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    Dizzy BBJs & DATY

    What are your opinions on giving BBBJ and receiving DATY? I have been a fully GFE service provider for a few months now...which includes BBBJ, DATY, and DFK; however, I am not 100% comfortable with the idea, mostly due to the potential risk of STIs. I'm simply afraid of losing clients and/or not attracting enough business, considering where I live (Ottawa) it seems as though every escort offers these uncovered services.

    What really is the risk of transmission of disease? I am not so much concerned with infections, considering they can be cured...moreso, I'm concerned with the idea of Herpes. AIDs doesn't even make me flinch because I know there are zero documented cases of transmission via oral sex...herpes is just the worrisome one.

    Who here offers BBBJ & DATY? Which one is more dangerous? Could someone enlighten me as to the real statistics of transmission? Or does anybody here have a link to some statistics that are exclusive to sex workers?

    xoxo thanks so much!

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    Default Re: BBJs & DATY

    Quote Originally Posted by Bambibabe View Post

    What really is the risk of transmission of disease? I am not so much concerned with infections, considering they can be cured...moreso, I'm concerned with the idea of Herpes. AIDs doesn't even make me flinch because I know there are zero documented cases of transmission via oral sex...herpes is just the worrisome one.
    http://www.cdc.gov/hiv/resources/qa/transmission.htm

    http://hivinsite.ucsf.edu/hiv?page=basics-00-08



    Just because you don't know anyone that had gotten HIV through oral sex doesn't mean that it doesn't happen.





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    There are customer who appreciate a lady who practices safety. It may take you a bit to adjust and find them but they are out there. Ultimately it is your life/health that you have to protect - no one will do that for you - I think you would be making a wise decision

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    hey girl, I escort and don't provide unprotected services (with the exception of some DFK - hey, i'll take my chances) ... I don't know the market where you are, but I'm SURE that there are guys out there who will come to you BECAUSE you don't provide BBBJ's and Daty. I've had a few married men explicitly say they came to me BECAUSE I'm safe. So, if you market yourself right, there's no reason why you can't be non-GFE. Make sure your other services are top notch and you can even make regulars of the "I want a bj with no condom!" dudes.

    I'm glad you want to make the switch!! PM me if you need any advice.

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    Your health is WAY more important than losing a few clients... put yourself FIRST. The men that accept and respect your safe practices are the type of clients you want! IMO
    "Strippers are like pet tigers. They are nice to look at but they are not for everyone."

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    I'm so into this! I even have a shred of optimism that safe can become the norm. I don't do anything unprotected but I don't know how to advertise that either. I say "all activities are safe". Everything sounds so cheesy and awkward AND there are so many guys who don't really read the whole ad/website so they miss the hints anyway. Any tips for advertising protected/safe sessions that don't scream hooker? And tips for declining DATY without coming off like you're gonna give them an sti?

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