Hello!
I am not new to this business, but am definitely new to this side of it. The wonderful folk over at SAAFE sent me here to be able to access US resources. So, anyways- I have some questions that I would love some answers too.
1. Rates. Right now, I have an hourly rate per date. However, I would like to charge more if certain out of the ordinary things are expected of me (such as fetish work). I really do not want to end up on the wrong side of the law and I am well aware of the risks of discussing certain transactions via phone, email and in person. My big question is then: How do we discuss services v. rates? I generally negotiate before any dates (escorting or not), its just kind of how I roll.
Also, I know the basics of charging for time and activities (like dinner or trips).. It makes sense but then do I just charge a broad rate that I feel applies to all that I am willinng with a client and leave it at that? Can I be an active participant in negotiating my physical boundaries and limits (regardless of rates) or will that alone put me at legal risk?
2. Support. I am very new to independent work. For the most part, I have an intermediary in the past who handled basically everything. I could really use folks with experience to chat with and bounce stuff off of. I am cool with just talking online. My city has zero resources, and while I do know folks in the business, they are in very different areas (one does sugar daddy stuff, the other is a pro-domme).
Thanks!



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