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    Ok this may have been covered before but I was unable to find anything using the search function. Is there anyone out there besides myself that thinks that their voice is awful? I find many and I mean many guys that come onto my room and once I talk, they are out! I know that it works best if you are always using sound, but I dont think there is any software out there that a model could use to change the sound of their voice lol. I have a very deep voice and I always have. I was just curious if anyone else out there has this issue as well.

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    Are you greeting anyone by name when they enter your room? Some do not like that kind of attention especially since they are lurking.

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    Can you bring it up a few octavs? I sound young but I like my voice to sound sweet and preppy on cam just in case someone I know thinks they recognize me lol. Nope, that's not her, she doesn't sound like that LMAO. That and the guys always seem to think it sounds "hot". I do hate the way my actual voice sounds on video or a voicemail but I play a lot of characters and get a lot of compliments on it. I think a deep feminine voice is hot too, think Toni Braxton. *Sings* "Unbreak my hearttttttttt....bring back the nights when I held you beside meeeeee."
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    I changed my voice for my camming persona.

    It takes a while, but you get used to it.

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    EVERYONE!!! Hates their voice.... or at least 99% of people hate their voice when it's recorded. The way we sound to ourselves doesn't match exactly to the way we sound outside of our heads. I say HEAD very deliberately. The way our vocal chords/mouths/ears are situated creates one sound for us and another sound for the world beyond our skulls.

    For your particular predicament, consider speaking in a higher pitch... Men-folk find "girly" voices most attractive... there is evidence that a woman's voice takes on a higher pitch when she is ovulating. Guys are predisposed to find that most attractive because of reproduction, biology, evolution, blahblahblahblah.

    For now check this out: http://www.popsci.com/science/articl...igns-fertility
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    I've always had a deeper voice and been a little sensitive about it, but a lot of people have told me I would have a great phone sex voice, so I tend to go with that viewpoint. I will make it different, up or down in pitch or put on an accent depending on what I'm doing but I've also always been one to try to copy cartoon character's voices too. I actually really enjoy hearing deeper female voices, especially singers.




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    I HATE my voice lol. I was always made fun of in school for it and sometimes guys say they hate it because its too deep. But for every guy that says that, I have a bunch that like it so idk =/
    I try to make it higher pitched when I cam to sound sexy and that works most of the time unless Im tired. Then its hard to keep it going lol.
    And I agree, some guys are checking you out and don't like that attention right away. I know I have gone into a girl's room before and when they say "Hi so and so!" it startles me and I leave lol. Give them time to look at your profile and your look. Sometimes they feel rushed when addressed. I know I hate that when I'm shopping. Too much pressure for me lol
    I address the room so no one in particular feels rushed. I'll say "Hey guys! Happy (insert day of the week here)!"
    I doubt your voice is chasing them away. Guys pop in and out of every ones room. Dont take it personal =) It used to bother me but I found its normal for guys to pop in and out

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    Hmm interesting. Thanks gals! No I don't greet as soon as they walk in typically. It's like they will say hey sexy or something to that effect and then as soon as I respond they disappear. I try and talk in a higher voice and feel like I end up sounding mega fake ! I have had a few guys say omg such a deep voice and I usually just kick em. I was just curious if others had this issue. Thanks again for the tips y'all !

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    I love a woman with a deep voice. The sexy, raspy, deep, low-toned, mysterious, enticingly dangerous, seductive voices are beyond enviable in my humble opinion. That being said... I am not a guy... I am not a guy who spends money on cam sessions... and my opinion is irrelevant.

    Damn that status quo!
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    Quote Originally Posted by shysara79 View Post
    Hmm interesting. Thanks gals! No I don't greet as soon as they walk in typically. It's like they will say hey sexy or something to that effect and then as soon as I respond they disappear. I try and talk in a higher voice and feel like I end up sounding mega fake ! I have had a few guys say omg such a deep voice and I usually just kick em. I was just curious if others had this issue. Thanks again for the tips y'all !
    Mega fake.... nahhh... you are fulfilling their fantasy. They don't know that you are altering your voice. Only you do.

    No worries.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Sophia_Starina View Post
    Mega fake.... nahhh... you are fulfilling their fantasy. They don't know that you are altering your voice. Only you do.

    No worries.
    Good fucking point !! I guess I forget that sometimes

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    UGH, I know just how you feel.My voice is AWFUL.Its def on the deep side but its just straight ANNOYING.I cringe every time I hear a recording of myself.There is just nothing about my voice that is sexy.I so wish I could pull off the deep raspy sexy voice,Id kill for Jennifer Tilly's pipes (some hate her voice but Im in lurrrv) *le sigh...*

    I guess I could have made some helpful suggestions instead of just bitching lol Ok so since I have the same problem (and believe me,there have been many times where Ive wondered if my voice has scared off a custy or two) I done some research in the past on how to help your voice online and came across drag queen/transsexual youtube videos.There are MANY tutorials out there on how to raise your voice a few octaves and to make it more feminine if you search under terms relating to gender reassignment,transsexual,drag queen,how to have a feminine voice etc.

    DONT spend money on any online program that promises to help you unless you research it to the 9's and read as many reviews as possible first - there are tons out there that have youtube videos that feature women pretending to be transsexual,that promise you can have a female voice just like them,for only X amount of money.Theyre just a big ripoff obviously..

