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    Hey Everyone,

    I have been lurking on here for a while now, and figured I'd post.
    Does anyone else here dance in Baltimore or the surrounding area?
    I worked in DC for a while at non lap dance clubs. They were exclusively stage dancing, and I guess because of the wealthy clientele and the sheer amount of wealth that was going around, I still made good money. Now I am living in Baltimore, and the club I'm working at is the most high contact place I've ever worked. I mean, people walk out of dances with me if I don't let them lick and fondle my boobs, virtually every other girl does it it seems and my refusal is considered laughable.
    I'm just so nauseated by some of the things guys keep trying to pull..playing with my nipples, whipping their dicks out, trying to kiss/lick me. It seems like pretty much anything goes here and it's hard to make money because I know these things are well beyond my personal limits but every other is okay with at least the breast fondling. Security doesn't pay any attention and haven't done anything when guys have pulled their dicks out.. I know there are some lower contact club in the burbs ( Millstream, Crazy Russian), but I don't have my license yet ( i know..getting yr license in your 20's. should have done it a while ago).
    I like many aspects of the job at this point.. the dancing, the conversation, acting seductive. I feel like I can do it well, focus on the money, and separate myself from any psychological/verbal things customers do that are stupid /creepy/abusive...but when it comes to the physical/ contact aspect. Ughh. Anyone relate or have ways of dealing with something similar? Any baltimore area dancers got any words of wisdom?Thanks guys!

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    Yeah, baltimore is pretty skeevy for stripping, particularly on the block. Maybe you could try Fantasies? Pretty good money there, less contact. People usually expect a clean dance there, but it looks like most of the money is made by doing a tip walk on their (huge) bar. Where did you work in DC where you made money? I am looking for a new club.

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    My club is pretty High contact. 95% of guys try to suck on my boobs, grab my boobs, smack/squeeze my ass, and I'd say 70% TRY to touch my vagina/butthole.. I've had 2 dicks come out of pants in my 2 years at this club, but they are escorted out by management. What helps me cope with the touching and pure disrespect is when they suck on my nipples, I just think about the last dude who just did it and laugh on the inside! mwahahaha! You have to block it out like you would a nasty comment. Guys are pigs, But someone's gotta take all of there cash use a heartless mindset! Works for me



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    ^ yeah all that happens at my club too, and we are STRICT no contact. men are disgusting, that shit is normal unfortunately..or getting more and more common these days. you have to be very strong to be a stripper, its NOT easy like society likes to think. every night that i go home i feel i've been molested by at least 6 guys. stay strong. guys are going to try shit wherever you go in my experience, just stick to your boundaries and try out different clubs..just remember that they WILL probably try shit even in the less contact clubs.

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    Oh my goodness! I worked at a club on Saturday in Lanham,MD and I literally had to stop every single guy from full on foreplay in every private area! I was even giving air dances and it still happened like what the fuck it must be these rusty ass pipes in DC that makes them act like such animals.


    Femme-insit the best thing you can do is correct them boldly and then demand that they pay you more for even taking the dance there. Make them pay you for your time and any pain and suffering you incur while in their presence. Gross guys like bitchy girls anyway so in the meantime... Milk those pigs.

    What club in DC did you work at?

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    Oh my goodness! I worked at a club on Saturday in Lanham,MD and I literally had to stop every single guy from full on foreplay in every private area! I was even giving air dances and it still happened like what the fuck it must be these rusty ass pipes in DC that makes them act like such animals.


    Femme-insit the best thing you can do is correct them boldly and then demand that they pay you more for even taking the dance there. Make them pay you for your time and any pain and suffering you incur while in their presence. Gross guys like bitchy girls anyway so in the meantime... Milk those pigs.

    What club in DC did you work at?

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    Heh, you guys are probably right. At the club I used to work at, the security would seriously get on guys for having a hand on a girls shoulder. I worked at Archibalds and Good Guys in DC..pretty okay money but a harder hustle. It's easier to just sell dances than to expect big tips from sitting and talking..some girls would make a grand a night though, and I have no clue how. I've never been a high earner compared to the girls on the high end of the spectrum, but I've done fine for myself. I find it is easier just to sell dances, it feels like customers resent you less or something, and the head games you have to play are less intense when a customer knows what they are paying for. At Archibalds and other non lap dance clubs, I mainly relied on rich lobbyists/lawyers etc. to give me huge tips when they came in because they thought they were eventually going to sleep with me or something, and they ended up figuring out that I wouldn't and getting pissed. Plus dealing with high maintenance regulars with huge egos and manipulating them was harder. I'd rather just sell dances on a saturday night and rely less on regulars.

    Yeah, I've heard good things about Fantasies. All the good clubs are out in the burbs..i just gotta finish learning to drive.
    In the meantime I guess I just gotta be a bit more of a bitch. And/or get off the block.
    What kind of a new club are you looking for/where do you work in the area?
    In dc Archibalds was good money, but the politicians like girls that look like 12 year olds mostly, and the owners/management are huge assholes.
    Good guys in known for being less "classy", but in my experience it was fine. Was less sketchy than the club I currently work at, and the atmosphere was chiller. Did almost get beat up in the dressing room a few times, but that can happen anywhere I guess.

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    You are worth more than 2 songs worth of "molestation" for $40! If you feel like you are compromising yourself, stop dancing (either at the Hustler or anywhere). You are in control, you set your rules and you set the prices. I can be sweet and charismatic up to a certain point- but if the customer crosses a line and annoys me, I decide that the dance is over. Put them in their place, and use an authoritative voice!
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    Phoenix is very bad too....

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    I think it's important to be in a club that lines up with your vision of what the experience should be. I've lurked these boards a long time and there is a lot of hate sprayed over this topic. Truth is there is good money to be made out there for those with low limits, or high ones for that matter. So don't feel pressured into it. Get into a place that supports what your looking to do and don't get hung up hating people that push the limits.

    Even in a club were all kinds of shit goes on, if management or a bouncer isn't gonna be there when I need them to be, I'm gone. Nobody should come in expecting me to do anything, I should have the right to refuse Mr. I can't figure out the shower w/e I want.

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