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    Being a cam girl guys will try to blackmail to get endless free shows. I usually laugh it off. But I have one evil guy on my hands. I rather not get into details but I'm at a loss for what to do. But lets just say he hacked a show he didn't even pay for and is using it against me. The particular reg I had the show with would never do that.

    He is downright evil. I'm at a loss as what to do. Either I cave and give him the chance to record every time building more evidence he can use against me. Or I'll have to fight it out getting my content taken down which he has threatened to upload to sites. And its likely I'll never find it since it'll probably be titled "cam slut"etc.

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    Well, hmmm....

    If this is on a main site, have you gone to the site and told them about this guy so they could potentially block his IP address? He'll go to other sites, but still.

    I'm not sure how he's "holding it against" you, but I would say definitely don't cave in. He's looking for an easy target, so he might just move onto the next easy target. Or, perhaps he's vindictive and he'll try to hurt you with the video-- but if you broke rules or something on one of the sites, I still wouldn't want to give him the benefit of more shows.

    We should love our work. This sort of coercion is basically online rape-- he's getting you to do stuff you don't want to do "or else."
    Just because you're in the privacy of your own home, doesn't mean you wouldn't feel an extreme intrusion doing this stuff for him and likely suffer mental affects and just generally being down or angry about it. He's also getting off on it because of the "power" he supposedly has over you, like a rapist. So, don't play that game. Refuse to play it, refuse to give him his power, and the hard on he gets playing shit like this (with you) will be deflated.

    Laugh at him even. YOU are in control here. He may try to hurt you with the video, but you can pretty much overcome everything. Think about it this way-- two years from now, looking back on this situation, which path do you think will feel better?

    Let the chips fall where they may. That way you can move past this ugly business faster and not give in to him.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BANHammerGoddess View Post
    Well, hmmm....

    If this is on a main site, have you gone to the site and told them about this guy so they could potentially block his IP address? He'll go to other sites, but still.

    I'm not sure how he's "holding it against" you, but I would say definitely don't cave in. He's looking for an easy target, so he might just move onto the next easy target. Or, perhaps he's vindictive and he'll try to hurt you with the video-- but if you broke rules or something on one of the sites, I still wouldn't want to give him the benefit of more shows.

    We should love our work. This sort of coercion is basically online rape-- he's getting you to do stuff you don't want to do "or else."
    Just because you're in the privacy of your own home, doesn't mean you wouldn't feel an extreme intrusion doing this stuff for him and likely suffer mental affects and just generally being down or angry about it. He's also getting off on it because of the "power" he supposedly has over you, like a rapist. So, don't play that game. Refuse to play it, refuse to give him his power, and the hard on he gets playing shit like this (with you) will be deflated.

    Laugh at him even. YOU are in control here. He may try to hurt you with the video, but you can pretty much overcome everything. Think about it this way-- two years from now, looking back on this situation, which path do you think will feel better?

    Let the chips fall where they may. That way you can move past this ugly business faster and not give in to him.
    Thank you so much. You're right I don't want to put up with this. I just need to accept it and move on. I rather not let someone make me feel miserable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deaddolly View Post
    Being a cam girl guys will try to blackmail to get endless free shows. I usually laugh it off. But I have one evil guy on my hands. I rather not get into details but I'm at a loss for what to do. But lets just say he hacked a show he didn't even pay for and is using it against me. The particular reg I had the show with would never do that.

    He is downright evil. I'm at a loss as what to do. Either I cave and give him the chance to record every time building more evidence he can use against me. Or I'll have to fight it out getting my content taken down which he has threatened to upload to sites. And its likely I'll never find it since it'll probably be titled "cam slut"etc.
    If he 'hacked' you I'd look up the hacking laws in your state and learn them backwards and forwards to bluff him with and when he tries to bully you again tell him you talked to your 'Uncle' in the FBI and your uncle told him that the hacking laws in your state are (enter data here) and that if he persists that you will have a case opened against him.

    That should cool his jets for a while. I have found the best way to deal with people who are evil enough to blackmail is to threaten them with blackmail back. They are so used to being the one with all the power that the idea that their might actually be consquences for their actions has them run away with their tail between their legs.

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    This is a really sucky situation for you, and I'm sorry that you (and any other camgirls being BS blackmailed) have to deal with this. I second everyone's advice of shrug it off and tell him to suck it/blackmail back.