    Also keep in mind that all of the actual HELPFUL ones I have found are not short term.You have to work at it daily,pretty much all the time in fact and often for a year or more.Obviously,youll never be able to permanently CHANGE your natural voice but there are many different exercises/tips that will help you soften your voice and raise it without having to really think about it/work at it after awhile if you do it long enough.
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    Eartha Kitt bbs.

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    Anything is better than the stupid Kardashian or Paris Hilton silly pretend voice.

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    My voice sucks and Ive had people tell me this as well its VERY deep, Ive had people call me and think Im a dude. I come from a family of deep voice sounding ass women But Ill usually joke a lot to take the attn. off how horrific my voice sounds, it usually works...but I don't speak on most sites unless its MFC or Naked and even then I keep my responses short and sweet. Funny I can moan high pitch but I cant speak that way

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    Quote Originally Posted by shysara79 View Post
    Ok this may have been covered before but I was unable to find anything using the search function. Is there anyone out there besides myself that thinks that their voice is awful? I find many and I mean many guys that come onto my room and once I talk, they are out! I know that it works best if you are always using sound, but I dont think there is any software out there that a model could use to change the sound of their voice lol. I have a very deep voice and I always have. I was just curious if anyone else out there has this issue as well.
    Soooooooooo so so SO many girls fake up their voices to sound more cutesy girly. Just change your pitch. Make a conscious effort to speak in a higher pitch. Guys are so retarded they eat that shit up, even though it sounds So. Damn. FAKE. Practice when you're home just dinking around the house so you get used to doing it, and you will be fine. I personally know women whose normal voices sound NOTHING like their online voices, and they sound TOTALLY fake online, but the guys eat it up LOL!
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    i have always hated my voice..absolutely hated it!!! it sounds miley cyrus mannish and scratchy deep to me..i had this one guy go crazy over my voice and say i had the sexiest voice he'd ever heard and i should do talk shows and phone sex and bla bla bla, but being complimented on something you hate only makes it worse! either make it your trade mark or raise it up a few octaves. don't make it sounds like some unnatural bimbo chipmunk just because guys are "supposed" to like it though ( unless that works really well for you!! try it. don't worry about sounding "fake" til you see their reactions
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    Glad to see that I'm not the only one Thanks ladies! I'm gonna try a few different suggestions on here. It had almost got to the point I was gonna stop camming with audio, although I didn't really wanna fuck up my placement.

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    Quote Originally Posted by shysara79 View Post
    No I don't greet as soon as they walk in typically. It's like they will say hey sexy or something to that effect and then as soon as I respond they disappear.
    I love my voice, it sounds a bit cutesy but not sickeningly so and I get complimented on it literally every single day, but the EXACT same thing happens to me where guys will say hello or ask how I'm doing and then leave as soon as I reply. It makes no sense but it happens a lot to everyone, I'm sure. Your voice may have nothing to do with it at all. Most guys just have really, really short attention spans.

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    You can't please everyone! What someone will hate is what someone else will spend their paycheck on you for! Seriously. SERIOUSLY!!!

    Think about your personal preferences. Do you like certain things in men that other girls would go "Hell no!" Of course!

    Don't take it personally girl! You need to learn to love YOU and accept yourself for who you are!

    If you want to change your voice up to make YOURSELF feel better, do it! But do it for you first
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    I have the opposite problem-I have a very high, squeaky voice and some asshole in my chat told me I have the most annoying voice he ever heard. I wasn't self-conscious about it before, but now I am.






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    I also soften or lighten my voice up on cam. It just sounds flirtier and girly...I even pronounce some of my words differently than I do in real life. I don't do it purposefully, but it seems to work. I get compliments on my voice constantly.

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    My natural voice sounds like a young boy or a crazy unstable woman really. Around 12ish so I have a heavy voice and I can actually make it sound like a grown man's especially when I'm angry. But I can fake a light voice and it sounds really sexy. But it's like when I do that it's so light no one can hear me. I can make it louder but then it gets really annoying my voice starts to crack up. Plus if I ever hit an emotional point my voice gets really deep all of a sudden so it like completely falls back down.

    My mom has a mom who sounds like a man. And everyone on the phone calls her sir. And my mom's dad is usually called ma'am on the phone. My mom has a very light voice. So I kind of when I talk got both. Which when I talk I don't balance it out I just let it fly irl. My voice cracks goes really high in an annoying way goes deep and emotional in another and then goes raspy and sexy in the next sentence and babyish female voice in the next. Sometimes I have all tones seconds away changing. It's actually why I was taught to sing in clean lyrics and metal growls in the same song. Because I don't really have one voice but a lot of types.

    I always struggled speaking in one voice longer than 10 minutes.

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    I think it's cool that women can change their voices. I always get the "You sound like Pamela Anderson" stuff. I like her voice, I do. But not at my age. I am not 30!
    To me it's too young/cutesy. I do try to deepen my voice some, but can't stick with it too long.
    My friends told me to smoke...lol To extreme for me.

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    I'm not a camgirl but I have changed my voice. My natural voice is very high with a Chicago accent (ever hear the Superfans skit on SNL? Yeah that). I was a radio major and took several voice classes. Not it is less nasally and I was able to bring down the tone and pitch of the voice. However my singing voice is still naturally very high.

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