I dance sets seductively slow or fast and i shake my butt, no tips. I talk to guys and all i get are time wasters. I am terrified to go up to anyone cause i mean when I walk in the club I dont see any guys checking me out. HOw can it be because I'm black if other black girls get love, how can it be because im thick if girls bigger than me are pulling rooms. One dancer said I was too nice. One guy said It's cause I have morals. I feel like i have no stage presence or just cant dance. Damn i can't even take off my clothes and be appreciated for it. I want to make money and I dont know how to get guys to be interested in me. It's like fucking high school all over again. And its starting to get embarrassing dancing hard all nigh long and having nothing to show for it while other girls are getting rained on. Damn guys dont find me attractive or some shit.



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stand in front of the mirror and tell yourself how sexy and beautiful you are..focus on all the things you love about yourself. then go out there and ASSUME guys are going to get dances. when i assume they will say yes i have a VERY high success rate, but if i think theyll say no they always do. i just repeat silently " you want to get dances from me, you are going to say yes..because i am beautiful and sexy and charming and deserve all the money in your wallet!" you have to feel confident. also touching the customer's arm, whispering in their ear, sitting with your legs brushing up against their inner thigh, and playing with your boobs or hair while you talk works! good luck babe
Simone said it best fuck their feelings! You can still have morals and dance ie. not fuckign or letting someone finger pop you. But that whole meek nice thing, throw that out the window! If theyre not spending money get up and walk away! And if that club has been consistently not bringing you any money then try another one. Racist white men spend money believe it or not so I wouldn't throw option out the window too. You just gotta find your niche and your clientele. Good luck

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