    I would like to note that you should TRUST NO ONE and just because you think you know that regular well enough, doesn't mean you actually do. Maybe he's the one blackmailing, or maybe he just posted a recording of the video somewhere this other dude got it, or the guy actually hacked it which is the least likely imo.

    Stay strong!

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    Why are there so many evil people in this world?! I'm starting to lose faith in humanity!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Why are there so many evil people in this world?! I'm starting to lose faith in humanity!

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    Quote Originally Posted by twistedprincess View Post
    Quote Originally Posted by ~Carmen~ View Post
    I can see you being 90 and flipping your long hair, still teasing the boys.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post

    That Oprah gif cracked me up. Thanks for all the advice guys I blackmailed him back hopefully it works. It sucks but even if the worst happens I'll be okay. At the end of the day I'm still alive and its not like someone will arrest me for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deaddolly View Post
    Being a cam girl guys will try to blackmail to get endless free shows. I usually laugh it off. But I have one evil guy on my hands. I rather not get into details but I'm at a loss for what to do. But lets just say he hacked a show he didn't even pay for and is using it against me. The particular reg I had the show with would never do that.

    He is downright evil. I'm at a loss as what to do. Either I cave and give him the chance to record every time building more evidence he can use against me. Or I'll have to fight it out getting my content taken down which he has threatened to upload to sites. And its likely I'll never find it since it'll probably be titled "cam slut"etc.
    There's the possibility that even if you DO give him what he wants, the son of a bitch will STILL upload it to sites. Keep records of all of the nasty, threatening messages from him by taking screenshots (hit the 'Print Screen' button on your computer, go to your 'Paint' program and paste the screenshot on there, save it as a JPEG, and send a copy to the cam site admin). I've helped get 2 or 3 racist trolls BANNED from MyFreeCams after complaining to MFC admin and sending them screenshots. I think that when a website has SEVERAL complaints about one particular member, they're more likely to do something.
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheBrownFox View Post
    There's the possibility that even if you DO give him what he wants, the son of a bitch will STILL upload it to sites. Keep records of all of the nasty, threatening messages from him by taking screenshots (hit the 'Print Screen' button on your computer, go to your 'Paint' program and paste the screenshot on there, save it as a JPEG, and send a copy to the cam site admin). I've helped get 2 or 3 racist trolls BANNED from MyFreeCams after complaining to MFC admin and sending them screenshots. I think that when a website has SEVERAL complaints about one particular member, they're more likely to do something.
    I'll try that. I just don't understand this whole situation. Why does it even have to come to this. Why can't this cheap guy just buy a show instead of dragging me through all this nonsense.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marina Starr View Post
    Why are there so many evil people in this world?! I'm starting to lose faith in humanity!
    Whenever I lose my faith in humanity. I just remember I have YOU and the rest of the girls on Stripperweb.

    Us against the world, bb! We will make it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    Whenever I lose my faith in humanity. I just remember I have YOU and the rest of the girls on Stripperweb.

    Us against the world, bb! We will make it!
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    Could this fall under cyberstalking laws? Maybe he has something to hide also. Possible turn of the tables is what he needs.


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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    Whenever I lose my faith in humanity. I just remember I have YOU and the rest of the girls on Stripperweb.

    Us against the world, bb! We will make it!
    That is wonderfully profound. I feel great now. You ladies help me out tremendously.

    I talked to my boyfriend who's on my side. He doesn't care at all which is wonderful. I've been thinking and even if it does leak I don't give a damn. I'm a grown lady and what i do is legal.And if someone tries to give me s*** about it they don't pay my bills.

    In the grand scheme of the adult world I'm a nobody. I live a modest life. And I will never be one of the girls who are popular that people are requesting their content on forums. It's only one measly video. It will get buried. It won't hurt my career either. I know women in the adult industry who are just fine. It might give me a little trouble but nothing I can't overcome eventually. It's not like I have tons of content out there. For anyone to find it they'd have to be looking at porn in the first place. And they'd have to know my cam name or now where to look. These guys who hound this cam girl forums are a special breed I doubt the average joe would go to the trouble.

