Hey Everyone,
I have been lurking on here for a while now, and figured I'd post.
Does anyone else here dance in Baltimore or the surrounding area?
I worked in DC for a while at non lap dance clubs. They were exclusively stage dancing, and I guess because of the wealthy clientele and the sheer amount of wealth that was going around, I still made good money. Now I am living in Baltimore, and the club I'm working at is the most high contact place I've ever worked. I mean, people walk out of dances with me if I don't let them lick and fondle my boobs, virtually every other girl does it it seems and my refusal is considered laughable.
I'm just so nauseated by some of the things guys keep trying to pull..playing with my nipples, whipping their dicks out, trying to kiss/lick me. It seems like pretty much anything goes here and it's hard to make money because I know these things are well beyond my personal limits but every other is okay with at least the breast fondling. Security doesn't pay any attention and haven't done anything when guys have pulled their dicks out.. I know there are some lower contact club in the burbs ( Millstream, Crazy Russian), but I don't have my license yet ( i know..getting yr license in your 20's. should have done it a while ago).
I like many aspects of the job at this point.. the dancing, the conversation, acting seductive. I feel like I can do it well, focus on the money, and separate myself from any psychological/verbal things customers do that are stupid /creepy/abusive...but when it comes to the physical/ contact aspect. Ughh. Anyone relate or have ways of dealing with something similar? Any baltimore area dancers got any words of wisdom?Thanks guys!



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