you fully dressed just truly 100% going about your day. I think the latter is gradually becoming out of fashion except for some voyeur-experts (at least the vanilla version of paying for it) but it used to be huge years ago at least from testimonials from the "first" camgirls. The 'strict' definition of voyeur I personally tend to experience most as 'ignore fetish' than what custies mean by 'voyeur'... but, that ime? It may differ for you or for others though.

    2. Cuckolding again it can be diffferently in practice. It can mean you bring 2 men on cam and have one in the corner sobbing while you fuck the other one and it is revealed the one in the corner is your longtime husband, it could be a 2person couple show where the guy and girl are taunting the viewer, it can be a model with a toy taunting the viewer abt cocksizes (where it overlaps with SPH), it can be where a guy cums in another guys ass and demands the viewer suck it out while farting a big bubbly cumpie, it can be a girl sensually moaning about cheating on you and no explicit verbal humiliation is involved at all, it can be where the viewer truly believes youre his girlfriend (roleplay maybe) and youre confessing to cheating, it can be the viewer talking abt being cheated on and trying to resolve his feelngs or his fantasies of it, it can be where the viewer pretends to be his partner and asks you to coax her into cheating, it can be where he fantasizes about his partner being a mega-slut and you both talk about her epic adventures of sex and smut, it can be HIM cuckolding his wife, it can somehow involve racial overtones to his inferior cock being why you/hispartner/even him must cheat on his wife.... There is truly no single definition of cuckoding in practice on cam.


    Basically (subtly) asking the customer what they mean in both scenarios helps dramatically. Or just adapability and just 'doing it' helps you figure out what people mean... bc the customer doesnt mean what you mean and sometimes neither you nor the customer know the strict definition.

    Camming is its own strange hivemind in a way where strict definitions cant universally apply. For example, on other parts of the internet Ive found 'bb' is used with a bit of lulz, but on cam youll find guys who mean it 100% seriously. Like 'my sweet adoring beautiful baby I want to make sweet love to' = bb.

    So the more you work, the quicker you pickup how definitions shift. A lot of camming and learning is just osmosis. Googling the definitions help but just... doing it an figuring out where you fit (or where the customers you attract fit) helps even more.

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    ^^Ditto this. I still research fetishes every single day and I sell fetish porn for a living. Welcome welcome, and happy reading




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    Default Re: New to this don't blame me!!

    A good way to learn about different fetishes out there is going through the category list on c4s. I've learned so much that way. I 'm very obssesive compulsive so I can spend hours doing that. What I do is go through the list, then google the term and then look for videos. In my opinion is very helpful

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    Default Re: New to this don't blame me!!

    Thank You Special_K, Maryjaynexo, ABigNerd, DarlaSummers and Roast! I googled the fetishes before I asked the question but I didn't get a chance to go in depth with them and that's why I asked because I didn't know how to actually act them out. Not that I was looking to be "spoonfed" but just a little more info from vets. I've been stalking this site since December, got all the recommended equipment, followed many of the suggestions from those on this site and finally started camming. Now that I'm camming and getting my feet wet, I realized its time to start phase 2, which was learn fetishes. I understand some of the comments and I do get it, I definitely have more researching to do and I totally respect the art of camming and what is required to be successful as so many of you are. However, in my day job when a new teacher comes into my classroom and though he/she may be confident in their teaching abilities, they often have questions regarding what to do and how to handle a student. I don't get slick at the mouth and tell them "Dude, you got your teaching degree so go read one of the books they give us on teaching" and kick them out my classroom. A simple tip or two from my learned experience in the field and pointing them in the right direction for additional information is what I offer. I appreciate those who did respond, regardless of attitude, or not. Your recommendations were extremely helpful.

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