    I will take this as a learning experience and stick to my routine. This incident happened since I was a little lax regarding my precautions.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Super_Girl View Post
    Could this fall under cyberstalking laws? Maybe he has something to hide also. Possible turn of the tables is what he needs.
    I do have some really good hacker friends in real life. I did blackmail him hopefully it scares the s*** out him. I could get his computer to crash which would ruin him since he's too broke to afford a cam show. Or I could send illegal content to his computer and have him reported. I didn't want to get ugly but he got ugly with me first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deaddolly View Post
    In the grand scheme of the adult world I'm a nobody. I live a modest life. And I will never be one of the girls who are popular that people are requesting their content on forums. It's only one measly video. It will get buried. It won't hurt my career either. I know women in the adult industry who are just fine. It might give me a little trouble but nothing I can't overcome eventually. It's not like I have tons of content out there. For anyone to find it they'd have to be looking at porn in the first place. And they'd have to know my cam name or now where to look. These guys who hound this cam girl forums are a special breed I doubt the average joe would go to the trouble.

    I will take this as a learning experience and stick to my routine. This incident happened since I was a little lax regarding my precautions.
    Holy Moly Girlie!

    I need to talk to you on a more regular basis on the off chance that some of your awesomeness rubs off on me. I have no shame admitting that I would of never been able to handle the current awful situation you are facing with half as much self-awareness or grace.

    You, my friend are one damn awesome camgirl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by justanothercamgirl View Post
    Holy Moly Girlie!

    I need to talk to you on a more regular basis on the off chance that some of your awesomeness rubs off on me. I have no shame admitting that I would of never been able to handle the current awful situation you are facing with half as much self-awareness or grace.

    You, my friend are one damn awesome camgirl.
    Thank you so much Your posts help me tons. I feel really great now. I have to admit I did cry some but I'm back to 100 percent.lol

    I think this is a good warning for everyone that reads this post. Do NOT let your guard down. This happened me to me the ONE time I let my guard down and I was blackmailed the very next day after I did that show. No one can trust these clowns.

    If you've never had content leaked keep it that way please don't let it happen to you. Some say its impossible to keep it from happening I think that's a lie I have never been busted on MFC the most popular site for years now and anyone can do the same. This incident happened on another site when I didn't follow my routine for the FIRST time.

    Always wait 30 secs before starting a show. Say the person's name in the video. Have copyrighted material in the video like a can of cola. Have your stream watermarked. Or just don't show your face in pvt's. All these things make it easier to get content taken down. But the best precaution is just to be safe in the first place.

    I wish everyone luck.

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    Deaddolly I think you should join verified so you can discuss this in more detail. Not only do I think it would help you to figure out a plan, but also so that other girls can learn and hopefully avoid a similar situation

    I feel like there is something that is missing info wise which is why I say that. Does he have your personal info? Real name? (No need to answer out here I'm just saying) I mean if he is just threatening to leak it on a tubesite that isn't too big of a deal because it will happen to everyone at some point, but I feel like this is different from the way you've been talking about it, hence being able to speak about your situation in private.
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    Hmmm.

    you mentioned a bit ago that there were a group of guys talking about your MFC private sessions:
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...=1#post2363883

    ^So, given this is about again about a private session, did you figure how they were doing that?


    Tell the site he said he hacked and report him. Even if it is true or not, theyll most likely suspend his account if you show screenshots of him bragging about it. He'll probably lose his mind if you do that. Or just threaten him with it. It is the most plausible threat that you can successfully execute that will terminate his correspondence and wont be illegal. "Blackmailing" him or threatening police action that wont ever actually happen irl? Most trolly types (like this guy) laugh at that and figure 'hey I got a live one'.

    In the interim, do you know he actually has the pvt he is saying he has? Or is he being vague? Did he send it to you or send screenshots of it? I had a guy say he knew I shit in shows, he's seen it, so I need to do it. He was in pvt so I dragged it out and asked how did he know? He said he's seen a video or two of me doing it and 'what happens on the internet stays on the internet ', me: 'omg really you saw that?' 'yea, i know youre not allowed to do that here, so best you do it for me or ill report you'

    Ive never shit on live cam ever in my life. So before the time hit where he could leave feedback. Kicke dhim. He came back to keep threatening, I kept kicking up before feedback could be left, then the final round he came back and said 'youre trying to milk my money, [various insults]' so I banned him. So, I mean, some guys who are faux-hackers will say anything and everything.

    Vaguely mention it to the regular who you had the show with and see if he confesses, you never know... IDK what is in this session that he could even blackmail you with but

    Quote Originally Posted by Deaddolly View Post
    If you've never had content leaked keep it that way please don't let it happen to you. Some say its impossible to keep it from happening I think that's a lie I have never been busted on MFC the most popular site for years now and anyone can do the same. This incident happened on another site when I didn't follow my routine for the FIRST time.

