Okay stripperweb, hit me with your best shot ;-)
Let me preface by saying I've run the gamut of SC experiences over many years, especially in Vegas where I used to frequent for both work and pleasure. I've been on this forum for a number of years. I would not consider myself a noob at all. I've dated a stripper before, and I'm also happily married for the last 7 years.
These days I'm in my local city, and there's a bikini bar very close to my residence. I started going there about 3 years ago since it's so close, drinks are better than any other bar in my area, and I get to be in the presence of you lovely ladies. My wife knows I go there, although she might not know the real frequency I visit.
Really though, I usually come in for a short time, have a drink or two, keep to myself, email and browse on my phone, do work stuff, but I almost always tip stage dancers who come by, just as a courtesy, even if I haven't glanced a peek the entire time.
Now, over several years I've met all the dancers and know them by name, many know me. On occasion I've spent time chatting with them, I generally pay them for their time sitting with me, and if they ask for a dance, I usually oblidge. No biggie. I've actually gotten to know a number of them reasonably well, I think.
Then, out-of-the-blue, one of the girls whom I've known OTC prior only vaguely before comes by...she's dancing now, okay cool. But, in this case, I'm instantly smitten with her.
We make a connection and over a few weeks she gives me her number and adds me on facebook, this is her real facebook as I knew her name prior, It's hard to fake a facebook account when her mom, brothers and sister are on it, I think.
We start texting regularly, and meet OTC for casual meals (no $$). But now I go into the club to see her specifically, leave work early, and now I'll buy extended dances from her. Sometimes we just hang out. She's gangbusters fun to be around.
Our conversation and texts are sexually charged to a degree, I have no intention of having a sexual relationship with this girl (I'd love to kiss her, which is a big no I understand), but I love the enticement, tension, and conversation.
We've spoken about future meetups that include jogging or hiking, fairly innocuous I would say, I do that with other girls, except I like her in a way that is less than platonic.
I think I could happily visit her ITC and OTC, give her a car payments worth of dances a month, and I figure this will have to end sometime soon, perhaps even tomorrow. I'm cool with that.
But I like her, a lot. I don't want to hurt her, and I don't want her to hurt me. We've already crossed the line.
I expect you all to tell me to run for hills. Or that I'm a cheating philanderer. But I have life-long friends whom are dancers and I see them as nothing else as people whom I appreciate for who they are. Who gives a shit about what people do for living, really?
Any input, ladies?



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