    Always wait 30 secs before starting a show. Say the person's name in the video. Have copyrighted material in the video like a can of cola. Have your stream watermarked. Or just don't show your face in pvt's. All these things make it easier to get content taken down. But the best precaution is just to be safe in the first place.
    Keep it that way?

    It is nearly impossible to avoid being recorded and determining what that person will do it with it. Honestly, I think more people record and keep it to themselves than post it on forums or tube sites... but it is impossible to gauge (or care) about the degree that that is done, so distribution of the recorded material is where the problem (if the model cares) comes in.

    It is (usually) easy to get your content taken down if you even find it (no camgirl on earth knows every forum, pvt forum, locked ftp, chatrooms, tube sites and every possible keyword/keyphrase they could fall under) but not all of the time - even with copywritten material in the background. I get youre trying to advise people but there is no surefire way to avoid it - 'trusting' certain customers would never do it isnt much of an insurance policy. I think if you have an established dynamic with someone for awhile you can say youre 99% sure to an extent or you strongly believe certain guys would never, but there is no surety.

    .....Im more posting this for people who are newish and reading this. There are definitely harm reduction methods people can use for getting it taken down but there is no guarantee. I stress 'taken down' bc a pirater isnt going to hesitate if they see a coke can in the backround, see a watermark, playing music, your face is hidden, you said their screenname (they can just edit it out), but the host of the video might hesitate, so catching it before it gets a ton of views/downloads is useful. Also not feeding a troll or remaining very very calm in the face of one, does wonders. I know we say these things all of the time, but it bears repeating to prevent... harm.. So, there are no guarantees that performers can really do.
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    If he hacked you, look up his IP (if he emailed you), contact the site, and notify the FBI. Let him know that, then proceed to ignore him. Don't give him attention because that's what he wants. Especially if he's not paying for it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by roast View Post
    Hmmm.

    you mentioned a bit ago that there were a group of guys talking about your MFC private sessions:
    https://www.stripperweb.com/forum/sh...=1#post2363883

    ^So, given this is about again about a private session, did you figure how they were doing that?.
    That had nothing to do with a pvt session. This is a totally different situation. In that instance those were just trolls who sat in my free chat night after night who got mad I didn't do stuff for free without tips. They had nothing on me in that instance. I used my bf's account to snoop a bit. They were just spreading rumors etc it blew over in a month.
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    Keep it that way?
    Well yes of course I understand the internet is forever. And there is no way to prevent recording but at the same time there is a very obvious way to prevent it.

    Those were just tips to help to get stuff taken down not prevent recording.

    I appreciate everyone's advice.

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    I'm kind of confused. How does someone hack into your cam show? Is he in your account, on the site? Is it through your actual internet provider? How do you know he's for real and he legitimately has the material?

    I've been fortunate enough not to have any extreme customers (a few intense NF guys but they got bored quick) so I wouldn't even know how to spot someone who is executing a hack, in the first place. Isn't there some sort of software you'd notice to see that it's been installed?
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    Hey sistas..I've actually had a guy recently blackmail me too..he does know my real name..he said he got it by doing research on the web (creepy)! I don't want to say specifically how cause all the creeps reading this will follow suit but I'm good friends with a top model on Streamate and she said the same thing happened to her! I don't know why the guys do this..if it is an evil guy..sometimes I think it might be a competitor camgirl that's trying to scare us and think it will run us off the site but either way, for sure..report the screen names to the site and just shrug it off as haters! Dude, who has time to do all this research and hate like this?!?! Like seriously, I don't even have that kind of time! And if I did..it wouldn't be doing stupid shit like that lol! Just look at it like some loser who has no life and is bored..cause they have to be!!! I wish people like this would actually put that kind of time into there own lives! They might actually not be so miserable with their own lives and have some success in whatever they plan to do! Everyone that is successful has haters..we just gotta have thick skin and be like whatevas! there hatin cause there jealous..just delete and move on..pay attention to the people that love us! The less attention we give to these haters..the better..they might actually go away and get a life lol! Good luck sista and know that your not alone

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    Quote Originally Posted by vivianbear View Post
    I'm kind of confused. How does someone hack into your cam show? Is he in your account, on the site? Is it through your actual internet provider? How do you know he's for real and he legitimately has the material?

    I've been fortunate enough not to have any extreme customers (a few intense NF guys but they got bored quick) so I wouldn't even know how to spot someone who is executing a hack, in the first place. Isn't there some sort of software you'd notice to see that it's been installed?
    I wish I could answer that but that doesn't seem like a good idea.

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